23. Sometimes it is very childish to speak, please ask whether childishness is good or bad

At the age of 23, you are already an adult, you have already started working, and your speech is very childish, and it cannot be said to be a bad thing, it only shows that you are a relatively simple person.

It's better to be mature when you're an adult, it's best to be naïve in society, naivety will make people think you're a bully, the relationship in society is complex and changeable, if you want to succeed, you have to make yourself mature, because it's still the old fritters that can be mixed, maybe you have just entered the society, everything is in ignorance, with the deepening of social experience, you will slowly become mature, we are all adults, we must be responsible for ourselves and others when we speak and do things, and work hard to come on.

Sometimes you speak very naïvely, which means that you are a kind-hearted person, I think this is very good, in the eyes of some people, you may be easier to bully, maybe a little stupid, but just be yourself, you don't need to change for anyone.

Whether or not a person is naïve is determined by the environment in which he grows up. There is nothing good or bad, you will understand it naturally after experiencing it.

There is no need to look at other people's faces when you behave and do things, and there is no need to live for others, it looks naïve. It's because you're happy and stress-free.

It doesn't matter if it's good or bad. I think it's better to be more mature.

In my 20s, sometimes I speak very childishly, and it is good or bad to behave childishly. Actually, 24 is already very mature, already an adult, and should do something adult.

This shows that you are simple, which is good, but it must be corrected. How to change it, suggestion:

1. Talk less, listen more, and watch more. Be smart, and when communicating with others, pay attention to what others have to say, think about it for a while, organize it, and then say what you mean. Remember, talk less, listen more, pay attention to the wording of what others say, etc.

2. Study more. Read more books on interpersonal communication and eloquence, understand some skills and methods, and expand your range of interests, and you should understand all aspects of knowledge, so that you will be handy in interacting with people.

3. Don't be afraid, don't worry about making mistakes, be brave enough to express your opinions, and actively listen to others' suggestions and correct them.

4. This society is a reality, and the relationship between people is also changing in different environments. Learn to protect yourself and be more cautious.

If you think it's too naïve! You don't have to listen to it! Just ignore him! Just act as if he didn't say it!

Read some books to broaden your knowledge, and you can also talk as little as possible, and people who don't know you well won't think it's too naïve to speak.

It's okay to read more books, look at historical figures, analyze their personalities, read more books that talk about the Tao Te Ching, or some books about Buddhist scriptures!

Then read me and read the book.

Because culture can be improved.

As long as you are willing to work hard, it's a good thing.

Knowing that mistakes can be changed, good is great, and there is no corpse in the south to abandon the Buddha.

It depends on the specific occasion, if in life, the voice of childish speech will be pleasing to people, but in the workplace childish voice will not have prestige, so whether it is good or not needs to be seen dialectically.

Childishness means that your heart is still like a child, naïve is not bad, but you should pay attention to people (to keep a cheerful heart).

Some people are jealous that you are naïve, and they want to be naïve.

They say you're naïve in what way.