Is it really pitiful not to have children when you are young and when you are old?

Anyway, many of the older people I met who lived alone regretted their decision. These people were inspired to be Dinks when they were young, and even in the future, they all thought about living in nursing homes, going to travel and so on.

But! If a person really leaves the collective life, not to mention that it is difficult for him to survive, even if he can survive, who can tell the pain, who will talk about happiness, and who will share happiness with?

Human beings are actually sensual and emotional animals, and as social "animals", reproduction is the basic work that should be done in order to maintain the future life. Only when everyone obeys the laws of nature to marry and have children will the whole world become endless. We're not talking about having a few more, in fact, it's enough to have one, and you can't afford to raise more.

If you don't have children when you're young, you will definitely lose a family affection in your old age, and you will definitely regret it because of a lack of emotion when you get old. A lot of Dinks say that if I don't have children, children won't be able to restrain me in the future. So ok, since the child can't bind you, how good it is to be single all the time, why do you have to find the other half, don't these Dinks know that the other half is also a bondage?

If you think about it like this, even if you don't have children and go to nursing homes in the future, the elderly in other nursing homes are discussing how cute and fun their grandchildren are, and how filial their children are. Only you can only listen to your pet holding yourself! Cannot participate.

People ask you why you didn't give birth to one when you were young, and you said: I am free and not restricted. In the end, only you know whether you regret it in your heart, and a hard mouth can't solve anything.

Only when two people have been together for a long time and this relationship turns into family affection, having a child will add a lot of interesting variables to the whole family. It is very happy to make the whole relatively regular family vibrant, and let the adults of the whole family grow up happily around the child and live a peaceful life.

Yes. Because when you reach old age, you will be very lonely and have no one to rely on, so it is really pitiful.

It is indeed very pitiful, and it is very lonely when we are old, because when we are old, we will yearn for the young time very much, and we will also like children very much.

Of course not. As long as you have money when you are old, you can also have a good life, and the facilities of the nursing home are particularly well-equipped, so you will not feel pity.

Now people's concept of fertility is different from before, in the past, people will have a few more children, thinking that "raising children to prevent old age", now people's living standards have been greatly improved, and they do not want to live a hard life for their children, and want to live freely and freely.

Therefore, after the full opening of the three-child policy, people still don't want to have children, and generally only give birth to one, whether the first one is a girl or a boy, and there are even a lot of "Dinks" who don't have children.

In the past, the standard of living was not as high as it is now, but people would still have more children, mainly influenced by the ideology of preference for sons over daughters and raising children to prevent old age. In this way, there will definitely be more children.

People think that there are so many children, and when they are old, someone will definitely support them. There are many children, and the New Year's holiday is lively, and the home is not deserted at ordinary times, and children can bring a lot of joy to their parents.

If you didn't have children when you were young, you were busy with work and other things, and you felt that there was nothing, but when you retired, you didn't have to work, you were old, you didn't have anything to do, you didn't have children around, and there was no one to talk to.

If you have a wife, it's a little better, but when it comes to the New Year's holiday, the old people of other families are full of children and grandchildren, and when you see it, you will feel empty and lonely in your heart.

When I was young, I always said that if I made enough money to support my retirement, it would be okay if I didn't have children. You have no worries about food and clothing all your life, and when you are old, you can live in a nursing home with superior conditions or ask a nanny to take care of yourself, but if you don't have children around, you will feel that something is missing in your heart.

As for having a daughter, whether she will regret it when she gets old, it has to be based on her personal situation, if her daughter takes care of herself or takes herself to her side after she gets married, she will definitely not regret it, if her daughter has always been bad to herself, and she doesn't take care of herself when she is old, she may regret it a little.

In the past, it was a sin to say that a woman had no children and could not contribute to the whole family, or even the whole family. In the past, people would say that "there are three unfilial pieties, but no queen is the greatest", that is, no children or a manifestation of unfilial piety. But now, the traditional thinking of the past has been slowly changed, and it is no longer people's choice to get married and have children, but more and more people yearn for an independent life.

Even women who used to rely on their husbands to earn money at home may now be transformed into strong women.

I want to live my life differently, to be independent, to be free, and yes, to be able to achieve these things when my financial ability is rising. But what will the life of those who advocate not getting married and having children look like? Does the quality of life in old age depend only on material conditions?

I don't think so, in fact, most people have the following three dilemmas.

We may often feel the existence of loneliness, when we are young, we can go out to be chic and free, drink and drink tea, but when we are old, but when we are old, not only can the body not keep up, but also our own diseases, in terms of eating and drinking will be limited. If in old age, if the wife is still there, the two of them can still chat in the dead of night. But if unfortunately, my wife is also gone, and there is no one to talk to.

In addition, there are no sons and no daughters, and the later years of life are spent alone and lonely, and there may be regrets in this life.

It's always a momentary thing, when your eyes are spent, when your legs and feet are inconvenient, when your teeth and mouth are bad, when your heart begins to feel lonely, you may feel that you have no one to rely on in your old age without a family and no children. After entering the old age, some people will have a good plan, know how to arrange their old age, what they can leave for their children, and give them the greatest help. If you don't have children, you don't have to prepare anything, but you don't have anyone to rely on.

When you are old and have nothing to rely on, you can only go to a nursing home.

If you don't have children, you don't necessarily feel pitiful when you're old.

Regardless of whether you have children or not, people need a certain way to "cover up" for their lives when they are old.

Some people say that if I have enough money, I won't be miserable even if I don't have children when I'm old. It is true that a large amount of money is one of the options to reduce the risk.

Some people also say that when I am old, the society will naturally develop to a certain stage, and the facilities related to the elderly will be improved. This is not wrong, but we do not know how far the social mechanism will be improved at that time.

Others say that I prefer to believe in "human favors" rather than money and social mechanisms. It's like someone asks, "You can't even trust your own children, what can you expect from institutions you don't know?" "This choice is indeed the most certain compared to the first two.

Therefore, it is especially understandable that many people advocate the benefits of having children because having children does mean that you have one more relative to support you when you are old, which is indeed one of the ways to avoid "being old and having no one to rely on". However, this does not mean that you will not be pitiful when you are old.

If you don't have children, you won't be pitiful when you're old, for the following reasons:

First: raising children to prevent old age does not exist, many older generations still have the idea of "raising children to prevent old age", but in this society, raising children to prevent old age is the most ridiculous joke. Today's children are growing up in doting, and there will be a big mother's treasure, that is to say, their children may still be gnawing at home when they are thirty years old or forty years old.

Isn't it whimsical that such a child still expects him to be able to provide for himself in old age?

And when the child grows up, he will have his own life, he will also have his own family, when he is old, there is a problem with his body, and the child has no way to take care of himself. After all, children also have all kinds of pressures from life and work. Children need to earn money to support their own small family, they also have to go to work to make money, and they don't have time to stay with the elderly all the time, so it is better to save more money and hire a caregiver to take care of themselves when they are old.

Therefore, whether you are pitiful or not when you are old has nothing to do with whether you have children or not, and the elderly with children may also have children who are pitiful regardless of their own situation. However, people who do not have children may live happily because they have enough wealth to ensure their own life when they are old, so whether they have children or not has nothing to do with people's happiness.

From the moment the child is born, he has to worry about the child's health, then worry about his studies, then worry about his employment, then worry about his personal problems, and then start worrying about his next generation, which is like an infinite loop of circles, never getting rest. But when people are old, their children will start their own lives again, and when taking care of children, they have no time to take care of their parents, so it is not necessary to say that there is no one to take care of them when they are old?

People who don't have children live for themselves all their lives, enjoy their lives when they're young, and don't lose themselves for the sake of their children. When you are old, you can also find a nursing home to live well, such a life will not make people feel pitiful, but enviable.

If you work hard enough, you can be self-reliant in life, save a fortune, and do whatever you want when you are old, relatively speaking, the elderly like to be lively, and it is not without benefits to have a child, mainly depending on how you think about it.

There are pros and cons to it, don't have children for a lifetime will be a lot less stressful but older may be a little lonely, maybe everyone thinks differently, I am 25 years old this year, the child is more than a year old, it turns out that my husband and I don't want children, I feel that the two of them are carefree and very happy together, and then I got pregnant and gave birth to a child, I really feel that life is different, and I come home from work every day to see the soft and glutinous little guy revolving around myself The mood is particularly happy. My parents-in-law, two children, my husband and my eldest sister, now all kinds of holidays or a person in the family will take the two old people out to eat, the family has a big table reunion and laughter, the old people are very happy, the atmosphere is really very warm, if you are with the nurse, you must not feel this atmosphere.

No, having a child does not guarantee that it will be impossible when you are old, there is pension insurance, medical insurance, and people who grow old together and take care of each other in life, and they will not be pitiful when they are old.

I will regret it, the child must have to be, I can't feel it when I'm young, but when I'm old, I envy when someone else has a child reunion, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, one party will go first, when I am young, I may feel tired of having a child, but after having a child, I will be happy when I am old, because you have a child You are not lonely in your old age, how good it is to have a sustenance, you can take care of a child when you are sick, and you will feel that there is a thought to rely on, and the child is very important

It's quite realistic, and when you think about it, it's true. In the past, the older generation thought that having more children was more blessed, but now you see who has more children and who is the most bitter and tired, worrying about trouble, most of their lives are living for their children, and the income is never enough for them. Now people understand it, which is why so many people are unwilling to get married and don't want children.

Life has been in a hurry for decades, and I haven't enjoyed more than half of myself, and my heart is broken for my children and daughters, and I am still hated by others at the end. Persuade you to open everything up, don't deliberately force it, go with the flow is the right reason, and be happy every day!

But don't be pitiful, you don't have to say it, you are sick, you are not afraid of money, you are not afraid of money when you enter a nursing home, you can't move, you are not afraid of money, when you put the money on the table, you are sick and comatose money will help you hit ** to find 120, you can't go up and down the stairs, the money will carry you up and down the stairs, you enter the nursing home, there is a big thing and a small affair with the money to talk about it, relieve the loneliness in your heart, and when you die, the money will help you mourn and get out of the funeral, and buy a cemetery for you to run around, and every year the money will go to your grave to burn some paper money for you!

Even if you don't have children, you will have a lot of entertainment and ways to live when you are old. You can go to nursing homes and activity centers for the elderly, which not only have more playmates, but also take care of the elderly more carefully

If you don't have children, you don't have to be pitiful when you're old, it's just that you don't have anyone around to serve you when you're old, and you can pay for this phenomenon and hire someone to take care of yourself.