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I think my boyfriend is a super person who doesn't dislike me, usually I can treat him however I want, as long as I don't touch his bottom line, I don't think he will dislike me!
I remember going to the supermarket last semester to buy my aunt's towel, because I went to the supermarket with him, so I walked there with him, and I asked him if he wanted to go, and he said it was okay. Then the aunt next to me kept looking at us and felt like I was blushing. He looked at sanitary napkins more seriously than me, and asked me how old I was, although I am a person who doesn't know so much about this aspect, but he is so dislike to choose sanitary napkins for me, I really think it's good, you can come in the future.
Another time was the day after the summer vacation, because my dad accidentally broke the leg of someone else's puppy while driving, although my dad had a certain responsibility, but he shirked the responsibility for the owner of the puppy, and it was all our fault, so I was scared to cry. I originally wanted to call ** to ask the nearby pet hospital in**, who knew that my boyfriend hurried over, and then my snot and tears were all wiped on him. I cried so pitifully at the time, I didn't think about it so much, and when that incident passed, I suddenly realized this incident, and found that he not only disliked it, but also told me not to cry so easily next time, but I will still let me wipe my snot and tears on him in the future.
I think my boyfriend really doesn't dislike me in these two things, after all, it's so embarrassing to buy an aunt's towel, and it's quite reverie to walk on the street wearing clothes with snot and tears, but he can not dislike me in these things, and he is really content.
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Summary. Good evening, honey I'm glad to answer for you, according to your description: my boyfriend always says that I don't dislike you, it's that he likes you very much, and he doesn't care about everything about you.
Maybe your appearance is not outstanding, maybe your appearance has some physical defects, maybe you have a relationship history or some other things, but this can't stop him from loving you, because he loves you so he doesn't care about your past, in his heart you are irreplaceable.
Good evening, honey I'm glad to answer for you, according to your description: my boyfriend always says that I don't dislike you, it's that he likes you very much, and he doesn't care about everything about you. Maybe your appearance is not outstanding, maybe your appearance has some physical defects, maybe you have a relationship history or some other things, but this can't stop him from loving you, because he loves you so he doesn't care about your past, in his heart you are irreplaceable.
The reason why the teacher analyzes this way is that a man always says that he doesn't dislike you, because he has been thinking about you in his heart, and you are her only choice, which is his way of expressing love for you.
You come to ask this question, it means that you have him in your heart, but you don't know much about your boyfriend's behavior, what kind of person is he in your eyes? You can talk to the teacher, let the teacher help you prescribe the right medicine, so that you can get along as well as possible.
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Summary. There's a reason for him to say this, he may think that he is in a better condition, or you have obvious shortcomings in you that make him feel a certain sense of superiority, so he says this.
Hello, I am Deng Wenxin, a psychological counselor, who is good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation
There's a reason for him to say this, he may think that he is in a better condition, or you have obvious shortcomings in you that make him feel a certain sense of superiority, so he says this.
I'm slightly fat, he always says I'm fat but not fat, always says he doesn't dislike me, and says I'm fat, my legs are thicker than his waist, he is 100 pounds thin, he graduated from college, I didn't finish junior high school, and he came out, his aunt said that our diplomas are not equal, and her aunt also said, help me transfer a sentence to Li Ying, tell her that it is the best time for a woman to have a child before the age of 30, <>
I'm 32 years old, I used to be really thin, within 100 pounds, now I'm 120, and I'm 166 tall
Mmmm, you say this, even you have this feeling of not being worthy of him, but if this kind of relationship is long-term and both parties feel that one party is better and the other party is not as good as you, the relationship can easily break down.
How old is he? 33 is a year older than me.
Well, according to the teacher, there is not that big difference between the two of you, and a lot of it is your psychological gap that makes you feel that he is good and you are not good.
Now the main thing to consider is whether you have a good relationship with him, how long have you been together, and you've already met his parents, right?
We are childhood sweethearts, separated for 29 years, found me some time ago, a few days ago, together, our two families have a very good relationship, his grandmother and my grandparents have a very good relationship, I didn't go to school early, came out to do things, and now I opened a small shop by myself, because of the epidemic, it is not very good now.
It's been 20 years since I've been apart, and my parents don't need to see each other, so what is he doing now?
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1 When I was studying, I was also thin and thin, and after graduation, I always sat in the office and gained weight from 90 pounds to a small hundred, and then I was told to break up with a threat, and I accidentally found that he stored other girls' leg photos in his mobile phone, and I expressed my dissatisfaction with this behavior many times openly and secretly, but he asked me rhetorically, you care so much now, and he can't have his own freedom in the future?
2.Colleagues in the same group A are the kind of people who love to tease girls when they are studying, so there is friction between them and A, once complained to him about this for a long time, he said in an extremely impatient tone Don't say it again, I don't want to hear him talk about it in the future, and then A said many times that I was fat and caused me to gradually depress, thinking of what he said and didn't complain to him again, and then one day he had an emotional breakdown and let him praise me, he held back for a long time and praised me for a long time, and other aspects are just like that, there is nothing to boast about, and my heart is cold in an instant.
3.When he came to see me during the holidays, he lived in my house, in order to avoid affecting his roommates as much as possible, and told him to remember to throw away the garbage he generated every day, and not to affect his roommates in a public space, sometimes he promised to do it well, but he still didn't do it, and then one night he agreed with him to do the housework he did the next day, and woke him up while he was sleeping before getting up to go to work in order to make sure he would do it, and he ended up yelling at me super loudly and yelling for me to get out.
4.Other girls' long-distance boyfriends will buy snacks for their girlfriends, for fear that she will have a bad time, and my boyfriend will come to see me eat everything he likes in my house, and he will not make up for me later.
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Looks that don't meet his standards: he may dislike your figure, face, dress, etc., and think that you are not beautiful or fashionable enough.
No common interests: If you have big differences in interests, he may dislike you for not being committed to his interests or for not being able to share common interests with him.
Unambitious: If you don't have a clear goal in your career or don't pursue a higher position, he may dislike you for being unmotivated.
Poor housekeeping skills: If you don't perform well in housework, such as not being able to cook, not being able to clean, etc., he may dislike you for not being virtuous enough.
No independence: If you rely too much on him and don't have your own independent thinking and decision-making skills, he may dislike you for not having a personality.
Lack of social skills: If you do not behave well in social situations, such as not being able to get along with his friends or not being able to cope with various social situations, he may dislike you for not being socially competent.
No sexual attraction: If you don't perform well sexually, such as being unattractive or not satisfying his sexual needs, he may dislike you for not being good enough in this area.
Lack of emotional support: If you are unable to give him enough support and understanding when he needs it, he may dislike you for not being emotionally warm and considerate. <>
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In life, for a relationship, if you like each other, you can tolerate everything about each other, so if you dislike some bad habits of the other party, you may not love each other enough, so in life for everyone, they may have some bad habits, because for everyone, they are not so perfect.
First, if the other party has bad habits, we can also remind him.
In life, if our boyfriend has bad habits, we can remind him and let him change, but we won't hate him, because if we hate it, we may not like it either.
Second, the relationship needs to be maintained by two people.
In love life, if you want to go more long-term, you also need two people to maintain together, if you dislike each other, the other party can also be seen, because the other party is also a person with a heart.
In a relationship, if we have very deep feelings for the other party, or like each other, we can also tolerate some of his bad habits, so in the face of feelings, we also need to abide by our hearts.
In my love life, if I find that I dislike my boyfriend very much and has bad habits, I think this kind of relationship may have come to an end, because two people are together, if the two words of dislike occur, I think it will be difficult to go to the end.
In life, for everyone, they may have some bad problems, so we can also communicate with each other, if we communicate with each other or obsessed, we can also break up with him, because for everyone, since they love each other, they are willing to change for each other, and they are willing to pay for each other, so in life we also need to manage a relationship together.
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Of course I would dislike it, because I like the strengths in him, not the weaknesses.
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I don't dislike that my boyfriend has some bad habits because I feel that everyone is not perfect and it is normal to have shortcomings.
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Because two people have lived together for a long time, some bad habits of the other party really make me angry, and it will also make me have some dislike.
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