My stepmom always looks at me unpleasantly, how can I communicate with her?

Then respect each other, do not interfere with each other, and listen to what is good to you, as long as there is no shortage of food and no shortage of clothing.

If you can't communicate, it depends on how your dad communicates with her, and then whether she can accept you.

You can not communicate That's what I did I am 29 men this year. My mother died when I was 20 years old.

How old are you? I think to break the game, you need to get to know your stepmother, and you can seek your father's involvement.

Your male and female, how old is your stepmother.

It is said that a child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like a grass, which child doesn't want to grow up slowly in the arms of his mother, but you are facing a stepmother, and she will often abuse you because of a little thing, which will really have a negative impact on your life.

Few stepmothers are really good to their children, in the face of your stepmother's abuse, you are still powerless to refute, so you can only swallow your anger for the time being, and wait for yourself to grow up slowly, full of wings, and then leave her side, during this period she insults you, you temporarily keep it in mind, but no matter what she says, you don't quarrel with her, after all, you are still young now, you have no ability to fight with her, you take this injury to heart, turn pain into strength, let yourself work hard, and strive to leave her as soon as possible.

What about you, don't remember everything, that will take up a lot of your time and brain space, so if you make an unpleasant fuss because of a little thing in your life, then you ignore her existence, and then when she says something ugly, you will go in and out of your left ear and right ear, don't affect your life and mood because of her, for an irrelevant woman, it is really not worth it to make yourself angry.

Some people say that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather, but I believe that not all fathers are like that, when your stepmother treats you badly, or abuses you, you can take the opportunity to record what she said, or prepare a voice recorder in advance, and then give it to your father, let your father see what kind of person she is, let your father know what kind of crime you suffer at home, and at the same time let your father know what his own vision is, how can he find such a bad woman as a wife!

No matter what the reason is for the divorce of the husband and wife, it is the children who bear the consequences in the end, and the children who suffer the most are the children, and the divorce of your parents must have caused you a lot of damage, I hope you can be strong and be a good child who bravely faces new problems. Finally, I wish you happiness and happiness in the future.

It depends on how old you are, you haven't explained, and there are many kinds of actual situations, what if your stepmother just lost a daughter and wants to be good to you?

The specific situation should be considered in terms of other issues in life, and the most important question is whether you are a man?

It's not good to have this condition.

Summary. Hello dear! It's a pleasure to serve you!

Hello dear! It's a pleasure to serve you!

First of all, you have to understand how your son's stepmother usually treats your son!

Do you usually live with your stepmother or with you.

If your son tells you that his stepmother doesn't get along with him, you have to listen to him.

See what your son has to complain about his stepmother.

You listen to him, and then you can analyze what is right and what is wrong. Come enlighten your son!

I don't know how old your child is!

If you want your son to get along with his stepmother, it's up to you to do the job. But it is necessary to distinguish between right and wrong.

If you hate that stepmother when you talk about it, then you should not let your son feel that you hate your stepmother, because it will affect the child even more. You don't want your child to be sunny and cheerful, right?

Adults are still mentally mature.

You first communicate with your son, find out the situation, and analyze the reason! Remember not to let your child carry hatred, in fact, it will be more painful for him!

I hope I have this to say to you! Have a great day! Happy every day! 珞

She doesn't have children, and she's still angry with you, she doesn't have a job, and your dad still marries her and lets her, which shows that

1.She's the partner your dad is looking for, and your dad wants her to stay by his side.

2.She doesn't have children, and when she gets angry, your dad has to let it go, because she only has your dad, and your dad still has you.

3.When people get married, they don't want to be a stepmother to anyone, and the marriage between the two parties is to find a support, a life support for men and women. Your dad supports her, that's your dad's own choice, and when the child grows up, he gets married and builds his own small family, and the child can have a partner, so should adults live by themselves?

4.Some men are like this, they are very comfortable alone, but they are not used to being lonely, so they hope to find someone to take care of him, be angry with him, and even if they come to quarrel with him, he can accept it.

You have your hobbies, friends, topics, life, and fun, don't always worry about your father's affairs between husband and wife, and don't always stare at that woman here, what's wrong there, the main thing is that you will be tired.

Cancel the mustard in your heart and calm your mind. Whether you want to live with him or not, but the facts have been chosen for you, you can only accept it, you have to understand your father's difficulties, cherish what you are currently using, after all, it is irreparable to go.

Actually, it's not a stepmother's problem, my own mother and your stepmother are the same = =

It's good to calm down, if your dad wants the money, your dad will definitely give it to you.

1.A quick first impression should be made.

To alleviate the stress of meeting for the first time, say a brief hello and avoid long gatherings or expensive gifts. Don't expect too much at first. Anything that stresses out a child can backfire, leading to rejection from a potential stepparent or stepmother; At a party full of anticipation, no one wins.

Let the child set the rhythm of the relationship over time; She'll let you know when she's ready for a more intimate relationship. It's much better for everyone than being rejected.

2.Give time to grief and let time ** heartbreak.

If you are a stepfather or stepmother and your marriage only started after your parents divorced, then give your stepson some time and space. Remarriage shatters the child's hopes of being reunited with his parents. When their hopes are dashed, children tend to start a natural grieving process that they can postpone when it is still possible for their parents to reunite, and it is worth noting that their grief process sometimes includes trying to sabotage a new marriage in the hope that dad will return to mom.

Keeping this in mind, give the situation time and space. If a parent passes away, help the child remember his parents by listening to stories, showing their parents' ** in the room, or planning a commemoration on their parents' birthday. If you feel the need, give your child an outlet and get support from an objective person.

3.Treat your stepchildren as if they were family.

If a stepchild goes back and forth between two parents, they probably won't live with you 100% of the time. You might think that when they're around, making a fuss about it makes them feel special about being cautious. In fact, if you treat them as special guests, they won't feel like they're part of the family.

Instead, let them do the chores, let them share responsibilities, check their homework, attend parent-teacher conferences, and integrate them into the family. Listen to and respect their opinions, and praise them when necessary. Children feel better about themselves and are closer to their families when they are taught to take on certain responsibilities and obligations for the whole family, including respect, kindness, and helping others.

4.Maintain stable friendships.

It can be awkward to wonder if you will love your stepchildren or if they will love you. But don't be in a hurry. We can love and support our stepchildren and our own children unconditionally, but a more realistic goal – at least for the first few years – is simply to make friends with our stepchildren.

We can choose to be friends with them and act in a loving way, but experiencing the feeling of love is a mystery in itself and not something we can control.

5.Cultivate trust and honesty.

Trust is a key component of any relationship, and it takes time to build trust as children observe how you handle different situations. If you can earn their trust, you may become an important confidant over time.

In fact, you should take a light view of life, and don't be disappointed in anyone, especially your other half, otherwise, it will be difficult for your life to go on

Clause. 1. It is inevitable to encounter disputes in the family, and when encountering problems, parents should first ask themselves a question, what we have to do, is it for the sake of children? If you just want to vent your anger, don't take action.

Children are innocent, especially children under the age of ten, and we can feel our kindness to children through their eyes and actions.

Clause. Second, reorganize the family, because they love each other, they will overcome all difficulties, and they would rather be troubled by their stepchildren than get married. The party with children must play a role as a link and communicate more with both parties.

Avoid misunderstandings. The so-called concern is chaos, you have to tell your children that no matter whether it is love or not, your parents care about you, and you will be anxious and lose your temper.

Clause. 3. Even biological parents should manage their emotions and try not to beat and scold their children, not to mention that we are stepparents? Stepparents are not good at doing things, they want to be good to their children, and if they say a few more words, they will be mistaken for abusing their children, and beating and scolding will be scolded as vicious.

Try to communicate with your child, if you can't communicate, it will be managed by the biological parents to avoid misunderstandings.

Clause. Fourth, before entering the remarried family, the husband and wife have established a strong alliance with their children, and the relationship is close. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young, fragile, and excluded from their stepparents and other relationships, and will invisibly protect their children more, and then form a sub-alliance problem.

Clause. Fifth, in addition, the traditional concept requires stepparents to treat their stepchildren "as their own", which is also a misunderstanding. Stepparents can never whimsically "become" themselves into their child's biological parents, taking the place of their biological parents or their role.

Clause. 6. There is a great deal of heterogeneity in remarried families, because when integrated into a family, in many cases, there will be a lot of problems to be solved for a stranger's new family. Therefore, in the process of getting along, we must slowly run in and produce harmony, and make our own efforts to change, so that children can accept themselves.

Because there are also many people around us who get along well with their stepchildren. It is also because they love their children as their own children, their children are loved and cared for, they will accept themselves, get along with themselves and become a family, and they will get along well.

Summary. Good evening, dear! According to your description, "My stepfather is very good to me, but she doesn't respect my mother very much, I help my mother speak, and everyone says I let him", dear, it can be seen that you still feel very sorry for your mother, and you don't want her to be <>hurt by your stepfather

Dear, the teacher believes that you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, you can be true to your heart, and continue to help your mother <>

My stepdad was very nice to me, but she didn't respect my mother very much, I helped my mom talk, and everyone said I let him.

Good evening, dear! According to your description, "My stepfather is very good to me, but she doesn't respect my mother very much, I help my mother speak, and everyone says I let him", dear, it can be seen that you still feel very sorry for your mother, and you don't want her to be <>hurt by your stepfather

Dear, the teacher believes that you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, you can be true to your heart, and continue to help your mother <>

Dear, it can be seen from your description that what you are doing is correct, and the teacher supports you Oh <>

Dear, can you tell the teacher about the specific situation? So that the teacher can better help you analyze and answer questions<>

After he finished drinking, he talked or did things differently, and then he picked on my mother, and then my mother got angry and used that kind of cold violence, refusing to communicate, and my mother could only hold her breath by herself, and then when she had dinner with relatives and friends at the wine table, I felt that I apologized very insincerely, and it was my fault that I was wrong, and then my mother seemed very unforgiving.

Then the relatives spoke for him.

I couldn't help it. just scolded everyone, he got angry and left, and everyone, including him, thought that I was so good to you, and felt that I made him cold.

Mmmm, dear, I understand how you feel at the moment ha<>

Dear, my mother has been ridiculed by others, and I must feel uncomfortable in my heart, and it is <>understandable to help her get angry

And the reason why relatives speak for him may be that they think you are making a bit of a fuss and should not give him face in front <>of so many people

Yes, that's what they think.

Now I'm a sinner, and everyone is unhappy during the New Year.

Uh-huh, dear, how is the relationship between the two of them? <>

Uh-huh, dear, I understand your current feeling of loss and grievance Ha <>

During the Chinese New Year, I was counted down by my relatives, and I must be unhappy and aggrieved

I also apologized to him because he was kind to me, provided me with food and clothing, because I was still in school, but I felt guilty that this kind of good was bought in exchange for my mother's unhappiness.

Mmmm, dear, I understand your current mood ha, <>

Dear, judging from your description, he is still good to you, and what you did this time may have really hurt him, so he reacted <>so strongly

Dear, in the face of this situation, the teacher suggests that you should take a suitable time to talk to your boyfriend in private, as long as the two of you like each other, his mother will not play a big role in opposing <>

Kiss. I hope mine is helpful to you and have a great day! Happy New Year! <>