What do you do when you feel like the gap between you and others is growing?

People inevitably have to deal with all kinds of competition, but what should they do when they feel that the gap between them and others is growing? If it were me, I would first level my mindset, then seriously reflect on why the gap is widening, find the reason and make an effort to catch up with the opponent, and then give you a specific explanation. <>

1.Try to set your mind first.

When I was still in high school, I had this feeling, I was about the same as my tablemate, but then I found that the gap between the two of us was getting bigger and bigger, he slowly became the first in the class, and I actually regressed, at that time my mentality was broken, I myself had begun to give up on myself, rather than my academic performance deteriorated it was better not to study at all, so I felt happy, but I also realized that this was wrong, so I began to try to correct my mentality, telling myself that this is a normal phenomenon. <>

2.The effort begins to reflect and look for the cause.

After I found out that the gap between the two of us was getting bigger and bigger, I began to reflect on why the gap was getting bigger and bigger, and it turned out that my table mate had changed his learning method.

He is now brushing up on the test questions every day, and I am still bored memorizing the syllabus, so the gap is definitely getting bigger and bigger, so I decided to start brushing the questions every day like a tablemate. <>

3.Work hard to improve yourself and start catching up with your opponents.

After finding the reason, I also began to work hard every day, my table mate is more hard-working, he goes back to the dormitory late every night, I also study with him, go back to the dormitory with him every day, and even study a little more during meals, so I began to slowly catch up with my tablemate, he is the first in the class, I am the second in the class, and the academic performance of both of us has improved significantly.

All in all, when I feel that the gap between me and others is increasing, first of all, I will find a way to correct my mentality, not let myself give up on myself, and secondly, I will start to reflect hard, find the reason for the increase in the gap, and finally work hard to improve myself and catch up with my opponent as soon as possible.

I will aim for him, make detailed plans, and then continue to improve my ability to chase it.

Precipitate yourself, because when I feel that the gap between people who are better than me is really big, I will be there. In this regard, you can precipitate yourself and improve your knowledge and cognition and the degree of completion of things.

When I feel that the gap between me and others is increasing, I will choose to improve myself through my own efforts and continuous learning, and shorten the gap with others as much as possible.

I will definitely try to close the gap, and I will work very hard to improve myself and make myself better.

I will leave all my worries behind, try to make up for this gap as much as possible, reduce my rest time, and use all my energy to catch up.

When you feel that the gap between you and others is increasing, we should find the reason for the big gap with others, analyze the reasons, and shorten the gap through our own efforts and diligence.

To sum up, what do you do when you find a gap between yourself and others? There is only one thought in his head, which is to catch up with others or even surpass him. Restrain your inertia and set goals for yourself.

Turn grief and anger into motivation, strive to catch up with your goals, and don't care about other people's opinions, doing your best is the most important thing.

If you find a gap between yourself and others, you will work hard to improve in this case, and then let yourself catch up with others, so that you can balance your mind.

When you find that you have a gap with others, you must find out the reason for the gap and make up for it with your own practical actions.

I will probably try to bridge the gap between us so that we can be on the same level so that we can be friends with others.

I'm going to try to get better. Take the initiative to learn, recharge yourself more, have more hobbies, and let yourself have more specialties.

I might have given up on myself, feeling that I was a little too useless, as if I couldn't catch up with others.

When I find that there is a big gap between myself and others, I will actually continue to correct my shortcomings and make myself better.

I will try to improve myself, constantly improve my ability, and make the gap between myself and others a little smaller.

In fact, there are many times in people's lives who will realize that there is a big gap between themselves and others, for example, when I take physical education class, I find out why others always run so fast, for example, why someone always scores higher than me when the test results are released, these gaps may be innate, may be formed through acquired efforts. In any case, we all need to work silently in our own fields, keep improving, and live elegantly and confidently.

1. When I was in physical education class, I was actually a person who didn't like sports, and I didn't like physical education class very much since I was a child. The 800-meter run test in the high school entrance examination was a nightmare of my life. In PE class, the teacher would often ask us to train and time the 800-meter run.

No matter how I run, I try my best to run, and I always finish last, and I can only fall behind slowly.

Second, when the test results are released, whenever the test results are released, I will also be clearly aware of the gap between myself and others. For example, I am not good at English, even though I spend most of my spare time training English, I still can't get the first place in my class. For example, although I don't like physics, I will study physics very hard, but after the results came out, I did not get high in physics as if I didn't study much at the same table.

3. When I was in college, I also deeply felt the gap between the rich and the poor. I traveled thousands of miles away alone to go to university in other provinces, and experienced a night of trains, subways, and buses on the way, and had to walk for half an hour to get to the dormitory after dragging my luggage to the school gate。As for my roommate, the family drove a luxury car directly to the door of the dormitory, and all the luggage was taken in by the parents, and she didn't have to care about anything.

Gaps are inevitable, but now I figured it out. If I can realize the gap with others, I may also realize the gap with others with me. Therefore, I am born to be useful, you don't have to be so sensitive to the gap, just do your best and keep working hard.

Xiao, but after Xiaoke's Dabao went to school, he realized how big the gap between himself and others was.

Xiao Ke is an optimistic and cheerful person by nature, so he rarely has too many ideas because of money and materials, in Xiao Ke's opinion, as long as he is happy. And Xiao Ke has always lived like this, and he will not feel that his status is different and the level is different because he is poor and others are rich.

But when Xiao Ke's Dabao went to school, Xiao Ke found that the difference between poverty and wealth in this society was so obvious. Xiao Ke Dabao wants to go to kindergarten, a very good kindergarten close to home, Xiao Ke happily went to line up and waited for registration, but because the school is better, it attracted a lot of parents of students to queue up, and at this time there are some parents who drive luxury cars directly do not have to queue up, and are received by the teachers in the school. At this time, Xiao Ke just felt that it was good to be rich.

But after a while, there was a little boy from a relatively ordinary family, who was also fighting with a little girl for toys, and the teacher walked over and asked the little boy to stick the baked cake (standing on the wall). Maybe this is just the teacher's subconscious behavior, but it makes Xiao Ke feel that the difference between the rich and the poor is so obvious.

Usually parents will line up to pick up their babies, usually in front of the classroom, and then wait for the teacher to call their babies out one by one. You Xiaoke often saw the mother of this rich boy as soon as she came, and the teacher always held hands and said what the little boy was doing today, how much he ate, and what happened at noon. Once it was Xiao Ke's turn to pick up Dabao, Xiao Ke held Xiao Bao and lined up for a while and was a little tired, the teacher pulled the mother of the rich child and said that the child had changed in the past few days, Xiao Ke waited for three or four minutes and did not end, Xiao Ke was very tired holding Xiao Bao, so he could only interrupt the teacher, the teacher called Dabao's name, Xiao Ke waited for Da Bao to come out for about 30 seconds, and asked the teacher if Da Bao had a nap at noon today, (because Da Bao always does not sleep during naps).

The teacher said she should go to sleep, and you can ask her later.

At that time, Xiao Ke really felt that it was good to be rich, differential treatment was too easy to happen in our lives, and the gap between himself and others sometimes needed to be measured by the amount of money.

When you do something, others can do it easily, even if you work hard, you haven't achieved the expected results, and you feel that the gap is quite big.

When I didn't have a house, a car or a wife, my friend had everything with the help of my family, which made me realize the gap between me and others.

When I didn't even have a small house of my own, my cousin bought a big house with the help of his family, which made me realize the gap between myself and others.

When I went out to travel with a group, I saw how nourishing other people's lives were, and I realized the gap.

I think it should be when I go to the mall and find that I can't afford it, so I realize the gap between myself and others.

When I failed the college entrance examination, I realized the gap between myself and others, and felt that my life would not be brilliant from now on.

But when I first entered the society, I didn't understand anything, and at this time I realized that the gap between myself and others was very big.

When someone else is a leader and I am still a staff member, then I realize the gap with others.

Since you have found that the gap between yourself and others is very big, why not save yourself from this moment and work hard to change the status quo, and work hard to live and work hard to narrow this gap?

Since I can't compare with others, I have to work harder, my family is in a very ordinary second-tier city, the family conditions are ordinary on that day, and the well-off family is not particularly wealthy, but the daily food and clothing can definitely be satisfied, and occasionally you can also be extravagant. When I was in high school at home, I really didn't feel that there was much difference between myself and other people's families, because every family was actually the same, but after I went to college, I deeply felt the gap. Most of the people in the dormitory are from very privileged families, and our family is really poor in comparison.

At the beginning, I was under a lot of pressure and felt that I had lost at the starting line, but after a long time, I made up my mind that since we were already one step behind others, what we had to do was not to fall down, not to feel sorry for ourselves, but to work harder.

I will study hard, work hard, and constantly improve myself to become a better person, so as to reduce the gap between me and others.

I will use my strengths to reach out to their weaknesses, so that the gap between them will be reduced.

By changing my personality, I made my personality more lively and cheerful. This makes it easier to approach others, thus reducing the sense of disparity.

I will make myself lively and cheerful, learn a lot of things, so that I can have common topics with many people, and I will also close the gap with others.

In life, I will continue to improve myself and improve myself, so that I can reduce the gap with others and make myself better.

To reduce the gap with others, we must first start from ourselves, learn more from excellent people, correct our bad living habits and study habits, ask more questions, listen more and talk less.

As long as you're not bad, there's too much pressure in this era, and the fast-paced life will fall behind from time to time!

Try to cater to them, reduce the distance between you and everyone, and don't make yourself like aliens.

The gap is also closed by people, as long as you can do your best.

I often have this kind of spirit, and sometimes I need the spirit of Ah Q.

I don't know what you mean, just do your best to do your best, don't compare yourself with others, just compare with yourself, as long as you are improving every day.

It depends on who you compare yourself with, don't compare yourself with others, just compare yourself with your past, and see if you are improving.

Ask others for advice, study your own, and reduce the gap with others.

In action, we must try to catch up. Be relaxed in your mind. You don't have to compare yourself to anyone.

Just be yourself, and be content.

Work hard! You can too!

Try to catch up or go with the flow.

Go your own way and let others run.

Hurry up and improve your shortcomings

Study, you can go to the book, supplement.

Either try to surpass him or leave him!!

We must try to close the gap, dear.

Work hard, as long as you have worked hard, even if the gap is big, there is nothing to say.

Man is more man, than dead. Don't take it too seriously.

There are many gaps in the ability to solve household chores.