I ve been blaming myself all my life, and I ve been living with regret and self blame.

There are a few things you should meet. Let's say your current boyfriend is good to you.

Don't dwell on the past anymore and can't extricate yourself, let alone blame yourself.

The man who hurt you so much, you'd better stop having any contact with him, it won't do you any good, it will affect you and your current boyfriend.

Now that you've all graduated, forget about your childish past. Don't bring it up again.

To live well, you have a boyfriend who is good to you, and you have to cherish it too.

There's no need to blame yourself, and there's no need to hit him. Because you just think about it, you think you have given a lot, and he doesn't feel anything at all, you don't think about it anymore.

The moon is cloudy, people have joys and sorrows, the road of life is long, everyone will have a gray sky, life to go on, please forget the unhappy past, smile to meet the sun rising from the east every day, let yourself live a better life.

By feeling. I can't force it. You're so pathetic. Temporary...

Oh my God, you're responsible, who made you so irresponsible to yourself in the first place, and don't want to think about whether he's worth your effort? How good your current boyfriend is, he doesn't care about your past, you should cherish what you have

Fool. Women are like this, either revenge or acceptance, it's simple.

People are not saints and sages, and no one is guilty. To make up for some things with heart, I believe that everyone can understand and accept, people should look forward, not blindly in the past.

Well, some people want to travel far and carry a burden greater than their own body, so how can they realize their ideals?

In fact, you are in a good situation, you already have a complete family and your own job.

Whether the career is successful depends on the future development, you are still young and there are still many opportunities to Tengda.

Regret is useless, everyone will do wrong things and hurt others. Everyone is the same, but no matter where a person goes, he must be responsible for himself, because he tries to do better to live a better life for himself and the people around him.

And the past will also be an experience that will allow you to do less things that you regret in the future.

As long as you work hard, have a happy family, and can't find fault with others, you can get better and better.

There are many things that can't be turned back, and other people's paths won't be affected too much by you, so don't blame yourself.

All the same, regret, self-blame, want to die.

Hello, I'm the same as you, I especially regret my own thing.

I'm just like you, confidant.

Everyone has done things that they regret, and the thing I have done that makes me regret and blame myself the most is eloping with my husband, but I didn't experience the feelings of my parents!

At that time, my husband and I were very in love when we were in love, and when I brought him home to show my parents, my parents rejected him, and at that time, no matter what I did or said, my parents did not agree that we were together. Because my husband's home and I are too far away, I can also say that I am married far away, and my parents are afraid that they will not be able to be around and take care of me after I get married, so they will always disagree with the marriage between the two of us!

Later, I really had no choice, so I quietly eloped with my husband, I left while they were not at home, and only when I got in the car did I call them ** and say that I was gone, for the sake of my own feelings, I ignored the feelings of my parents and walked away, I knew they were very uncomfortable at home, but I was also very uncomfortable if I was not allowed to be with him at that time, so I made up my mind to decide to leave like this!

But now that I think about it, I really regret that I did this, at that time it really broke my parents' hearts, after all, this is my own choice, even if I am living a very unhappy life now, I don't dare to tell my parents, who let it be the path I chose! Even if you kneel in pain, you have to go!

If I had to choose again, I would never hurt my parents like this, they worked hard for me all their lives, and finally I grew up but I had to break their hearts like this, I felt that I was too unkind, this is also the thing I regret the most about this quilt, even if I want to choose myself again now, it is impossible, I just hope that my parents can understand me, I will never make them sad again!

You did the right thing, and you shouldn't blame yourself.

1. If you "help" him, if the invigilator doesn't find out, you also do well in the test, he also copied well, and both of you have passed the test, then you have paid him the responsibility of a friend, but you have not paid the responsibility to the society, you helped him once, or hurt him for a lifetime. In the future, he will continue to be opportunistic, and he will be harmful to himself, his work, and his career.

2. If you "help" him, if the invigilator finds out, and you prepare for the macro test to be good. But both of you will be held accountable for breaking your promise of good faith before the graduate school entrance examination. No re-examination is allowed for three years.

It's a loss for him and for you to go to work in the future. You've hurt your friends and you've hurt yourself.

3. If you didn't help him, maybe he passed the test on his own level, then he and you should be happy. It should have been possible to succeed, so that he believed in himself and could have achieved a certain level on his own.

4. If you don't help him, if he doesn't pass the test by his own level, then he will realize that his kung fu is not enough, and if he wants to succeed, he can only work hard, and he can be recognized by others by relying on that bit of opportunism. In this way, he will work hard, and he may be able to pass the exam next year.

5. The help between friends depends on the situation. If it is a crime or a crime, you should not take care of your friend's affection and help him with idealism. If it's a normal difficulty, then you should help.

As the old saying goes, friends are as light as water.

How can it be, he likes your person, and it's not because you are his cheating tool, this kind of thing is of course self-reliant.

When you encounter setbacks and difficulties at work, it is easy to stay frustrated and immersed in them after work, sometimes lasting for a few days or even longer, making it difficult to recover.

I hate myself: in this case, I first blame myself for the problems at work, thinking that I didn't do a good job, in fact, no matter what the problem, I blame myself. Second, worry about the consequences and continue to dream anxiously.

In the end, because of this kind of thinking, I denied myself and hated self-blame. I can't get out for a long time, and I don't have the heart to do anything, a vicious circle.

In this situation, how can we help ourselves regain calm? Work is just for a better life, or for me, just a tool to make money. You can't put the cart before the horse, because work affects your daily life.

Pay attention to life itself, it is like a complete painting, the working picture in this painting is **, how much to draw depends on yourself, even if you don't have to paint.

Think about what you have, maybe it's a healthy body, maybe it's the company of your family, maybe it's someone you like, maybe it's a hobby. You know, many people may never have your seemingly ordinary beauty, or lose it forever.

Segregate things from work after work. The facts cannot be changed, but we can decide how we react to this matter and ourselves. These emotions are empty, and they are not trapped in small self-created emotions.

Things change according to objective laws, existence is reasonable, and it will pass. Accept the facts, accept yourself, do your best, and don't blame yourself for the results you can't control or the reactions of others. This is internal friction.

Stop, look at your emotions from the second person's point of view, and keep it up.