How to take care of children when it is hot, and what are the misunderstandings of the elderly with

When it's hot, try not to go to crowded places with your children, don't go to places that are too hot, and wear loose and comfortable clothes for your children. The elderly will take the child to take a cold shower, thinking that the hair is hot, so they will shave the child's head, afraid that the child's feet will be cold, put on thick socks for the child, and no matter how hot it is, the air conditioner will not be turned on, for fear that the child will catch a cold, etc.

When it's hot, the elderly may let him take a cold shower, or buy some iced drinks and ice cream every day to cool off the child. These are all misunderstandings, taking a cold shower when it's hot, it's easier to catch a cold, and eating ice every day is not good for your child's stomach.

In the summer, the old man is afraid that his grandchildren will be hot, so he often fanned his grandchildren non-stop, this behavior is not right, because the child is not as strong as the adult's ability to bear, can not always be in the cool breeze, and the old man also likes to shave the child's head in the summer, this is also incorrect, in order to shave the head will cause the child to have a risk of sunburn.

Preface: There are many parents who are very busy with work, so they choose to leave their children with the elderly at home. Then it is recommended that when the elderly take care of their children, they must pay attention and correct the wrong educational ideas of the elderly in time.

Because there are many elderly people who are very easy to spoil their children, if they keep doing this, it will affect the healthy growth of their children. We need to give our children the right amount of love, and at the same time, there are many elderly people who may choose to ignore their children when they make mistakes because they are older. If you keep doing this, it will turn the child into a bear child, so parents must communicate more with the elderly.

There are many elderly people who are very prone to the phenomenon of intergenerational parenting when educating their children, and they will meet all the requirements of their grandchildren. However, it is recommended that parents must correct this wrong educational idea of the elderly in time. In order to make the child become a better person, then we must learn to give the child the right amount of love, too much love will become an obstacle to the healthy growth of the child.

When children make mistakes, they must criticize and educate in time, so that they can better correct themselves. So when children make mistakes, parents must pay attention to their own education methods, do not lose their temper with their children at will, we must properly control their temper.

When educating children, it is recommended to communicate with the elderly, because the elderly are relatively old, and their thoughts cannot keep up with the trend of the times. Then it is suggested that we can correct the wrong educational ideas of the elderly in time, and when there is a conflict between the two generations, it is recommended that we must sit down and communicate well. Because everyone's intentions are good, they want to cultivate a better child.

However, when communicating, we must learn to empathize appropriately, because the elderly have limited access to information. We can also let them communicate more with the outside world so that they can learn more ways to educate their children.

Attention should be paid to problems related to diet, work and rest, safety, behaviour and education. Because there are many elderly people who are very inattentive, and these aspects are very important to children, so when the elderly take the baby, we must pay attention to these aspects.

We must pay attention to the way the elderly teach their children, in fact, we should also pay attention to the growth of children, so that children have a correct concept, so that they can have a certain good for children's growth and development.

Be sure to take the baby scientifically, don't spoil the child too much, don't feed the child mouth-to-mouth, don't kiss the baby often, and be sure to pay attention to hygiene.

The first is to give the elderly a certain amount of living expenses, the second is to communicate with the elderly more about their ideas, the third is to go out to take the elderly to travel, the fourth is not to be arrogant to the elderly, and the fifth is to give the elderly special emphasis on safety issues.

Be sure to pay attention to safety, and then understand the child's thoughts, don't spoil the child, don't meet any of the child's requirements, be sure not to keep the child out of sight, don't give the child junk food, don't drink cold drinks.

When the elderly take their children, don't spoil their children, take their children to participate in more activities, don't let children be picky eaters, pay attention to safety, and you can also carry out early education.

There are several problems with the elderly with babies:

Physical condition: The elderly are gradually declining in physical function, and the demand for physical activity to take care of children may be unbearable, and they are prone to physical discomfort.

Educational concept: There may be differences between the educational concepts and methods of the elderly and the educational concepts of modern society, and there may be inadaptability and poor communication in the educational methods.

Parenting experience: Different from the growth environment of modern children, the envy of the elderly may be outdated and cannot effectively cope with the growth needs of modern children.

Time and energy: Older adults have relatively limited time and energy, which may not be able to meet their children's needs, affecting their children's growth and development.

The physical and mental condition of the elderly is not the time when they are young. And the little ones, they have a lot of energy. Older people can feel tired easily.

Another thing is that it is a great responsibility to bring a good friend of the child with limbs. The heart of the elderly cannot afford it. Another is the backwardness of concepts.

It is not possible to guarantee the education of children. Therefore, it is better for the child to be taken by his parents.