Did you accept my letter and reject me again I don t understand

Haha, fool, there are so many good girls, it doesn't have to be her, not to mention that there are people in other people's hearts Don't think that you can erase the touch and trauma in other people's hearts Even if you get her person, her heart is not all in your place What's more, she will now make it clear that she doesn't have you in her heart It's a good thing to know that it's early You should be grateful to her Otherwise, when you love very much, when you don't want to give up, she suddenly stands firm and ignores you Then you don't have tears when you cry!Don't think that if you don't get it, it's the best, it's psychological, in fact, after you get it, you'll find that it's nothing more than that!!Why bother!

She may be hurt Then if you really like her, you have to have a heart to tolerate her for the rest of your life and treat her You may be influenced by you It's just that when she fell into it, you changedWhy did you leave her in the end?She's not hurt more Men, don't think that a woman who has been hurt is so pitiful, you have to sympathize, please, don't bother her, it's the best sympathy

She received your letter, which means that she loves you, but there is a shadow in her heart, she is afraid that she will be hurt, and she has a resistance to love, which shows that she has no confidence in you, you must insist on working hard and impress her with your heart. @@ I guessed

Maybe put? You've been reassuring your former boyfriend and don't want to be with you, maybe this is also the interface, I'm sure you know her better than anyone else and knows how to do it.

Your heart for her.

She already understood.

And what about her heart for you.

Do you know? She may have been hurt.

So scared.

It takes time to adjust slowly.

You can take your time.

She won't come into your space before.

Later, it went many times.

It shows that she still cares more about your actions.

Don't rush it. After all, people have different personalities.

The speed at which things are accepted is also not the same.

Final blessings to you.

Because she was afraid that she would be hurt again, she didn't believe much in love!!

There's a play, she wants to accept you.

But I'm afraid of being hurt again.

She wants to be with you, but she wants to give him a sense of security like his first love, and don't play with others. She is affected by uncertain environmental factors. You have to give an iron heart and a desperate sincerity.

Hehe, I'm a Cancer, and I can probably understand what she means. Cancer is a super slow-burner. You'd better influence her slowly and not push her too hard, and you must do it well in the subtleties, and you can't force her too much.

After reading what you wrote, I think there are a few points.

1.Girls are relatively simple, even if they have been in love before, they may be very simple, so in the face of sudden feelings, they seem more cramped, and some reactions may be normal if you don't understand.

2.This girl is a master, she doesn't necessarily like you, but she loves vanity and wants to fish for you3The landlord should not be too drilly, many details may not mean anything. If you want to know what to ask directly, don't guess around

So, it's not interesting to speculate, ask her out for a good talk, tell all your thoughts, and ask her what she thinks. Let's see if we can try to fall in love. Talk about it when you have the chance, and if you don't like it, forget it, it's not worth wasting time.

I don't quite understand the girl's heart, but to say this to you, don't give up, try to use your free time to contact her more, chase her for a while, maybe she is testing you, anyway, chasing her will not delay anything, if you meet a good one, give up on her, and continue to work hard to chase her when you don't meet a better one.

Maybe other people's hearts are not very high, maybe she doesn't think so about you, it's best to find a time to make an appointment and make it clear. It's best not to let people hate you. Let's behave for ourselves...

You'd rather break up than hurt someone else, it's better than if she hates you for the rest of your life, and you can't even be an ordinary friend.

I think he'll accept you!

Also, you suddenly gave him a letter.

It's me, and I don't have much to say.

But I will be happy.

You try to go on a date with her!

It's up to you!

Just imagine, if you get married, you face her stuffy personality every day, can you stand it?

If you can stand it, you continue to chase her; If you can't stand it, give up, and with this time, you will have found a good girl with a true temperament.

She has some good feelings for you, just because she has been hurt before, and she is afraid that she will be hurt again, she needs your clear attitude now, saying that you like her and will not leave her, you have to say what you think in your heart, your love for her, encourage her to accept your love, tell her that people are different, you will not hurt her, don't think about the past again. Well, you also have to take practical action, care about her and love her, she calls you ** and hangs up, which is very celebrity is hinting that you hit her **, which means that she wants you to contact her every day, otherwise she will think you are cold to her. You have to work hard while the iron is hot!

Good luck!

Well, if you really like her, try hard, she doesn't completely want to reject you, but she's not sure if you really like her.

It's really depressing, I personally guess that she originally wanted to accept you, but then she probably didn't want to accept it for some reason

I don't know why, I said you don't like to listen, my intuition tells me that this girl is twisting, and she doesn't know how to protect her privacy I know you don't like to listen, hehe... I'm sorry, but after reading what you wrote, I feel like this...

You go and see the personality of Cancer. I'm also a Cancer. Simply put, you don't want to get hurt.

What, you've found a weirdo, give up as soon as possible.

Personally, I feel that he doesn't like you, maybe she can't let go of her previous feelings! These actions towards you seem to respect you and don't want to hurt you too much!

But she may have put these aside at the most critical moment, one is that she doesn't want to delay you, the other is that she doesn't want to accept you, and she refuses tactfully, and it may be that his first love was hurt too much and caused a shadow to her, and there is no idea to help you, but there may be a day when the flowers will bear fruit, if you really love her, where will there be a wasted season of cactus flowering.

If you really like it, I think I'll grind with her!

Most of the girls can't stand the grind.

Receiving your letter is people's respect for you, refusal is rejection, I hope you also respect others, everyone respects each other.

The War of Resistance had just begun, and the revolution still needed to continue.

It shows that he doesn't want to know you at all, understand you, and be friends with you, you give up.

I don't like it, but it's lonely

But if you don't want to be lonely, just find someone at random

That's what girls are

When faced with other people's requests, be sure to do what you can.

Be brave enough to say what you think The reason why you don't say no is because you care too much about other people's feelings. But if you blindly accept it, you will not be good for yourself, so tell your thoughts sincerely, even if it is negative, it is nothing, after all, it is your truest thoughts and feelings, so that others will not be hurt. Come on

When you want to promise something, think about how capable you are and whether you can do it. If you can't make a choice at that time, you can ask others to give you a little time to think about it, don't be afraid of losing face, think about it, if you can do it, do it with all your might, don't force it if you can't do it, no one will blame you.

If you don't say no, you may be more likely to hurt others, and people think that you give them a chance, but you are not like that, and in the end, the hurt is deeper.

Do you think that saying no will give people a sense of distance, maybe there is a lack of friendship, in fact, if you say no, people will value you more because you are an assertive, self-thinking person, honestly say your own thoughts, others will respect you, if you don't respect this friendship, don't do it.

I just said "no" because I didn't say it when I should have said it, and my relationship was gone for three years, and I finally made myself sad

Find other reasons to be perfunctory, such as when someone invites you to dinner, and you can say that you still have a date to go, which is more tactful.

Don't make excuses, learn to confess, and even if you find various reasons, you may forget in the future. Make a choice that you need and don't regret, women, if you don't want to rely on others, you have to be a little bold.

First of all, calm down, don't panic... Second, if you're too embarrassed to say "no", you can answer with a rhetorical question such as "Why did I do that... "

Hope it helps.

Learn to say "no" to yourself first, and then it's much easier.

I used to be like you, and I was always hard to say "no" when I should say "no", and I often suffered such dumb losses.

First of all, you must have the courage to say "no" to others, especially when your own interests are violated, you must be decisive in saying no, and you must not be indecisive. As long as you think it is right, you must say "no" to others in order to protect your own interests.

Secondly, if you always blindly give in like this, others will gain an inch and will further ask for you, which further encourages others to have this bad habit, which is not beneficial to others or yourself. So you have to say "no" before it's too late.

Don't change it directly, it's hard to change habits, you can try to say I don't know, 'vague', hehe, change slowly.

Since you are a person with this kind of character, and it is not a big deal, why bother to change it, why regret it!