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I think if you are over 30 years old, then you should really lower the criteria for choosing a mate, and your peers and other people's children can play soy sauce, so a proper reduction in the standard can also make you get off the single as soon as possible! If you are still a big boy in your 20s, I think you still have to respect your heart, compared to yourself when you are younger, there are still many opportunities!
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Then you need to think about it comprehensively. Your age, your own strength, and your own criteria for choosing a mate are indeed a bit too demanding. Then make reasonable decisions and judgments based on these comprehensive factors, and appropriately respect the opinions of parents when asserting yourself.
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Although your mother wants you to lower the criteria for choosing a mate and get married early, you must think clearly, after all, he is the person who wants to live with you for a lifetime in the future, and you can't choose a person to marry at will because you want to make your mother feel at ease, so you will regret it in the future, he is good to you, if he treats you badly, you will regret it for life. You can talk to your mom that you will lower the bar for choosing a mate, but you also have to be serious and see how their character is.
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Two days ago, I watched a**,**Someone interviewed a young lady,Ask her why there are so many single people now,The young lady said a very classic sentence,What she said is:Long ugly,Think beautifully,What conditions do you have in your heart.,One by one, I want to find a good one by one.,I think it's true.,You should find a partner according to your own conditions.,Rather than what you think you look like.,And then find a partner according to what you think about.。
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This marriage is not child's play, you can only do it if you like it, you can't live what your mother tells you to do, you still have to have your own principles for doing things, what you like to find according to what kind of standards, you can't change it casually, and you would rather lack it than indiscriminately.
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First of all, you should think carefully about whether your mate selection standards are really too high, and it is okay to lower it a little.
Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, and everyone's criteria for choosing a friend will be different, if it were me, I would not choose a marriage. I will definitely choose someone who I can entrust with for the rest of my life.
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Marriage is my own, and I will live my life for decades in the future, I can listen to my mother for other things, but I will not be so hasty in my life.
I used to think that when I got old, I would be happy, but I saw that my friends were not happy after marriage, and finally chose to divorce, which gave me a great touch, and also strengthened my determination, I will not marry at will, I must find a person who likes each other and is suitable, if I don't have it now, live my own life, and look forward to it slowly.
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When I went back for the Spring Festival, my mother urged me to find a partner quickly, saying that I was not young, and asked me not to choose, saying that it was almost enough. For my mother to say this, what can I do, of course, it should be good in my mouth, but in fact, what do I usually do, or how to do it. After all, getting married is my own business, can they marry for me?
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Maybe what you said at the time, or your behavior made him think that you were not intimate enough, or there was some estrangement between you in the first place, so he suddenly didn't want to talk to you. Men are like this, when they urgently need a woman's care and warmth, they won't say it, they will use some words, say it in a more special tone, if women love them, care about them, they can receive it immediately, they can understand, and then care, warmth, and thoughtfulness will come, but if it is once or twice, until it has not been responded, the man will slowly die in this regard, and then he and the woman are together, more out of habit.
In fact, it is said that mother's love is the greatest, after all, your mother gave you life, some things are still necessary to endure, I don't know what your family, your father and grandparents have attitudes, and grandparents, since you are also independent, you can also not rely on your mother, just go out by yourself, what are the troubles to talk to your confidant, or have your own way of venting, in fact, I would rather believe that there is no mother who does not love her children, she looks for you after all, she has you in her heart, no matter how you say that you are also the meat that fell from her body, If there are no mistakes in principle, forgive your mother, find a way to vent that suits you, and don't quarrel with your mother. Well, personal opinion, if you really can't stand your mother, don't see it, the road is your own.
In fact, according to you, your mother should be a successful woman, makeup and dress up are inevitable, there is no other good way to dress up, but through heart-to-heart, it depends on you. In addition, it may also be related to the lack of physical exercise, if you really can't change your dress, persuade you to exercise more at present, travel when you have time, and don't put too much pressure on your work, which is mainly a mentality problem. You are a very filial child, very touched.
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