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You are a responsible man, you don't say you're tired of working hard, and it's really good to think that your wife and children are tired of following you.
Suggestion: Communicate with your wife about the future development direction and goals, and strive for the synchronization of the two people's thoughts. For example, if your wife and you both think that you are still young, it doesn't matter if you work hard and take more risks, then you can choose to continue to go out and fight, because it is the consensus you have reached, no matter what the result is, there are no regrets, as long as the family works together, it is worth it.
And it is also the will of both parties, your wife will not complain, she is also willing to drift with you, this drift is also happy.
If your wife's wishes feel that the economy is not too important, and you want a stable and comfortable life, and you yourself feel tired, need to rest and need stability, then find a job locally, settle down as a family of three, and when the children are a little older and go to kindergarten, your lover can also go out to work, so that your economy will not be a problem.
In the end, now that the child is still young, it is okay to follow his parents. When she goes to primary school, try to create a good educational environment for her, and it is best not to change the learning environment frequently.
You can also ask for the advice of relatives and friends around you, combined with the re-determination of your husband and wife, once you decide, you will have no hesitation, whose life is smooth sailing, and the current rush is also for yourself and your relatives to be better comfortable in the future. I wish you all happiness!
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Now my husband and I have decided to leave our children at home, let my mother-in-law send them to school, and we will go to the city to do business, and we should work hard while we are young, and when we are older, we will have no energy. Think for yourself. Good luck.
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Find a job that suits you and settle down.
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Peaceful, indifferent as water. That's my concept. Be kind to them and make up for it.
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I think it's better to adjust your mentality by yourself, and go with the flow!
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If you don't get it, you won't lose it, and there will be no pain because of loss. Even if men and women like each other, they don't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and you will yearn for love if you have a certain boundary.
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This kind of work? Is there an advanced -- meaning that you are an apprentice now, and when you learn it, you can become a master or something?
Or is it just ordinary work--
If it's the former, then work hard -- try to master it as soon as possible -- think about what you want to do in the future or talk to your parents about it, after all, this kind of work will sooner or later make a person stunted...
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You are only fifteen years old, you should learn more things instead of wasting your youth on part-time jobs, give yourself a goal to study, with a goal you will not be bored, learn more things and you will feel fulfilled.
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Why did your mother let you come out to work, and that company took you in, you won't be in Zhongshan, right?
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They all came from that age. Endure it and get through it.
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Girl, you are very kind, you are a good person, I will top you. But you have to be happy, don't be like her, there is a good saying: quarrel with a madman, you are also a madman.
Ignore this kind of inferior person, and you can't be angry with her. Take a step back and open the sky, don't think about it, don't pay attention to her.
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As long as you do it right, what do you care about others? You can only have a clear conscience with your own peace of mind, so why be afraid of others? There is reason to go all over the world, there is no need to have any shadows, I want to open some, the villain is not worth your sadness, be happy.
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Hehe, young man, it's okay, it's okay, my sister told you that the future is very beautiful, don't stop when you see these beautiful scenery in front of you.
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It's too messy, can you be too peaceful and leave right and wrong!
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There is no need to be reasonable with such an unreasonable person, and it is okay to ignore a friend like her. Ignore him. Another point, I think your boyfriend is also a little problematic, since I have friends with you, it's just a quarrel, so why talk about another one?
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I thought about these questions when I was in the second grade of elementary school, when I was full of fear of the world, of planes flying in the sky, of death, and even of living forever. But when I learned more about the world in my third grade, I didn't have this emotion.
When I was in junior high school, I was under a lot of pressure and had a lot of homework, so I had a lot of negative thoughts and I didn't even dare to close my eyes at night. From time to time, unnecessary questions arise. But when I took my studies seriously and took the high school entrance examination as one of my goals, I felt that my life was full of hope for struggle.
Is this world really what I imagined? This world is a real world, you can't change the world, but you can change yourself. Different people have different worldviews, and your ideas will determine what you do.
With optimistic thoughts, you will become optimistic yourself. It's like you can't cover all the ground with cowhide, but you can put on leather shoes. 2.
I'm scared I'll ever think like that. You won't think that way forever. Life is only between breaths, and a breath is a new self.
And it takes 7 years for all the cells in the human body to be renewed once, so at most, 7 years at most, you will become a completely different person than you are now, or the kind of person you want to be.
Let's continue with my experience. When I went to university, I didn't have to worry about entrance exams, so I found my ideals and fought for them, so my university life was very meaningful and I was happy every day (except for a few days a month, and occasionally I felt lost).
You just don't have ideals, and you will be troubled by some unnecessary problems. Play games during the holidays, this combination of work and rest will make you better engaged in learning.
There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, and no two people are exactly the same, so everyone is unique, everyone is unique, and they can achieve their own unique career in the future. So be generous and get to know your classmates, and you'll find that friendship will make you more optimistic.
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You are mature, you are independent, you have begun to have a sense of mission and responsibility, and you know that life needs to rely on your own thinking, study, hard work, and struggle, rather than relying on the protection, guidance, and care of your parents forever. A person has a world in his heart, and this real world is certainly not something you imagine, but a common thought, saying, and doing by many people. Your world is something you imagine, but it's only a part, a part of a ten-thousandth, because it's more about what you say and you do.
What you think, say, and do is what you call effort! If you work hard, the world will change because of you. This is called "the state is born from the heart" and "all wishes come true", which is only unique to those who continue to cultivate and cultivate with great energy and great wisdom!
If you want to be good for someone, you go and help him; If you want a person to be bad, you go and destroy him. As long as you are big enough, you will definitely be able to change him. If you want to be depressed for a long time when you think about it, and it seems that nothing good is gone--- then you are definitely thinking not of good things, but of bad things; Do good deeds, and you will have courage; Do bad things, of course you will be afraid.
Your things are easy to do, as long as you think about helping your parents, classmates, teachers, and making them happy, you will definitely have the energy to do anything! At the age of 14, --- be able to think about such a problem, once you break through, you will have a bright future and all the best!
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Like you, I'm bothered by these inexplicable questions. I don't understand what people live for, and I hate this world to the point of deep hatred.
DAO to the point of absoluteness. I wondered if I was living in a dream, always thinking that if I died, I would have nothing. This kind of thing doesn't need enlightenment.
Dad told me that people live to live meaningfully in just a few decades; I don't understand. Why are there humans? This question has been bothering me and making me feel like I'm going to suffocate.
Seeing that you know the questions answered, I think you should be a cheerful and sunny person, but you are so sentimental, I don't understand more and more: how do humans have thoughts? But I never thought to unravel it, and the people around me said I was from Mars, and I didn't care, I felt like I had seen through the red dust.
People will inevitably die eventually, so why bother to care about so many things? You are very ahead of your time, which should be "proud" for you! Let me tell you, be realistic, you can't be a fantasy boy, the world is real, and your future depends on yourself.
I'm 11 years old, surprised, right?
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Actually, there is a bai
For a while, I have been afraid that people are going to die, how people are going to die, but now I have figured it out
This is the law of nature in the world, and no one can change it.
Like ***, ***, Einstein, Edison, ......These great people can't escape the laws of nature, don't they?
And it's superfluous to think like that now!
Besides, you're only 14 years old, and God knows how long you'll live!
So you have to live in the moment!
First of all, you have to live a good day, you have to do everything well, and don't leave yourself with regrets!
If you do it, then even if you do encounter something unexpected one day, you will have peace of mind!
However, if you think about it, is your luck really that bad?
Take good care of your body and do everything well, God will not treat you kindly!
All in all, believe in yourself and live every day, you won't regret it!
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When a person dies, it's the same as when an animal dies, but the animal is eaten by you Good people don't necessarily have good rewards 50% of the world, you're not alone, you're thinking about this, look at how often people starve to death in Africa, how pitiful they are.
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According to the theory of Marxist materialism. The world is material. Man is also a material one. When a person dies, it decomposes into matter. There is no such thing as a soul. By the third year of high school, you will understand philosophy when you study it. Don't be so scared at all.
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。。。To be a man, you have to look at the source, think about your future life, and outline a beautiful dream. zhi really can't do it.,Just like me.,Crazy dao to learn.,Or to play happily.,So you can forget everything.,The last sentence,Don't want yourself to have too much quiet time.,Wait until you really see it.,Think about it again.,At that time,Maybe you're successful.,You won't pay attention to these boring ideas in childhood.,Of course,I'm a girl.,13 years old.,I hope to adopt it.。
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Precocious, I only thought about this question when I was 22, everything is confused, almost 1 year has passed, everyone has experienced it, how do you think we all came to this world, compared to the probability of winning the lottery, we all won, I believe you will survive.
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When I was a kid, I thought the same way, but I don't have it now, because I think death is too far away from us, you say, right?
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Hehe, you're a little pessimistic, melancholy, and I think about that occasionally. The ancients also thought that so Buddhism and Taoism will exist and continue, because people are seeking psychological balance, you can also look at Buddhism.
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I have had the same heart as you, full of doubts about the world, and I can't feel my own existence. I don't know if it's for what. But I'm a little bit better than you. Try to find something to do, don't always get caught up in fantasies, and communicate with people.
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Hello, I'm fourteen too. I'm also scared of death and so on, and I've thought about what happens when people die. I recommend that you watch comedy or play casual games to relax your mind.
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I'll send you a sentence Don't be sad and don't be greedy for the future Your heart is so peaceful What do you say people will do when they die In fact, this world.
The person on zhi is the dao
There is no life and death As for why I won't explain much As for retribution, there will be Taoism Taishang Induction Chapter says that there is no way to be good or evil, the call of man, and the retribution of good and evil follow you like a shadow.
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I often think like this, if this world is something you imagined, isn't it a reality that you are so lucky to exist in this world? Good and bad retribution or something, as long as you behave well in the world and have a clear conscience.
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Calm yourself down, get some good sleep, and then find a scenic spot to relax! I guess you are too stressed and thinking too much, so it may be good to calm yourself down!
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I'm the same age, and I think about it a long time ago, and I don't anymore, because I know I'm not afraid.
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Did you know anyone in high school? You should borrow their book on political philosophy, it should be useful to you.
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The theory of Buddhism is that the world is imagined by people, 14 years old, why do you have this idea, the version should be attracted by school, the right class flowers, and games.
I'm also looking at the Dharma stuff, which can be regarded as increasing knowledge, so you don't need to panic and be afraid, what you should do in your life, because after all, you don't have conclusive evidence that the world is indeed fictional, and if it is not fictional, your life will be ruined, and the gains outweigh the losses.
You use the free time in your life to learn more about this thing, that is, don't be afraid, face it rationally, and just ask me if you have questions.