What is the reason for the crisis of boys in kindergarten, girls always bully boys?

Nowadays, families like daughters very much, and they prefer to pamper girls compared to boys, which causes some girls to have a more bold personality and always like to bully boys in kindergarten.

For family reasons, when she was at home, the girl's parents were better to the girl's younger brother, so she hated the boys.

Girls always bully boys because of the wrong guidance of parents, boys' parents teach their children to let girls, so boys will be bullied by girls, this kind of education is not advisable.

—— It is necessary to educate children about their gender, which involves children's understanding of their own gender and skills in getting along with the opposite sex. Gender education should include not only biological but also social concepts.

One. The need for sex education:

Children's gender perceptions are not yet formed, and they are highly susceptible to the influence of information received by various parties, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

1.Influence of feudal concepts: In the past concept, men had to go out to work and support their families; Women are all honored as husbands and children at home, and raise children.

Although society is constantly evolving, it is difficult to say whether the ideas of the older generation will affect the new generation. For example, when I was a child, I liked to go out and chase and fight with my friends, play with mud and throw stones, and some adults would say that girls shouldn't be so rude. If there are too many such things, it will affect the child's correct understanding of himself.

For example, for boys, we had to ask them to be strong, not to cry, not to be willful, because they are the pillars of the family in the future. But in this way, do they have the ability to express their feelings?

2.The subtle influence of life: With the popularization of the Internet, it is inevitable that a lot of news will be accepted by children and affect the concept of the child's change, and it is very necessary to shape its concept well as soon as possible.

There is often a discussion that the holiday is coming soon, and mothers go to social software to suggest that some anchors pay attention, but there is no way to do this. What we think is normal can also cause children's distorted understanding of gender.

Two. Significance of Gender Education:

Let children fully understand their own gender, accept gender differences, and do not use specific behaviors to define gender. Some time ago, a group of boys beat a woman in a group of boys, which caused the anger of the people across the country, and some people labeled the victims, which is infuriating! Moreover, such incidents are not accidental, they happen from time to time in various places.

Therefore, we must educate our children from an early age to respect gender differences, learn to get along with the opposite sex correctly, not use gender as a restriction or capital, and respect the equality between men and women. Of course, this is not just a gender issue, but also a moral issue. We don't have to teach our children how to be powerful, but we have to teach them how to dodge.

Children are not only the future of our family, but also the future of society. At a time when gender conflicts are on the rise, it is extremely necessary to educate children about the right gender.

Children are bullied against them and for hindering the realization of their wishes. Find out if you have been beaten. If not to be beaten.

Just tell the child that in this world, except for those close to her, other people will not let her, this is life. Of course, children may not understand, so they should be carefully enlightened; You can also coax the child to say that the other party is deliberately teasing her.

We always emphasize boys and don't bully girls, but in kindergarten, what if a boy is bullied by a girl? Mom should pay attention, these questions should be considered clearly.

I went to a few kindergarten teachers and asked them about this. Most kindergarten teachers admit that this phenomenon exists, and it has been very obvious in recent years. In the Bao Ma group, this topic was also discussed, and many Bao Ma said that not to mention kindergarten, even in real life, there is also the phenomenon of boys being bullied by girls.

The two popular words on the Internet: "female man" and "pseudo-mother" fully illustrate this problem, girls are becoming more and more extroverted, and boys are becoming more and more quiet. There are probably several ...... causes of this problem

1. Father's lack of family education.

Nowadays, most families are grandparents, grandparents, or full-time mothers with babies, and fathers are basically bent on making money. After entering kindergarten, most of the teachers are women, and the children have very little contact with men, and they rarely learn the qualities of bravery, tenacity, courage, and responsibility from their fathers.

2. Unequal education for men and women.

Some parents educate their sons from an early age: "You have to let girls in everything, because girls are used to love." It is difficult for children to understand such words, and they will directly think that they should not bully girls, or that they should not fight back when they are bullied by girls.

In kindergarten, sometimes there is a conflict between boys and girls, and the teacher will say to the boys, "You are a boy, you have to give way to some girls." "The more this happens, the weaker the boy becomes.

3. The impact of poverty and wealth.

Over the years, it has always been advocated that boys should be poor and girls should be rich. Parents are obedient and responsive to their daughters, and they have developed their daughters into a rude and willful character since she was a child, and if she is slightly dissatisfied outside, she will vent her emotions.

And the boy was raised poor from an early age and was strictly educated by his parents, so he will be unconfident and cowardly in character. Boys learn to swallow their anger, and girls learn to splash and roll.

4. Boys don't develop as early as girls.

Both physically and psychologically, boys and girls develop differently sooner or later. Girls' height, IQ and other aspects of development are generally earlier than boys. This situation will begin to reverse over time, by the time the child is in his teens.

Surveys have found that boys are more likely to be subjected to corporal punishment in school, and that boys suffer from autism and mortality rates much higher than girls.

Because in the eyes of the teacher, girls are well-behaved and boys are naughty, and when they quarrel, teachers mostly favor girls, so girls will become unscrupulous.

Because boys are more mischievous in early childhood, girls have a tendency to imitate Italian, often imitating the behavior of parents and teachers to restrain boys, so it looks like girls bullying boys.

Because when they were young, girls were in a better environment and were more brutal and willful in character, so in kindergarten, they were generally brutal and bullied boys.

Because today's girls are very willful, and they all have special personalities. So will always like to bully boys.

Because girls develop earlier than boys, girls of the same age tend to grow taller than boys.

I think it's because of the education of parents, parents generally think that boys are more naughty, and generally educate them not to cause trouble at school and not to bully others, for girls, they are weaker than girls, and hope that they will be tough outside and not be bullied at will.

I think the booklet pointed out, first of all, because girls are more independent and strong in terms of personality, and secondly, the physical and mental development speed of girls is relatively fast compared to Qi Yin, and the way parents treat children of different genders is different.

Because boys develop later than girls, and boys' personalities will be more tolerant.

Because when I was a child, some girls were more squeamish and easy to do things to boys, and then the family was praised and educated to educate boys to let girls in vain, so boys were easy to be bullied.