If you break up, you don t need to have any contact

Friends, you and I are hard-working people, we are the same, I also broke up with my girlfriend, I have been with her for five years, but I don't know why I broke up inexplicably, when I just broke up with her, it was exactly the same as yours, she wanted me to be friends with her, saying that we didn't have compatible personalities and couldn't be husband and wife, I couldn't figure it out at all, I didn't understand it, it was really boring, I put her **, QQ booked, sometimes I still can't forget, but this has become a fact, there is no grass at the end of the world, why stare at one person to find it. Friends, remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves, and may you find true happiness as soon as possible!

How to say, I've been separated for four months now, and my mood can be much calmer, but I still haven't deleted his QQ or mobile phone, because I don't feel that necessary, you just care too much, if you don't care, even if you keep it, what can you do? As for whether to be a friend or not, at least for me, there is no way to be a friend at all, you don't have to pay attention to it is the best, maybe one day she will figure it out, and will take the initiative to delete QQ or**! What do you want to do with all that?

I hope that the result will be that even if you can't be a lover, you can be friends. But in fact, after a breakup, you can only be a familiar stranger!

The contact contact is open to the public

Since I don't love it. It's superfluous to be friends.

Let's see if it's broken.

In my opinion, there is a situation that should still be contacted after a breakup: you already have children. In order to be involved in your child's development, to help your child make the best choices, and to fulfill your responsibilities as a parent, you need to be in constant contact to communicate about your child's situation.

You can't be old and dead, unless one party is hard-hearted and can turn a blind eye and be indifferent to the affairs of the children.

In addition to that, it's best for two people after a breakup not to contact each other again. Since they have separated, it means that both of them want to make a break with the past. Then, the wise thing to do is to adjust your mindset and start a new life.

If you still contact your ex, you will only let yourself fall into the quagmire of "the past", and it will be difficult to completely get out of the shadow of the breakup. People must learn to stop losses in time, and they must learn to let go of the past and make it easy for them to go into battle.

Last year, my girlfriend and her boyfriend ended a seven-year love marathon because of unsolvable realities. Recently, her ex-boyfriend began to contact her, hinting at a desire to get back together. Although his girlfriend still has feelings for him, when he thinks of that real problem, there is no solution to it, so he still chooses to maintain the status quo and no longer replies to his messages.

In my opinion, this approach of the girlfriend is reasonable. Since the problem that caused the two people to break up still exists, even if the old relationship is rekindled, it is possible to break up again for the same reason.

If you do want to save your relationship by contacting your ex, then make sure that your connection does not affect the other person's current life and does not cause unnecessary trouble to him. If he has started a new love life, then please don't bother him anymore and keep the beauty of the past in your heart.

Whether or not to contact after a breakup actually varies from person to person, if the two have a quarrel because of the breakup, then there is no need to contact again, and if it is a peaceful breakup, there is no need not to contact. It is advisable not to contact. There is no need to contact again, everyone is a passerby of each other's lives, it is fate to be able to accompany you on a journey, and when the fate is over, they will go their own way, and put the beauty in their hearts and slowly reminisce.

If you are still in contact and entangled in ambiguity, it is actually a delay in your own pain. No matter what the reason is, breaking up is broken, and recalling any moment is painful. A short message, a casual **, for a certain party, it may be a pain and a sleepless night.

Those who still keep in touch after the breakup, either not enough to love at the beginning, or unwilling, but also try to retain a little residual ambiguity, if the original love is hard, after the breakup must be like a stranger, have nothing to do with each other, this is the only blessing for the deceased true love, you know, love has a deadline, hate also has a deadline, after the expiration of the deliberate contact and deliberate avoidance are not the manifestation of not getting out.

If you break up, don't contact again, after all, both parties will find the other half.

It is not conducive to getting out of the shadow of emotional failure. Just imagine, if the other party has a new love after a breakup. Both of them are going to disappear into each other's worlds.

Whether it is a breakup proposed by a boy or a broken up proposed by a girl, the moment you make up your mind to separate, you will meet again three or five years after the breakup for an in-depth exchange. If you keep it after the breakup, your conscience will not go. Naturally, I don't want to be friends.

From the beginning, I thought about it all the time. After the breakup, I didn't agree to be together again, and I accepted the result in my heart. Whether you can recover after a breakup mainly depends on your attitude.

From the moment you make up your mind to separate, after all, if you let go after a breakup, it is not something that can be decided unilaterally, because people still feel itchy if they don't let go after a breakup.

If you want to break it all down, you don't want to have any more involvement, and you want to start your own new life, you can also choose not to contact again. Of course, if you can't let go of it yourself, it's up to you to make your own choice.