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As the saying goes, husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes, and there is also a saying that poor families mourn, which means that when the family encounters difficulties, there will be family conflicts. As you said, it should be that your wife does not understand you enough and does not care for you when you are in trouble, or it may be that her anger and resentment are caused by family difficulties, so she quarrels with you.
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Now is the hardest time for you, why does your wife get angry and quarrel with you? The wife may also have his menopause or unhappy mood, when you are not the most difficult, he does not support you, and you are angry, this may also be a kind of willfulness of his, women are generally lacking in responsibility, you should understand him.
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Then you are the most uncomfortable time, but your wife is still angry with you and quarrels with you, which means that she is not virtuous enough, gentle enough, not considerate of you, and does not have a love for you, so he may be angry when he feels that you say this, so the effective communication between the two of you, you lack responsibility for him, a sense of security, and a lack of gentleness and kindness to you, so the two of you, there is too little effective communication at ordinary times.
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Two people will be very sweet during their relationship, and then they will achieve positive results, and the longer they get married, the more they will "look at each other and hate each other". Is it really that you don't cherish it after you get it? I think the main reason is that falling in love is fundamentally different from getting married.
A certain quantitative change will cause a qualitative change. During a relationship, two people will have all kinds of sweetness. Because they don't need to worry too much, as long as the two of them are happy.
And after getting married, the shoulders of two people bear the responsibilities of two families. They can't just care about their own pleasure and entertainment. They have to think about the days to come.
They are responsible for providing for their families. It's like going from a child to an adult all of a sudden. The pressure on them in all aspects, such as the family's economic situation, the pressure at work, etc., will have an impact on the phenomenon of "looking at each other and hating each other".
Secondly, this is not a special phenomenon, only certain families will have it. On the contrary, it is a common phenomenon. The two went from lovers to husband and wife.
The longer you live, the more friction and collision you will inevitably have. Over time, there will be a false impression of hating each other. In fact, they have long been inseparable from each other.
That's probably what people often call the "seven-year itch".
I think everything is most likely to be under pressure, why don't you find a time to talk about it and get to know each other better. Make appropriate recent life changes. Let the unchanged life become colorful, which will also alleviate the situation of "seeing each other and hating each other" to a certain extent.
It is more important for two people to learn to understand and tolerate each other, so that life will be easier.
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It may be more concerned about you, because you are difficult, you are stressed, she will also be anxious, and it is inevitable that her temper will be bigger, don't care too much, just know that she loves you.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why is my wife angry and quarreling with me? It may also be that your wife does not understand your current situation. There is no consideration for your difficulties. Or you're not doing well enough, so to speak. will get angry and quarrel with you a lot.
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When you are in the most difficult time, your bad temper will also be brought home, you can't let others only be considerate of you, you should be considerate of others, isn't it, your wife is also there. Because in general, good. The good emotions are left to outsiders, and only the bad temper is left to the family.
So every day a person confronts you with a bad temper, and he too.
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Now is the most difficult time for me, my wife will be angry and quarrel with me, because poor couples will have a lot of difficulties, and your wife will not understand you, in fact, you should work together to get through the difficulties.
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Isn't there a saying that poor couples are in decline! You are now in your most difficult time, and then you get angry and quarrel with your wife because she doesn't understand you. I think he might be in a hurry.
But even he can't help it, and then he may be emotionally bad. will quarrel with you.
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Now is the most difficult time for you, so I think you have brought this difficult atmosphere to the family, so the wife is also unhappy, so I think that although the family is difficult, I think you should also be happy, so that the family is still full of smiles, and it is good to bury your own suffering in your heart, what do you say?
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Now is your most difficult time, why does your wife get angry and quarrel with you, I think what you said is actually very reasonable, you are the most difficult time now. Not even a helper felt lonely and helpless. Especially women are the most vulnerable at this time, and they often quarrel with their boyfriends and are in a bad mood.
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It's not groundless for your wife to get angry and quarrel with you, it may be that he is not very satisfied with some of your practices.
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Now is the hardest time for you, and your wife will get angry and quarrel with you. It must have been something you did, and he didn't agree with it, that's why he did it.
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Because women are like this, if you are at your hardest, when you don't have money, he will get angry and quarrel with you, and if you have money, he won't.
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Now five now I am the most difficult time why my wife is angry and quarrel with me It is very likely that what you did did not listen to your wife's advice will lead to the current result.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why is my wife angry? Quarrel with me, because he's a woman, and the hero isn't broad enough, so you should understand him more.
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Because you didn't listen to your wife, which led to the current result, your wife got angry and quarreled with you.
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When you're at your hardest. Wives should also have a hard time, so they should be considerate of each other, take care of each other, and maintain a harmonious and loving home together.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why does my wife get angry and quarrel with me? It's normal to quarrel, pull it down when it's over, take a step back and open the sky, don't worry about it, I wish you a happy and happy life.
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Although it is the hardest time for you, you should not bring these emotions to the family, to your wife. She is also an innocent person.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why does my wife get angry and quarrel with me? I should quarrel with you because of my wife, and you do things in a way, alas, a little bit of disregard for your wife's feelings.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why is my wife angry and quarreling with me? Because you are so difficult, I don't know why, your wife quarreled with you.
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Now is the hardest time for me, why is my wife angry and quarreling with me? I think maybe it's not easy for a wife, it's also quite difficult, and I should understand it.
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I feel that it's really hard now, my wife will always quarrel with you, well, sometimes I don't agree with you, I never let you, there are always thousands of reasons to reason with you.
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It's your fault that you didn't say anything, and you should be deftly maneuvering between the two of them.
First of all, you have to be clear about the reason for their quarrel, if it is your mother's fault, then you should go and talk to your mother and tell her that she is wrong**, after all, you are her biological son, and she will not be angry no matter how heavy you say. Even if it's not her fault, you, as a son, have the most right to speak, and you know your mother's temperament very well, and you know what your mother likes and dislikes. The so-called coaxing people to death does not pay for their lives, as long as the old lady is happy, it can be done.
Go back and persuade your daughter-in-law again, Tell my daughter-in-law that my mother is so old, it is inevitable that there will be times when I am confused, let's be a junior and bear it, if it doesn't work, just coax, coax your daughter-in-law, don't you know how to coax it? If not, think about how you coaxed your daughter-in-law in the first place, take out the means of the year, and believe that you can handle everything.
In short, no matter whose fault it is, you just can't sit idly by as a two-time person. The quality of their relationship is directly up to you!
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My wife quarreled with my mother, but you didn't say anything, and my wife was very angry, what should I do several times. You can ask your wife: We both have parents, what would you do if I had a fight with your mother. Be empathetic in everything, and you won't be angry!
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It's me who is also angry, two women live together because of you, they are not related by blood, there must be many things that need you to adjust in the middle, they quarrel, it means that you do not work in the middle, and even play a role, you have to reflect on yourself, don't just be a microphone, say good things on both sides, don't you.
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My wife and mother quarreled, but you didn't say anything, my wife was very angry, it has been several times, what should you do.
It is recommended that if such a conflict occurs in the future, you should be a little towards your wife, because your mother will not blame you, let alone not love you, but your wife may not love you or even leave you.
Your mother's intention must be to hope that you are doing well, so the stability of your young couple's marriage is the most basic. Therefore, if there is such a situation in the future, you have to talk to your wife.
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The occurrence and resolution of this situation is directly related to you in general, after all, you are a family! What to do? On one side is my wife, and on the other hand, I think that the best way is for you to stand in the most fair position to give full play to your ingenuity, and deal with them as calmly as possible, it is time to really test you, and I believe you will be able to find the best solution.
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First of all, the wife quarreled with the mother, and in front of the wife, she had to say that the mother was wrong, and said to the wife, you see that the old man is older, don't be with her in general, and when coaxing the mother, you should say that the wife is wrong, so that the mother is more considerate of the wife, after all, she came to a place that he is not familiar with alone.
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My wife quarreled with my mother, but I didn't say anything, my wife was very angry, what should I do several times I personally think that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Husband, this husband wants to persuade Yes, the wife's husband wants to persuade his wife, and then coax his wife to be good Then the old wife can love her mother-in-law, and then persuade her mother-in-law, and there will be no contradiction between them They all say that the people who have come from here are contradictions that can be solved What is missing between your wife and mother-in-law is your love. Give them a little more love, and they won't be that.
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You didn't say anything and it's almost! Such family conflicts are more troublesome, and they have been a sensitive matter since ancient times. It is said that you should persuade your wife to understand your mother more behind your back, but now your wife is still angry, a little aggressive and unreasonable!
Of course, it is not easy to explain more to your mother behind your back, so that the elderly can understand your wife as much as possible.
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Look at what's the matter, if it's a small thing, go and coax your wife, after all, it's a girl, it's more fragile, if it's a big thing, your wife really made a mistake, then you can't get used to it, but pay attention to the tone and be patient.
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Both of these women are the most important women in your life, and you have to deal with them carefully! You should first separate the two people, and then first appease your mother, and then go to appease your wife, and then you should make it clear to your mother and wife according to the conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and resolve the conflict between them.
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At such times, it is advisable to be a mediator. You can choose to talk to your wife about your mother's kindness and coax your mother to be nice to your wife.
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As a man, it is very difficult to be caught between his wife and his mother. At this time, you have to be a good person, not only to make your wife happy, but also to maintain a good relationship with your mother. Only when the relationship is harmonious, the family can live a better life.
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If it is your mother who is wronged, and your wife is wronged but you don't do anything, you must feel uncomfortable and think you are useless.
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If the two of them quarrel, you must be a peacemaker, and then you must have your own position, otherwise, it is easy to have problems between your wife and mother in the future.
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The easiest way in this case is to separate your mom and your wife, as long as they are together, there will always be conflicts.
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I think it's better not to talk about this kind of thing, the more you talk about it, the more it will provoke their contradictions, and it's better to pretend that you don't know anything.
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It depends on what causes the person in the middle to play a very important role at this time.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a balance that needs you. If every time you quarrel, you don't say anything, she will definitely be angry. So every time you should help and not help your relatives.
If it's really your mother's fault, say it when it's time to say it. It doesn't mean that every time you quarrel, you don't say anything. Even if he comforts him sometimes, it's good.
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The daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are natural enemies, and the man must be a good mediator in the middle, and he must deal with the emotional problems between them with high emotional intelligence.
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Summary. If you can't quarrel with your husband, don't quarrel with your husband, if you have anything to solve peacefully with your husband, don't be willful as yourself, you have to care about your husband, as long as the family is harmonious, you will have a complete home, so don't quarrel with your husband.
Don't quarrel with your husband before you quarrel with your husband, if you have anything to do with your husband peacefully, don't be willful as yourself, you have to care about Lao Rangong, as long as the family is harmonious, you will have a complete home, so don't quarrel with your husband.
Quarrels are not the solution to problems, even between husband and wife. If the depression of the laughter banquet needs to be vented through quarrels, then quarrel, and don't care about the gains and losses after that. As the saying goes, noisy and noisy is a bad thing for husband and wife, and sometimes quarrels can make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious and harmonious.
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