There should be philosophical stories, ones that are special, that can leave a deep impression, and

Passing by with blessings.

A young man is about to graduate from college. He has always aspired to own a sports car. So, he told his father what he thought.

As graduation approaches, the young man looks forward to his father to surprise him. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his study and told him how much he loved him and how proud he was to have such a wonderful son. Then, the father handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box.

The young man opened the gift box with curiosity and slight disappointment, and found inside a book with a beautiful leather cover and his name engraved in gold letters. The young man angrily shouted to his father: "You know my wishes, but you give me a book?

He dropped the book and roared out of the room.

Many years later, young people are already successful in their careers. When he calmed down, he began to regret his actions. He wanted to go back to see his father, whom he hadn't seen since the day he graduated.

Just as he was about to set off, he received a telegram - his father had died, leaving him all his possessions.

Entering his father's room, he felt deep remorse and sadness. He slowly sorted through his father's papers and found the book—a gift from his father. He opened the book with tears in his eyes and flipped through the pages.

Suddenly, a car key fell out of the back of the book, and the name of a car dealer was written on the sticker, which was the sports car he had dreamed of, and it also indicated his graduation date and the words "paid in full".

How many times have we brushed shoulders with blessings, simply because happiness is not beautifully packaged as we imagined it to be. 一 [ 一 [ 一 [ 一 [ 一 · [ 一 · [ 一 ·

The last lesson for philosophers.

A philosopher takes a group of his students on a journey around the world. During the decade, they traveled to many countries and visited many learned people. Now they're back, and they're all full of money.

Before entering the city, the philosopher sat down on a meadow in the suburbs and said to his students: "After ten years of travel, you are all well-educated, and now you are about to graduate, so let's take the last lesson!" ”

The students sat down around the philosopher. The philosopher asks, "Where are we sitting now?"

The students replied, "We are sitting in the wilderness. The philosopher asked again

What is growing in the wilderness? Students: "The wilderness is full of weeds.

The philosopher said, "Yes, the wilderness is full of weeds, and now I want to know how to get rid of them." The students were very stunned, they didn't expect that the philosopher, who had been philosophizing about life, would ask such a simple question in the last lesson.

One of the students spoke first: "Teacher, as long as you have a shovel, it is enough." The philosopher nodded.

A third student said, "Sprinkle lime and get rid of all the weeds." ”

The fourth student continued, "Just dig up the roots." ”

When the students had finished, the philosopher stood up and said, "That's the end of the lesson, and when you go back, get rid of a weed in your own way, and then come back in a year." ”

A year later, the students arrived, but instead of being overgrown with weeds, the place where they had gathered had become a field of crops full of grain. The students sat around and waited for the philosopher to arrive. However, the philosopher never came.

Decades later, when the philosopher died, the students were sorting out his manuscript by adding a chapter at the end of the manuscript: there was only one way to get rid of the weeds in the wilderness, and that was to plant crops on them. In the same way, the only way to keep the soul free of distractions is to occupy its ...... with virtue

1. Think about it from a different perspective.

Someday. A lovelorn man cries in the park.

That's when a philosopher approached.

Asked him softly"What's wrong with you? Why are you crying so sadly?"

Said the lovelorn"Woo: I'm so sad. Why did he leave me?"

But the philosopher laughed and said"You're so stupid"

The lovelorn person said angrily.

Why are you like this, I'm out of love, I'm already sad, if you don't comfort me, forget it, you still scold me"

The philosopher said.

Fool. There's no need to be sad at all. He is the one who should really be sad."

Because you've just lost someone who doesn't love you.

And he has lost the ability to love him and love him.

2 Miracles. In a remote town in France, it is rumored that there is a particularly miraculous water spring, which often performs miracles and can cure all kinds of diseases.

One day, a veteran on crutches and missing a leg limped across the town's road, and the townsfolk next to him said with a sympathetic kiss back:

Poor fellow, is he going to pray to God for another leg? 」

This sentence was heard by the veterans, who turned to them and said:

I am not praying to God for a new leg, but for him to help me so that I know how to live without a leg. 」

Imagine. Learn to be grateful for the loss, but also accept the fact of loss, regardless of the gains and losses in life, always make your life full of brightness and brilliance, no longer shed tears for the past, and strive to live your own life.

I've always believed in it, and I've always lived it.

1. In life, some things are just numbers, and they don't have to be too deliberate; Some people are just passers-by and don't have to be too nostalgic; Some things are just things, and you don't have to expect too much. Having a beautiful mood, a simple state of mind, and a feeling of happiness is the most beautiful even if it is not perfect.

Second, life needs to be soaked in suffering, and without pain, life will be less colorful and heavy. Only the flowers that bloom in the wound are the scenery that accompanies us to move forward silently. Don't care about small grievances, sadness is just an embellishment of your mood, not a shackle that restricts your soul.

and what should be remembered, it shall be carved on the stone tablet of the heart; If you should forget, you should put it into the tears of catharsis. Let us draw strength from hardship and be strong in forbearance.

3. In the chess game of life, sometimes one wrong step is wrong, the whole game is lost, and one step is proud, then every step is a camp. Sometimes the victory or defeat in the eyes turns in the blink of an eye, which shows that the chess game is as unpredictable as life. There are always fewer and fewer chess pieces, life is always getting shorter and shorter, and the so-called no return is like life that cannot be repeated.

Fourth, don't always ask others to do what you don't want to do, empathize with everything and learn to understand. No resentment, no rashness, no excess, no force, no pessimism, no rigidity, no panic, no forgetfulness; As long as your heart is not chaotic, it will be difficult for the outside world to change anything about you. Don't envy others, don't lose yourself.

Fifth, in the face of unsatisfactory life, instead of choosing to complain, it is better to choose to let go. There will inevitably be unsatisfactory in life, and if you will only struggle in complaining, life is destined to be endless.

6. In fact, what everyone desires is nothing more than a heart of understanding and recognition, and a person who truly accompanies him. Everybody, there are times when they get hurt. If sorry is useful, promise to do something; If forgiveness solves the problem, then what is trust?

7. Our happiness comes from the truth of our hearts, and doing our best is the best. The only thing that is eternal and unchanging in heaven and earth is that everything is constantly changing. Therefore, there is no best in terms of the merits of personnel, only better.

However, for the attitude of life, do your best.

Half of the tiredness of life comes from survival, and half comes from comparison. Many times we live not for ourselves, but for "face". Most of people's troubles are not because they are not satisfied with what they lack, but because of the imbalance that "others are better than themselves".

Therefore, we must learn to face life with a contented mindset and understand that everyone's happiness is different.

The stronger a person's ability to heal themselves, the more likely they are to get closer to happiness. Be a person who is widowed, but has a sea in his heart, does not hurt others and himself, and is at peace and ease in indifference.

The secret of happiness is not how much you need, but how much freedom you can get from what you don't need. The way to find happiness is in our hearts. If you need one, just take one. If you take two, you will lose even the emotion you had at the beginning.

Some people seem to be smiling all day long, not because everything is going well, but because they are more daring than you to face problems, forget misfortunes, and embrace the future.

The wise are pragmatic, and the fools are famous.

One must not be cowardly, but one must not be ignorant of reverence, and one must learn to fear one's opponents.

Defeat is not hurt, defeat is not shame, the first thing to learn is good defeat.

I'm all there are for myself.

2 A person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten.

You work hard to prove yourself to others and the world, and once you really achieve results, you will understand that you don't have to prove anything to others, as long as you can surpass yourself.

The way to defend against the enemy. The less afraid I am of death. The more you will not die. The sky is like death. I will perish. If anyone kills me, I will kill.

Effort is nothing but a process for the sake of results, and no matter how precious an effort is, to be proud of the process is to put the cart before the horse.

Flowers have a reblooming day, and no one is young.

A life without failure is a failure.

Go through it and you will understand everything.

The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to find the light.

I like it. When parents are here, there is a place in life. When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.

Every day when you don't dance is a disappointment to life.

Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, with the clouds rolling in the sky.

My biggest fault is that I don't have any fault!

It is better to understand yourself than to see others clearly.

It seems that people really can't live for themselves, and there are a lot of things that we have to think about. Especially when we decide on the most important thing. Everyone will have opinions, and of course we are grateful to those people because they just care about us, so they just say what they think; At the same time, this will also be an area of concern for us.

Sometimes it has even become a resistance.

On the other hand, we are able to improve what we have to decide with the advice of others.

Nothing is perfect, only whether you do your best.

When we are faced with danger, we must learn to be adaptable.

When we look at the problem, we should start from multiple angles and look at the problem from many aspects, everyone is busy getting the water out of the tank, it is better to break the tank and let the water flow out.

Life is the most precious at all times, and the value of life is above all else.

On the road of life, no matter how difficult you encounter, never bow your head and never lose your dignity. This is the most important condition on the road to success.