Will I be happy in such love?

Although there is no talk of marriage yet, it is always the case when men and women talk about it.

Whether it is you or him, the words of your parents will be the first consideration, after all, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, and you have to understand this.

I used to be unhappy about something like this, and I still am, but you have to think backwards and think about your boyfriend's feelings.

And secondly, I'm a girl too and I understand your thoughts very well.

Now the only way is to communicate, it takes time, after all, it's impossible to say yes right away, it's not communication, it's about accepting your opinion.

So first of all, you have to think about whether he is someone who can let you entrust you for life, because after all, after 2 years of relationship, don't break up easily, and then give yourself and the other party a little time to think about it.

But you also have to understand that the outcome is not necessarily completely satisfying, and you have to be prepared.

And then you can also ask both of your parents to sit down and talk about it, after all, marriage is not your business alone, right, it involves two families, maybe through communication, your parents feel acceptable, if your parents can accept it, I think 50 60 percent you can accept it, after all, after the parents, you are right.

And then you say you've been hurt a lot, and I think that's the same sometimes, and I've always felt like I've done a lot of hurt, and I've been hurt a lot, but you also have to think about your boyfriend, maybe he's hurt a lot for his parents, but considering you, he's hurt a lot, and he's very uncomfortable.

So this problem needs to be solved by slow communication.

If the two families really can't communicate and won't give in, you have to think about it, but this is the worst scenario, after all, parents love their children the most.

So you have to calm down a little bit now and take care of this problem slowly, which is the best way to do it right now.

First of all, it can be seen that you care about him very much, whether it is for him to argue with his family, to reject suitors with good conditions, or even for him, people who pay so much for love are worthy of respect! But on the other hand, do you ask yourself if you care more about him, or your own contributions?

Suggesting a breakup, I'm a man and know what he thinks, and at the same time I'm a northerner and understand the harshness of the environment. If you have to make such a big sacrifice to achieve someone's happiness, it only means that you don't love each other.

Love is not a one-sided giving, it is a two-sided one, you can give up for him, and he can also give up something for you.

If it's just you blindly humble, then he doesn't care about you at all.

This one cannot be divided. Let's try to solve it as much as possible. Be considerate of each other, you tell him.

How can you dance without bread? The intellectual and emotional dilemma....It's better to decide for yourself, a lifetime of happiness. I hope you can make the right choice wisely. Wishing you happiness!

As a girl, I think the phrase "poor couples mourn everything" makes sense. After all, it's a lifelong thing, and you're shaking yourself, aren't you? No matter how deep you love, if in the poor days, the love and affection will be consumed little by little, and in the end you will be tired of each other, so why bother?

But you have to think it through yourself, it's your own business after all, and we're just telling you this from a bystander's point of view.

Separate, if he really cares about you, he will be willing to make sacrifices for you. Besides, you're right, his family's environment is not good, and if he has children in the future, it is better to think about the children in the south or in cities with relatively better education. If you can't let it go, talk to him about getting married and taking his parents out to live with you.

He may not be able to worry about his parents, after all, they are only children now, if he still doesn't want to, then separate. After all, there are some things that are too far between you.

Our situation is a bit similar, except that I am from the north, he is from the south, he loves me very much, so I can say that I will go to our house with me, but I will not settle down in my house, so he will follow me to where I want to go, but I promised him to wait for him to get old, go back to his hometown, if you can't pay for love, then break up, long pain is better than short pain, you are a woman, pay so much for him, he will not pay for you, such love is too painful.

I think so. If he truly loves you, he will definitely consider your feelings. Of course, it is right to be filial to your parents, but you also have your parents When two people are together, it is important to be considerate of each other.

Also, after the love is weakened, all that is left is firewood, rice, oil and salt, you better think clearly Some people say that a person is not in love with another person, but that kind of person I believe that you will be happy! Good luck!

I hope you still find a place with him to talk calmly about your thoughts, I hope he can understand you, the basis of marriage is mutual trust and support, if a person only pays attention to their own feelings, it is called selfishness. There will be more or less contradictions in the future life, women always want a good future, don't they? (This selfish my own feelings, I hope it will be useful to you).

I think it's better to communicate a little more, because it's a lifetime thing, after all.

Resolutely break up, long pain is better than short pain.

1. Maintain independence and proper ownership.

2. Absolute possession, relative freedom.

Article**13, trust each other, no constraints, no need to rely on face in front of outsiders to maintain.

4. Approved by parents.

5. I dote on you, you dote on me.

Article**26, I take you, you take money, you must bring money.

7. We accompany together, each wonderful.

8. Two people don't feel embarrassed when they sit together without talking.

9. He cooks in the kitchen, and I make trouble behind my back.

Article**310, you also think of me when I want to see you, and I love you as much as you love me.

11. You and I are not the whole of each other's lives, but we always have endless topics to talk about.

12. Stay together and don't play with your phone.

13. I have money, just spend it.

14. I want to give each other a comfortable home.

Article **4 Our living room.

It doesn't have to be big, it doesn't have to be very luxurious, with you, it's our home.

Our bedroom.

There is your world, my world, and ours.

Our bedroom.

I'm busy, you're playing next to me.

Our bedroom.

Have a baby, sit here together and tell stories.

Our kitchen.

One knows the pot of rice, two or three dishes of side dishes, a few bowls of thick soup, and hold it together.

What I look forward to most every day is to cook here together!