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It seems that you are just like me! My biggest shortcoming is that I am straightforward and fast-talking, I have offended a lot of current classmates, even the teacher has offended a lot of 6 subject teachers, I have offended 4, the reason is that I dare to fight with them because of their shortcomings, but this kind of fight has become a confrontation in their eyes, every time I force the whole class to apologize, and I will apologize tomorrow, I can't get mixed up! Hey, people who can pretend to be popular in this era!
So I'm making friends almost like you now, I like them, and I definitely cherish them, but what I don't like is that I don't like them, and I don't even want to say hello, so the boundaries of the people around me are very clear! That's why quite a few of my classmates hate me! It's hate, because I'm a person, and my heart is happy!
I don't know how to talk to girls, and I don't know how to be gentle, so I almost can't get along with the girls in our class now, not because I'm dirty, the most important part is that I'm not very subtle, and I don't have any connotation, haha!
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I see a lot of people say that they apply to change the dormitory, but I don't think it's necessary at all, I personally think that the people in the dormitory get along very simply, first of all, be honest with each other, what do you don't like him, you can say it, everyone should not like such a person, if he cares, he will change, if he still doesn't change, don't worry about it, just freeze him, don't pay attention to him, if you don't talk to him, will he be entangled? It's not a person who has to be angry and pestering others to talk, people will always have shame, he won't be like this when he's embarrassed, he will always change a little, don't keep thinking about changing dormitories or something, what kind of people in this world have, this time I changed the dormitory and met such a person, then the next time I changed the dormitory, I didn't like it even more, so, if I can bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore, I was angry with him and asked him not to be so annoying in the dormitory!
Since you already have a goal to strive for, then work hard, and use the graduate school entrance examination to divert your attention, which is much more valuable than you trying to get angry with her every day! Hopefully, you can get into the school you want to get into! Come on!!!
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In fact, everyone has their own characteristics, these characteristics may be popular in the eyes of others, and they may be disgusted, but he is such a person, in fact, the key is not that you have similar interests. You like or hate it, he is still him, and he has not become the type you like, so the key is to adjust your views or mentality, and get to know him from a different angle.
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I know that people like that will definitely not be liked by everyone. I was isolating her with the other roommates, and generally ignored her when she didn't exist... In the end, she couldn't stand it anymore and changed dormitories, and when she arrived at the new dormitory, she was still just as disgusting.
So, if you can, you don't stay in the dormitory, and if you are in the dormitory, try to treat her as if she doesn't exist. If you really can't do it, you have to change dormitories...
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In fact, people will encounter many contradictions and unpleasant things ...... lifeThere are some things that we may not be able to change no matter how hard we try. Therefore, as long as you are calm and calm, don't pay too much attention to them, I think you will be in a happier mood and prepare for your exams and so on. Isn't there a saying:
When you can't change other people or circumstances, the only thing you can do is change yourself, aren't you a straight person? I'm sure you can do it!! ^
Oh, yes! Everyone has to go to graduate school, go out early and return late. Let's go to the library and take a dip! I look forward to you being able to get into a good school!
ps: I'm also going to take the test, when will I communicate?
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I think it's good for you to open up, or you can tear your face and quarrel once, but if you are a good student, don't do too much, after all, everyone is a classmate, and it is not good if people go behind your back. And if you want to win any awards at the university, you also need everyone's support. Is there a chance to change dormitories, or go outside on your own?
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In fact, everyone's personality is different, and there are some kinds of people. Some are affected by family circumstances, Sven, and generous are different. Be good at adjusting to the kind of situation you're talking about.
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When people grow to hate, there will not be some very pleasant things. There are some things, learn to endure, pretend not to see, keep quiet on the surface, and understand in your heart.
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I have a similar situation, but you can try to find her good, don't preconceive as soon as you see her bad, and you can't see her good. People always have strengths. If you really can't do it, you can change the dormitory.
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We're all about the same, but the forest is big enough to have all kinds of birds. Why punish yourself for the mistakes of others, let's go in one ear and one ear out, and care about them.
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Excessive self-confidence is arrogance, which is also arrogance. She will not change without a profound lesson.
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Then try to have as little contact as possible, since it is a graduate school entrance examination, then hide in the study room and learn more.
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Just ignore her, she just listens!
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You have a cup, can you adjust the bedroom?
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1. Always disturb others.
When you get to college, there will be a lot of spare time, so some students who like to play are likely to play games outside all night or eat and drink with other friends all night, and in the early morning of the next day, maybe you are still asleep, he will call or keep knocking on the door outside, waking up your whole dormitory, and then he runs to sleep with peace of mind. Answer.
There is also such a kind of person, they never say to bring a headset or turn down the sound a little bit when they chase dramas and play games, on the contrary, they turn up the sound very loudly, usually disturbing other people's studies, and at night it is even more excessive, and the other roommates who are noisy can't sleep, and he is like a nobody. This kind of person may have been experienced by everyone, in a dormitory, it is easy to be hated by everyone, annoying everyone, and in the end there are no friends.
Second, the character is not very good.
Some people don't like to study, and they play games in the dormitory in addition to playing on their mobile phones. When other roommates were studying, he said sourly: Yo!
I'm studying again, it's useless to read, let's play games with me! Such a roommate is especially easy to deviate from an entire dormitory, and you interrupt others when they want to study hard.
There is another kind of person who always likes to ask about his roommate's privacy, and his roommate is not happy to be a brother if he doesn't tell him, and he doesn't keep his roommate secret if he asks it out, so that everyone knows it, who would like such a person?
3. Always like to take advantage of small advantages.
Some people just like to take advantage of others, borrowing other people's things in the dormitory, and they won't buy them even if they have money. At the beginning, the roommate must be happy, and everyone will have an opinion in the future, and it's not a big object and it's not expensive, and it's not that you can't afford it, what does it mean to always borrow like this?
Also, our roommates in the dormitory often ask the roommate who goes out to bring food, and most people will give money to this roommate in advance, but some people are not, saying that they will give it later, and then they have brought him countless meals in a semester and have not seen him give money. This kind of person can be said to be the kind of person that everyone hates the most, and there are many times, and everyone will hide when they see him in the future.
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No personal hygiene: There are always such students in the dormitory, they don't pay attention to personal hygiene, things are thrown around, especially dirty socks are thrown everywhere, clothes are not washed often, and bed sheets are even more reluctant to change. Every time you walk past his bed, you can always smell a strange smell, usually see him go out and clean up, but the personal dormitory area is really not daring to look.
Every time he told others that he loved to be clean, but the dormitory arranged daily duty hygiene, but he always found various reasons to avoid cleaning. Random use of other people's things: It is common for roommates in the dormitory to occasionally borrow other people's things for use, such as clothes racks, combs, etc.
If you want to use something else, please let us know, don't take someone else's thing, and don't return it after using it. Some people take borrowing other people's things as a habit, and every time they don't have something for themselves, they use someone else's, and they don't use other people's shampoo, and they don't use other people's clothes detergent, and they never buy anything.
We often encounter roommates like this, but there is no way, even if they use someone else's, they won't return it, and when someone else uses it, they can't find it anywhere, and it is estimated that it is unbearable to put this kind of person in anyone's dormitory. People who always disturb other people's rest: There are always some people who like to play ** constantly when others are sleeping, or put the game loud, have no public morality at all, and their minds are full of themselves, and they never think about others.
Imagine that you are very sleepy and want to sleep, but others turn on the sound of watching a movie very loudly, do you feel uncomfortable? Bring his girlfriend to the dormitory: This is the most unacceptable behavior of netizens, it is really weird, there are 6 people living in the dormitory, but he took his girlfriend to live in the dormitory, and the other boys have no choice but to go to the Internet café all night.
The dormitory is a place to live in a group, and you can't influence others for your own selfish desires.
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I don't love cleanliness, I don't treat myself as an outsider, I use other people's things as my own, I put things indiscriminately, and people who have no quality are the most disgusting.
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Actually, it's just that you haven't met a more bizarre roommate!! You can discuss it with them appropriately, and if you really can't bear it, change the dormitory as soon as possible, after all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds.
I think part-time work or job hunting is a happy thing, both parties must be satisfied with each other, then they can have a good working environment, and can let themselves play their talents, if really in the unit, can not be valued, and it is not easy to deal with all kinds of relationships, then choose to leave this company is the most correct way, the tree moves the dead and the living, maybe we through this resignation, we can find the value of our lives, and we may not be able to do a career.