Got a problem with life and work? 200

In fact, sometimes, their dreams are really ambitious, but sometimes we should also face the reality, now the employment opportunities are very difficult, the employment pressure is also very high, and the parents eat more salt than we have walked, so sometimes listen to the opinions of our parents, it is still not wrong, we can have a stable job first, and then what? You can continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and then what? You can also have a job on the premise, and then go to see if your future life is very down-to-earth, very stable, whether it is what you want, so that you can calm down and see if there is any other development, sometimes don't blindly make a temperament, or stick to your own ideas.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with listening to other people's advice, parents are for our good, and they have come all the way. After going through a lot of hardships, I still feel that the years are unforgiving, and a stable life can lead to a better way out for the future, and I am determined to start a career and a family. If you don't even have a stable job, of course, the family can rarely take care of it, so your parents will worry more about you, and your parents want to.

I have provided for your studies, of course, I hope you are more stable, so that you don't have to worry about you, you can't always have a good professional foundation, but you don't have a job, and it will be a problem to find a partner in the future. If you want your parents to save some money, even if you do your filial piety, even if you can repay their heart, you still have a job, and wait for stability. Find a girlfriend and start a family, and then you think about doing a sales, and he is not something you can't accept.

People can't be too selfish and just for themselves. Think about your parents, they're not young anymore. Same as I thought, so be it!

If you have an idea, you can move forward with it. Parents persuade and persuade, and it is up to you to take action. Eventually, your parents will support you.

Make your own decisions about your own life, instead of complaining here, it's better to prepare early! In fact, whatever choice you make, in the end, the family will still follow your idea.

The relationship between life and work is like that between water and fish, and fish cannot survive without water. Just for the sake of living, you can do any work, which is also the current situation of the vast majority of people. Under the pressure of survival, interest becomes less important.

However, what I want to tell you is that on the premise of satisfying the basic survival needs, choose to work and pursue the industry you love as much as possible. Happy work and being a happy person are more important than abundant material conditions. At an age when you have the opportunity to make a choice, you must not give up struggling!

Of course, it may be that after many years you are tired, tired, and may regret it, at that time remember that it was the path you chose, and don't complain about anyone. But, if you haven't done it, you may be unwilling for the rest of your life. Even, under the increasing pressure, you don't dare to make a choice if you want to.

Life is short, and there are no regrets.

This kind of annoyance will be there, the family is also worried about you, they are all middle-aged, their careers are unsuccessful, the family is more worried than you, discuss with them, you must first stand in their perspective and tell them, and then explain your position, if your own children have not had a stable job in middle age, are you worried? You can tell them that I know that you are worried that you don't have a good job at my age, worried about my future, and you think that job is stable, but I am now an adult, I have my own ideas, considerations, a stable job is very important, and I understand your considerations, but I just want to find a job I like, I like the most important thing, only if I like it, I can do a good job, and I hope you can understand me and support me!

First, don't panic, deal with the problem calmly, and find the key to the problem, that is, the root cause of the problem. Addressing the root cause is the most important thing.

Second, if you can't solve the problem on your own, you need to seek help from others, so don't be afraid to ask for help.

Third, sometimes the problem is very simple, and you only need to think differently, that is, to think about the problem from another angle of the problem.

Fourth, listen more to the contact of others, sometimes the near game is confused, the bystanders are clear, and others can often come up with better solutions.

Find someone who is familiar with their parents and who has done more successfully outside the system to talk to them.

I think it's time to be young. Live your life according to your own ideas. Graduate school entrance examination first. But communicate well with your parents. If you can't pass the graduate school entrance examination. It's okay to take the civil service exam again this year. Don't get too busy because of this, if you can't learn, it won't be worth it.

Those who say what they say follow their hearts and make their parents respect your ideas are washed and slept......You've just graduated, right? Still haven't graduated yet?! I haven't been in contact with society for a day, do you know about sales?

Do you know this society?! Parents are helping you pave the way with a lifetime of experience and experience. As a person who has come over, I advise you not to take naivety as personality!

While you are young, you can go to your own ideas to break through, but now this situation may be very tiring and difficult to do sales, parents are also for your good, they are from the past, they all hope that their children can live a smoother life, you better think about it.

If you can't study now, it's better to have a stable job according to your family's ideas first, and then go to graduate school, so that you can also settle down and study hard. Come on!!!

In life, your parents can really help you solve it, but only you can solve it at work.

But parents communicate more, let them know what you think, listen to your opinions, you can also listen to your parents first, and wait for a few years before changing to other things.

There are better academic qualifications and job thresholds for graduate school entrance examinations.

Civil servants, career editors have stable jobs, and they are relatively friendly to graduates.

Choose according to your own conditions.

Civil servants can take the exam every year, and if you don't succeed in the postgraduate examination, you can take the civil service exam again, and your dreams are put in front.

If it is a low-end sales, you generally can't exercise anything, and you will also exercise the ability to be angry.

Civil servants can take the exam at any time within the statutory period.

However, only when the energy is the most vigorous, there is a higher chance of going to graduate school.

I say that, do you understand?

Originally, many kind-hearted people were bullied in daily life, suppressed in their work, and there were many rights and wrongs in front of good people, but we may educate students to be kind people and educate their children not to bully kind-hearted people. Originally, there were many examples of good people in society who did not receive good rewards, and the students who helped the elderly who fell were eventually blackmailed, and the thieves who were poked on the bus were beaten, but we may educate the students to be an excellent student who is good at helping others. Originally, many parents often tell lies, lies, and big things to their children, but we may educate students to be honest and be a real excellent student.

Most of the doubts in real life come from emotions, we all know that it is difficult to operate a relationship, not only to deal with practical problems every day, but also to have more mysteries, unexpected surprises and other items, of course, in addition to this, emotions are unlikely to be smooth sailing, there will also be stumbles, it is inevitable to argue, so in the face of this doubt, for yourself a lot of work pressure. And there are often doubts at work, I think everyone basically has them?

It is very likely that you are not perfect, interpersonal communication with friends, communication methods with leading cadres, and social development communication skills, all of which have taken out your emotional intelligence and IQ, if you have not experienced this, then you will definitely pay the tuition! No one came up with guidance, Mom and Dad didn't understand, and they couldn't get accurate advice, and they were exploring and walking, which was very hard! But after slowly adapting to social development, I know what I need and what the future direction is!

Career development planning is getting clearer and clearer!

You have to plan your future, what you want, think clearly, and move forward boldly! To get out of the predicament, you can only rely on yourself. Your parents support you, provide for your education, make you go to school, and you can only rely on yourself after work.

Therefore, if I am good, I will rely on myself to get through it. No matter what you say at work, you still have to do what you do, what you are interested in, and what you can do well. To be a person with a direction and a general direction, it is not easy to have too many doubts, but to have the courage to move forward!

The sky will not continue to rain forever, and the warm sun will light up your smile!

Why do bosses and leaders only see those who are sloppy, but not those who do things in a down-to-earth manner and are discreet? Why is your hard work not recognized, why is your work worthless?

In my real life, I have encountered a situation where I was deliberately suppressed by the leader, unable to effectively complete the tasks assigned by the leader, and encountered the unremarks of other colleagues, as well as the confusion of the leader's untrustworthy words, and I did not have a clear understanding of my career positioning.

Sometimes there is no return for your own efforts, your own efforts are not visible at all, and you have been doing things for a long time, making wedding dresses for others, which is particularly unwilling. And I also learned that there is no such thing as perfection in life, as long as you have a clear conscience, there is no need to consider the feelings of others.

When encountering difficulties in work and life, everyone's solutions are different, and the following are personal suggestions:

1. Don't be anxious when you encounter difficulties in your work, you should directly face the things you encounter, you can ask some experienced colleagues at the first time, so that the problem will be solved, don't feel face, because no one can do things, and not shamefully asking is the truth.

2. We should maintain a positive heart and professionalism when we work, so that we can face difficulties in our work.

Consult with parents. When you encounter some emotional problems that will not be solved, you may wish to have an in-depth conversation with your parents at this time and let your parents give some ideas. When you encounter some big things in your life and don't know what to choose, you can also communicate with your parents.

Consult a friend. When you encounter some secrets that you can't tell your parents in your life, and you don't know who to talk to, you might as well try to have an in-depth chat with your friends. When you encounter some private problems that will not be solved, you can invite friends to drink and chat together.

Consult a teacher. When you are studying, when you encounter some problems that you don't know, you might as well try to consult the teacher, and I believe that you will take the initiative to find the teacher, and every teacher is very willing to ask questions.

When I encounter a problem at work, I will choose to query some information through my own method to solve it, if it really doesn't work, I will go to my colleague, and if it doesn't work, I will ask my boss.

If I encounter a problem at work, I will actively go to solve it, because when I encounter difficulties and problems, I should face them positively, and I should not run away from them, and I will not encounter problems in the future.

When you encounter a problem at work, you will be asked to find out whether it is your own fault or your own technical error, and you must work hard to overcome it after finding the reason.

It is very common to encounter problems at work, so you must not panic, calm down and do it, and think about whether there is a concise way to complete it.

There will always be all kinds of problems at work, whether simple or difficult, we must strive to find our own shortcomings and our own technical shortcomings, and then try to make up for them.

I think that when I encounter problems at work, I will actively solve them, because there is nothing that cannot be solved, and if you drag it out now, it will not be solved in the future.

When I encounter problems at work, I will choose to check on the Internet or ask my colleagues around me, and then wait until the solution is almost complete, and then sort out the work problems and remember them.

When I encounter problems at work, I will choose to communicate with each other, and then collect some information on the Internet, so that it can almost be solved, which is good.

When I encounter problems at work, I usually solve them by myself, and I don't go to the leader, if I can't solve it myself, then I will go to the leader, but then I will be very embarrassed.

In the work, we will encounter big and small problems, don't give up, believe in hard work, perseverance will be rewarded.

I think that in the problems at work, first of all, I should feel grateful for my own problems, whether I have done something inadequate, or what is not the problem, and actively correct it.