Is this mother selfless or selfish

For the child, she also said that she is selfless, she is willing to shorten her life in exchange for the child's life, although the child may be born without maternal love, but who can guarantee that she can live in a sound and perfect family? If there is no life, then everything is zero, and love is no longer there, so he has to thank his mother for bringing him into the world.

She is also selfless for her husband, and she has created another miracle in the rest of her life, leaving each other's flesh and blood.

For herself, she is even more selfless, because she willingly shortened the time of her life and left the hope of life to the child, so the child is the continuation of her life.

For others, she doesn't care whether she is selfish or selfless, because it doesn't matter to herself, she has everything to say, everyone's values and outlook on life are different, so the understanding will not be the same, no matter how others understand, they have their own ideas, it doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong.

Selfish, the child was born without a mother, and his life is not destined to be as ordinary and happy as others. Alas, poor woman, poor child.

Human nature, it is difficult to say whether it is selfish or selfless, giving up one's life to create a life, but the birth of a new life is not just about giving life, but also about subsequent giving, raising, and education, bringing him into this world but at the same time making him lose his mother's love.

Selfless and selfish! He loves children, and he also wants his children to be able to exist in this world. Possess the ordinary and the great.

There are both ingredients, he likes children, and he also wants his children to be able to exist in this world.

This is irresponsible for children.

As follows:

Manifestation. 1. A mother who praises other people's children and "ridicules" her own baby When her children play with other children, she sees what the other child's child has done, and she praises vigorously, saying that people are good and good, and the mother who may do this is just out of politeness, when the mother blindly praises other children, and even "belittles" her own children by the way, which is very harmful to the child's psychology.

Manifestation. Second, patriarchy, some people say that this is tradition, and some people say that it is dregs. At least in the modern family environment, it is indeed incorrect to have such a thought.

Especially for mothers, they are all children born with hard work, and they love boys and dislike girls. When you meet such a mother, you must have a rod and scale in your heart as a child.

You can't let your mother go further and further down the wrong path.

Manifestation. Third, the face is big, many adults have a good face, but a good face is done at the expense of children, then the gains outweigh the losses. Many children should have experienced that mothers always like to compare themselves with other children, how other people's children are, and how their own children are like.

In order to meet the needs of their mothers, such children usually develop a people-pleasing personality.

Or a rebellious personality. Either way, in fact, the core is that the mother is too competitive and loves face more than the sky.

Manifestation. Fourth, being good to children is to arrange their children's lives, and some mothers' selfishness is manifested in arranging their children's lives at will. For example, if you have a dream that you didn't realize when you were young, you want your child to help your mother realize it, even though it's not what your child likes.

The mother has a natural sense of arrogance, the mother thinks that the child does not understand anything, and the mother has walked more bridges than the children have walked, so the child should unconditionally follow the mother's arrangement.

Man is inherently selfish. Be especially selfish to your own mother, because you know she won't blame you, and you have enough reason to plunder her.

For your loved ones, especially your parents, they have done a lot for you, but if you don't obey you in what you think is important, you have to hate her.

Sometimes I wonder what the obligations of parents are, whether it is to be healthy, healthy, physically and mentally healthy, and able to support themselves, or to develop an excellent parent who cares about everything and loves them all the time. When we were children, our parents compared our children to each other, and when we grew up, we children compared our parents again. We blame our parents for not caring about us and being considerate of us, but not caring if they are happy and happy.

My mother always said that she cared about me, but when I was in confinement, this was my most important moment, and she didn't come to see me, should I blame her? My mom has her own business, and she also said her own reasons.

Everyone is selfish and busy with the things they think are important. Everyone has their own things, everyone has their own reasons for doing something, everyone tries to be self-justified and self-consistent, every sentence seems to be right, every sentence seems to be wrong, every sentence may be right in a specific position and a specific situation at a specific time, and there is no right or wrong for adults, and some are interests. Each sentence is appropriate at a specific time, in a specific position, in a specific situation.

I also have a son, and when my son gets married, I will go, but will I help him take care of the baby, I will not necessarily. When I have a daughter and my daughter is in confinement, will I take care of her, not necessarily. I can't do it myself, so why should I ask my mother to do this?

By my own standards, my parents raised me to be healthy, I had no problem with my heart, and I was self-sufficient, and that was enough!

The selflessness of parents lies in the fact that parents are dedicated to giving their children the best, and parents are willing to do and give what they think is good, right, and within their ability.

The selfishness of parents lies in the fact that what they do for their children wholeheartedly may not be suitable for their children, may not be liked by their children, and may not be right, but only force their children to do what their parents think is right. As a result, there are quarrels, contradictions, pain, and estrangement between parents and children.