On the issue of marriage, I would like you to give some advice

Nowadays, the parents of children can manage a few, there are many such examples around me, no one can say for sure about emotional things, I think parents should face the reality, manage themselves and want to open a little, don't be sad. The future is unknowable, think in a good direction for everything, don't be embarrassed, you will become, children and grandchildren will have their own children and grandchildren. That's what I want to say to my parents.

Let me tell you again, I don't know how much you know about the specific situation, I don't think you know the ins and outs of the situation above, in this case I think you should communicate with your friends and then give advice. It doesn't matter if you are divorced or not, the important thing is to see how the girl's character is? Earlier you said that they concealed the fact of the divorce, I think this is also well-intentioned, maybe your friend's idea?

Since the two of them love each other, let's give them some support.

In this case, there must be something wrong with the divorced girl, and she will not agree to change our family.

Hot-headed!。 Two people live together for two days Let's taste the product.

Love is always mixed with a lot of substances.

This parental resistance only strengthens them.

Let the person who is close to the child, the mother, etc., go and talk to him, give up their own resolute opposition, and listen to his opinion.

Discuss with him, not to disagree, but to have a relationship for a while. Both sides took a step back. Let them remain a couple for at least half a year, and then see if the man is still firm.

In short, a tough opposition will backfire.

Parents often have a kind of hatred at such times.

It's very sad and angry, and it's impossible to discuss anything with him calmly.

And parents at this age are usually more traditional and not very open-minded.

And at this time, your friend is also very deep, at this time, maybe only the friends around you can provide some help, but then again, if your friend can't persuade anyone, one day he will be deceived or have an accident, he can only let him taste his own bitter fruit.

27-year-olds should have their own independent judgment, and you don't have to worry about anything about it, everything has a cycle of cause and effect.

Take 10,000 steps back, it's really not good to get divorced just after getting married, have you ever heard of a sentence? If Seon loses his horse, how can he know if it is a blessing? Your friend can be regarded as finding a person he likes, not to mention Aira, it can be regarded as a kind of satisfaction in life.

Let it be.

The two people in love are blind and can't hear what others persuade them to hear, so they can only turn back when they feel that they are not suitable for each other.

If you really love each other, try to understand each other's character, so that the relationship can also get closer and help them analyze it.

may consider that today's parents are actually conservative in their thinking.

They all hope that their children will have a good home.

So it's inevitable to be more sensitive to things like divorce.

Not everyone is so comfortable with their past.

In fact, as long as you truly love each other.

And it will stand the test of time.

It would be nice to influence his parents with his actions.

You don't need to be too ruthless.

In fact, both of them are too extreme, There is a person who takes a step back will not be like this As the saying goes, it is good to take a step back and the sky is wide If you really love him, then you should believe him Anyway, they will get married, why do you have to rush It is my girlfriend and I have been together for two years now, and it is also two places, but our relationship is very good Often** Although sometimes there is a quarrel, but it is better to have a day.

First of all, the first and most important one is to trust each other, which is only a prerequisite for all other activities, and without mutual trust, everything else is empty talk. Communication is very important, but the frequency of communication depends on the person, I am now in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, once a night**, my classmates also have a long-distance relationship, some call n times a day**, and even have to send a text message for a meal. However, it's best to play once a day**.

Surprise her on some special day, and it's up to your imagination to surprise her! However, your situation is more special, after all, it has only been a month to separate the two places, and there may be more difficulties encountered, but you have to believe that there are lovers who will eventually become dependents, work hard, I am optimistic about you...

Personally, I think that the top priority is for the two of you to deal with your own internal emotional problems, on this basis, in thinking about who will sacrifice first, to talk openly and honestly, open talk, don't hold it in your heart, and you think about it carefully, to go on for a long time, to be together for a lifetime, one party must make a willing sacrifice, leave the original city, two people together.

Distance produces beauty", but it turns out that most couples can't experience the test of this distance, and finally Lao Yan separated. No matter how good the relationship is, often not together, there will be some aspects of unfamiliarity, together only have the opportunity to slowly adapt to each other's rhythm of life, slowly adapt to each other's habits, and integrate into each other's life circle.

Parents are not wrong, it is for themselves, the man must first find out what he thinks in his heart, which idea is stronger, or talk to his parents, or with his girlfriend to talk about your thoughts. and then decide your share or your peace.

I'm sorry, I'll pour a little more cold water on you - it's useless to get engaged. Because your feelings are built on material things.

At a young age, you want to have a house and a car before you have worked for a few years, it can be said that you are immature with both men and women, and you still treat yourself as a child, you ask your parents for nothing, and it has become a habit, and you have no ability to live independently together.

The parents of both of you also understand you, so the man's parents put forward that condition - because if you don't, it will be a problem for both of you to raise children in the future.

The elderly are not unlimited ATMs, and the elderly should also have their own retirement life.

As for your lovers - what kind of life you live with your income, don't be ambitious, if the woman wants a famous car and a big house, then it is better to find a rich boss to be a little secret, don't talk about the word "love".

The man is afraid of being dragged down, and the woman is afraid of being dumped. There is no right or wrong. In a word, the crux of the matter is the marriage of a man and a woman, not the marriage of a man and a woman's parents. None of them seem to be fuel-efficient lamps.

Why do you want to take the civil service exam, what's good, tired and tired to help the leader make money, I feel that men should be stronger, if you can hold up a piece of the sky, you still need to see the opinions of parents.

Cruelty is an aspect of reality. Love originally requires an economic foundation, but the other party's parents are too demanding, probably for the next generation, after all, if the parents are civil servants, the life of the next generation will be significantly better. Moreover, if both parents are alive, the burden on men and women will be less.

There are a lot to consider when getting married, and marriage is a process of transformation from love to family affection, and it needs to be very cautious. There is no one who is right and wrong, this kind of thing is a two-way street, it is useless for you to worry alone, it will be better to ask your partner.

I see that your parents must be an old intellectual, or now working in a public institution or a state-owned enterprise, I don't know if you are a man or a woman, I feel that the woman is okay, the man is too demanding, the main job is that the man does ideological work at home, whether he succeeds or not, depends on whether the man works hard or not.

Yes, in a long-distance relationship, one party will have to accommodate the other, otherwise there will be problems, but when it comes to "upside down", it seems unnecessary.

Look at yourself, my boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, our family doesn't like him very much, now he works hard, and I plan to wait a year or two for his job to be stable. I believe that there is nothing in the world that cannot be cut.

It's all a matter of parents, and the disagreement between parents and children is the most fundamental problem, and young people will pursue their own lives, elope, and then come back later to ask for forgiveness.

The man's family is clearly dissatisfied with the woman? Who's Who is not right or wrong in life. The man's parents are only thinking about their children, and the girls are only considering their own situation, and the different positions and positions are justified and unreasonable.

Let's face it, there are too many such examples, and if you don't have the ability to change the attitude of both parents, then the long pain is better than the short pain.

Why don't you wait until the wait is stable and take a look? The two of you are like standing at both ends of an equilateral trapezoid, and if you pull it again, sooner or later one side will fall or exit, why don't you go to the top of the equilateral triangle first and then take a look, if you have feelings, she will come over sooner or later,

May I ask if the hero and heroine are doing it?

Lange & Söhne are all men, women?

If you like this person, think more about him or her.

This has nothing to do with being in the same place in a different place, two people are not suitable!!

If you both believe in true love, let it go and don't pay too much attention to the thoughts and requests of both parents. It's the two of you for the rest of your life. Not your parents.

In the future, you can also honor your parents. Let's get on the boat first and pay the ticket later. Otherwise, break up.

so that everyone may suffer. Listen to me right.

The woman is a little more reasonable, after all, it is not too much to ask for an engagement, and the man's parents are denying this pair in disguise, hoping to find a better one.

It's a real problem with money, if you think you'll be happy with him, it doesn't matter if you're wronged for the time being, if you're not sure, then let it go early.

Whichever side you stand on is reasonable, such a question is the same as whether there is a chicken or an egg first, so ah, think about it calmly first and then discuss it carefully, in case you can't talk about it together, there will be no way to go to the class. In a word of persuasion, both parties should make compromises, especially the woman should pay attention to protecting herself and her own interests.

There is no need to care about whether you have face or not, the key is whether you are in love with each other and whether you can stand the test. Parents always have their own ideas, just learn from them, there is no need to accept them all. The most important thing for both men and women to talk about it is to cherish each other's feelings and wish you happiness!

It only means that your wedding company there is not creative. However, it takes you time and money to prepare for the ** and VCR to start putting ** and VCR.

Glad to answer this question for you! ~

I don't think this boyfriend is machismo, and a little selfish; I think his kindness to you is purposeful.

Seeing that your home is in good condition, I ask you to accompany a car for about 100,000 yuan, plus home appliance money; Where does this self-confidence and superiority come from?

Although it is said that Nongfu will have this kind of psychology of taking advantage of small advantages, first of all, I am also from Nongfu; But most rural people are still relatively simple and kind! ~

Girl, do you know how much it costs to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside, basically about 200,000 yuan; You also need to have a car and a house! ~

He is good, with a down payment of 200,000 yuan to write his name; The loan is repaid by two people, so I make an assumption; The loan is almost repaid, and if you are not married, this house is considered his, and you both of you?

Before getting married, he was so careful about himself, and he got married; You can't take all your possessions.

People have worked hard to raise their eldest daughter to give you away for free, and you are still eating in the bowl and looking at the pot is not authentic! ~

If you feel sorry for your parents, then you can change your living conditions with your own efforts and hard work.

It's really ridiculous to say that you want to rob other people's wealth to fill your so-called filial piety! ~

Girls still have to have their own independent and subjective consciousness, although you are a family when you are married; But your mother's home will always be your last support.

Don't block your retreat, it's not good for you.

When he talks to you about the conditions, you also give him a problem; If it is a discussion, then put their respective conditions out and talk about them! ~

You just say how much your parents want him to take, and if you want to buy a house, you must have both of your names on it.

These two requirements are not too high! ~

also let him know that he can't be too selfish; Also think more from the other person's point of view! ~

This was originally a matter of discussion between the two families, and there were no fixed rules.

It really depends on the family situation of the two families.

He's waiting for an opportunity, he's thinking about someone else. I'm with you for some reason, but in his heart he doesn't want to stay with you for the rest of his life. There is also a possibility that he has something ulterior to worry about dragging you down when the incident happens, and there will be no marriage without a certificate, and then you can easily get rid of the relationship between husband and wife.

The man's request is strange, it's his own business not to be tired of his parents, why do you want a car?

Many men and women in love do not think too much about divorce after marriage, and it is normal for parents of both parties to think more about their children. Just don't worry about affecting the feelings of both parties, as long as two people work hard in one direction, it will be easy to reach the destination, if the direction of the force is different, it will deviate from the normal track. As for the mother-in-law-to-be's birthday, I understand that his sister means to respect you, let the two of you discuss it, if you go, of course you are welcome, if you don't want to go, there will be no embarrassing situation where his sister says to let you go and you don't want to go.

If you don't go, they won't be picky, after all, you are free without going through the door.