On the day you got married, how reluctant was your brother and family to you?

Marriage is a joyous event and something to celebrate. But for most families who marry daughters, it is always uncomfortable to marry their daughters who have been raised for more than 20 years to someone else's family. Many families will be very reluctant when marrying their daughters, so it is common to cry and send their daughters to marry.

It wasn't until the day I got married that I realized how reluctant my family was to me.

I was born in a family of four, mom and dad and a little brother who is three years old. Because of the small age gap with his younger brother, the relationship has been particularly good since he was a child. On the day I got married, my brother hugged me and cried.

He cried and told me at the same time, let me rest assured, if my mother-in-law's family bullied me in the future, he would definitely give me a head. In fact, when I got married, I was very nervous, but after listening to my brother's words, I suddenly felt that there was nothing to be afraid of.

And my father, who is not good at talking, is a man who is like a special feudal patriarch. I originally thought that such a serious father would not have any out-of-control situation in his life. But when I was picked up by the wedding car, I looked back at my dad and I saw him wiping tears there.

For a big man who has to endure not crying when he is injured, marrying his daughter will secretly wipe his tears, which is enough to prove his reluctance. Although my father's love was not expressed in words, I could see that he was really reluctant to let me get married. Not to mention my mom, who held me and cried for a long time on my wedding day.

She said that her daughter was growing up and was going to get married, so she couldn't bear it.

In fact, for most families with daughters, the marriage of a daughter is really a happy and sad thing. Seeing that the daughter he raised went to someone else's house like this, everyone was sad. The family's love for themselves is real, even if they don't usually show it, they can't hide it at critical times.

So, be kind to your family.

On the day of the wedding, my parents and younger brother were in tears and looked at me silently. In their eyes, I could see the reluctance.

My brother was crying because he didn't want me to leave, and my mom and dad didn't have any special expressions, but I could still feel their reluctance to let me go.

They would be very reluctant to me, they would cry a lot on the wedding day, and they would say something sad.