What do Chinese American parents say about Tiger Mom and Cat Dad .

The whole TV series of "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" revolves around children's education methods, I think this kind of TV series has the deepest feelings for our post-80s generation, and I feel more emotional! A family, an only child, six people staring at a child, grandparents, grandparents, parents, everything is for the child.

The tiger mother played by Zhao Wei always thinks that girls should study more and study well in school because of their childhood experience and life and their own experiences along the way. The tiger mother tried her best to give gifts, sell her house and buy a house in the school district, just to let her daughter go to a key school.

In real life, as a father, I personally like Russell, in fact, there are many aspects in my educational philosophy that are very similar to Russell, such as loving children is more important than loving a certain skill or specialty of children, this kind of love is real love, and it will not be different because of the child's external performance is good or bad (whether the evaluation criteria here are scientific or not) is different; For example, I like to spend time with my children. In fact, it is not difficult to be a good father, the most important thing is to spend time with your child every day, communicate with her, ask her, answer her, care for her, and guide her. There are many benefits to your child:

Give the child a sense of security, the child is more confident, we can really understand the child's personality, enter the child's heart, and you can really guide her.

Fortunately, after watching the whole TV series, I felt that one of the thousands of Chinese families in the play finally found a suitable education method for their children, and there were various collisions, all kinds of pressure, and the invasion from the so-called foreign ideas, but in the end they still found an education method that suits them.

The best way is not to just listen to what others say, but not to teach students according to their aptitude.

Children's education issues have attracted more and more attention from parents and society, and some film and television works are filmed with the theme of children's education, among which "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" is one of the more excellent film and television works in recent years.

The play has made a good interpretation of children's education issuesNow some parents believe in strict rules and education, thinking that in this way they can educate their children well and let their children become human beings, which echoes the image of the tiger mother in this play.

I think this kind of education method and the previous wolf father's education model are to ignore the child's own feelings, and he throws the child into endless learning for his future, and the child's nature cannot be liberated, and there are certain limitations to the improvement of the child's ability in the future. Children need some academic performance, but parents can not push their children too hard, some children like to write, some like to draw, some like to do hands, children's nature and hobbies are what we should cultivate the most.

Although I don't like the image of the cat dad in the play, his education method is still very agreeable, at least he can respect the child's interests, and it is an education method that guides communication, which is very gentle compared with the tiger mother, this way can develop the child's advantages and interests, and it is also very effective for the child's improvement in some aspects.

Similarly, the images of grandparents in the play are also very classic, showing the current social phenomenon, is very doting on his grandchildren, and cares about them really meticulously. This kind of excessive love can also bring some restrictions to the child's education, so this is an educational question worth thinking about.

Watching "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" is a completely different experience from watching other family ethics dramas, this drama can't be regarded as a family ethics drama, strictly speaking, it can be regarded as a family drama. I watched this drama with a smile most of the time, "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" is different from other family dramas, it is relatively rare to watch it without being so "tired" and worrying, crying and crying, of course, this kind of scene will inevitably appear in the TV series, after all, some emotions still need to be expressed in this way.

I didn't watch this kind of family drama, but a friend recommended me to watch it and said it was really good-looking, and of course, I like the casting of TV very much, Zhao Wei and Tong Dawei are both big names. In my opinion, family dramas are the kind of long and boring existence, and only middle-aged people like to watch them.

"Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" completely changed my view of family dramas, I like family dramas, no! To be precise, I like "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad", a family drama that makes me laugh and make me cry.

Yes, now as a parent, I can only talk about myself.

1. Don't trust children. Many parents have this cognitive misunderstanding, and they think that if we ignore our children, we will destroy them. It is possible for children to kill and set fire to people and be lawless.

Parents manage their children every day and worry about their children, and this mode of getting along continues, and the result is that children outsource this part of their own management functions to their parents. The child's self-management ability is weakened, and it is not even cultivated. Therefore, many children have no motivation to learn and are not proactive, which is the result of excessive substitution by their parents.

2. Seeing children as machines without emotions and feelings. Many parents especially like obedient children, hoping that their children will obey their words, don't talk back, don't refute, parents give instructions, and children just do what they say. Treat children like machines.

She is to obey my commands. Otherwise, you will be beaten. We are emotionally isolated from our children at this time, and many of our children's problems are caused by their parents' improper parenting methods.

3. Parents regard themselves as gods and rarely show their true selves in front of their children. Many parents have high moral standards for themselves, want to behave perfectly in front of their children, completely ignore their own needs and feelings, and are willing to sacrifice themselves for their children. Ask yourself not to have wild Qingpai emotions, not to lose your temper, and hope that you will become a perfect parent.

But the result is not only that the child has a large pressure difference in his heart, but also that he is also very tired.