How to balance the relationship between love and materialism?

This is like a person wearing sunglasses, love is the eyes, and the material is the glasses. The more substance, the darker the glasses, while the glasses are transparent without substance. Therefore, many people think that the most sincere eyes can only be seen when there is no material.

In fact, we need a kind of wisdom, which is to take off our own glasses and look into the eyes of the other person. It's a little hard, but we can do it. After all, each of us has a pair of eyes that yearn for true love.

Love without a material foundation is a castle built on floating sand, which is beautiful but not long-lasting; The pursuit of material pleasures in love is ultimately a relationship of buying and selling. You also need to experience it yourself, there is no sameness, otherwise there will be no taste in love.

Hehe! Today's young people are really simpler.

Because of the popularity of the Internet, don't think you really know a lot.

Social universities are completely different from school things!

The concept of China's door-to-door Think, think for yourself!

It's still quite reasonable.

The same class of culture, education, literacy, these things are very important.

Of course, some people are born in wealthy families, and they may be tired of the flashy life since childhood, and some are willing to be poor, and some attach importance to spiritual pursuits.

Love is the foundation of material, and material is the condition of love.

Poor couples mourn everything, there is no material foundation, and it is difficult for love to last long enough.

Love is priceless, material prices are higher, measure it yourself, no one knows,

In such a trade-off between material and love, love is precious, and bread is more expensive. It is not advisable to take off the love of the royal boy and leave the reality, and the love that cannot guarantee the material life is destined to be a tragic film. When you choose material conditions as the focus of your future life, you must be prepared to lose everything at any time, because since you have clearly marked the price of the town and Wang Wang, there will be people who are higher than you.

Learn to be content. I think that the only thing that can weigh the relationship between material and love is to learn to be content, people will be vain, they will compare, and they will look at the mountains high.

It is particularly important, as long as there is a material foundation, it will make two people very happy in life. If you want to balance in life, you should work hard, and you should have a very good self-motivation, so that material and love can be balanced. It shouldn't get very lazy.

Matter is very important. In the face of such a thing, everything must be done in moderation, maintain a good relationship, and work together with the other party.

It is very important, and there needs to be some material things in love, so that it can support this love and balance it.

In love, should we consider the material foundation of the other person? I think it should be, and some girls have seen other boyfriends on the Internet and prepared good gifts for their girlfriends. And at this time, if we want, we should also consider the material foundation of our boyfriend.

Otherwise, it will also put a lot of pressure on your boyfriend, so it is recommended that you pay attention to this issue.

It is recommended that everyone must know that everyone's ability is different, if our boyfriend is still in school or the conditions in the boyfriend's home are not particularly good. But if we ask the other party to buy us these things, we are also embarrassed by the other party, so we also suggest that we should not treat each other like this. If you always want others to have something for yourself, then we shouldn't look for a material foundation, a man who is not particularly good.

If you also want to have these small gifts and these small surprises, it is best for us to find someone with good conditions.

In fact, when you are in love, you don't need to pay too much attention to each other's material foundation, but when you get married, you feel that you should pay attention to this issue. In the process of getting married, if there is no good material foundation, it is very likely that there will be some quarrels between each other for a few cents. But if we can understand some of these things, there will be no more quarrels after marriage, we must know that a penny is difficult to defeat a hero, and poor couples mourn everything.

We have to know that even if our boyfriend has no money, even if the other party's material foundation is not so good, as long as they are willing to treat us with heart and are willing to be motivated. The other party needs to be the right person if they are rich, and the vision of the rich people will be very high.

When you are in love, you should consider the material foundation of the other party, because everyone's economic ability is different, so in order to make the love between two people longer, you should consider the material pursuit of the other party.

Should. Because you should be cautious when you are in love, and at the same time, you should also consider the material foundation of the other party, and you should consider the conditions of the other party.

In fact, we should consider the material foundation of the other party, because this is also the basis of happiness.

If two people don't get along, no matter how much material will not be happy, many people don't understand, the result is simply the choice of material, whether in love or marriage there is no happiness at all, in fact, life for a hundred years, the choice is greater than the effort, material life is not brought by life, death is not brought, only on the basis of the right, material will have value and meaning.

Many people like to force themselves when they fall in love, and they will force others at every turn, and they will still be stalked, hoping that they can impress each other with their sincerity, but the plan will often fail, just because the other party will not force themselves to accept the unwilling and unwilling marriage because they are moved, and forcing it can at best prolong the survival of the relationship, but the relationship will always end.

You have to learn to love yourself, only those who love themselves will be worthy of the love of others, many people always think that others are good, and the result will be self-deprecating, even if you are stronger than others, you will feel weaker than others, over time you will feel dwarfed by others, and will inevitably be eclipsed.

You and your love object must have a say one, there are two to say two, Sakura filial piety do not hide, otherwise the gap and gap between you will become bigger and bigger, never say anything will form nothing to say, only if there is no gap between your hearts and hearts, you can hope to be intimate again.

In fact, in love, the question of who is more important, material or emotion, is not difficult, I think feelings must come first!

1.Materialism does not bring respect. Maybe my friends have also discovered that some beauties are not happy to join wealthy families, and the love established by beauty is unstable!

Because their career wealth does not match, those who have wealth always feel that they are indispensable, and they are indispensable after marriage, the status of the beauties is very low, and the beauties can't live their dignity, especially after a long time, no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it is also regarded as ordinary, if the face is gone, there is no advantage, at this time it may be ignored, maybe it will be disgusted and disgusted, maybe people have a new love, think about how long can the days of not being taken seriously last? Will this be happy?

2.Material things cannot be exchanged for feelings. The necessary material things can sometimes indeed express sincerity and depth of love!

But material things definitely can't buy feelings! Friends all know that people in the new era pay attention to their eyes! It's hard to rub out the spark of love that can't be seen in your eyes, let alone how long you hold on!

Take me as an example, I don't look at him, I don't worship him, I don't have the right heart, and I will never fall in love with him if I lack cultivation! Then I think like-mindedness is the catalyst for a person's lifelong love preservation! Everything else is floating clouds!

3.Matter does not determine the world of love. What is the emotional world in love, this world is harmony, tolerance and understanding, consideration for each other, sympathy, cherishing each other, not abandoning, seeing each other as a part of themselves, it is not easy to find your own half!

Think about it, how can we talk about love with material things alone? If material things really work, then those who have wealth will be loved by all, and the conclusion is of course impossible! So matter is not omnipotent, it is not the whole of the world of love!

Material things can't determine the direction of love! And it is the feelings that grasp the direction of love, as the song says, I have confirmed the eyes, I have met the right person!

Having feelings means that even if you are poor, as long as you are together, you can have daily laughter. Even if tea, rice, oil, and salt have become challenges in life, as long as we are together, we will have support, and there will be hope.

In fact, in a relationship, I personally think that feelings are more important. Love and marriage are still different, we don't need to think about so many things when we are in love, there are no obstacles to family, career, and life, and it is more likely that they will walk together because of the attraction of two people, so feelings are the most important.

In a relationship, feelings are the most important, and if there is no emotional foundation, they will soon be separated, so when you fall in love, you must find someone you like.

I think feelings are more important, but material things are necessary for survival. You don't need to have too much to make two people happy.

There is no doubt that feelings and materials are a pair of twin brothers and sisters who attach equal importance to each other and complement each other, they rely on each other, implicate each other, and support each other, so that it can be said that no one can do without anyone.

Good daughter-in-law's life wisdom issue 13.