Why is it so hard to live realistically?

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. It's very tiring to live, it's very hard because society is very unfair, it's very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, it's not boring because life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:

Don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain! .I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, when you are walking, someone else apologizes to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence: "It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you will be in a bad mood if you are in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed when you wake up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine yourself as a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position where you feel comfortable standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, do it at an even and slow speed, the movement does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look at the subtleties of it. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and rivers, etc. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are many people in this society who are similar to you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend! .

Sincerely wish: happiness and joy every day! ~

I don't know if it's a sin to live realistically, but I know that only by living realistically can I truly survive in today's society! I think the reason why I feel guilty may be a yearning for beauty. I felt that the beautiful dream in the centrifugation I had was very distant and unattainable.

Thus you may feel guilty! But I still want to say that living realistically is the way of life. Of course, there's nothing wrong with having a little sweet dream once in a while, just be sensible!

In fact, there will be joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows, sometimes it is normal to lose direction, you have love, family, friends and relatives many people are in the relationship with you, people live to experience the ups and downs of this world, you are already worthy of celebration with this opportunity, and then you have to work hard for your life to be meaningful, so that you do not come to this world in vain once and work hard, and then develop your own ideals, work hard for your ideals, and when you do it, your mentality will change, you will feel proud, And then after you succeed, you have to learn to be content, that is, to try to have no desires! I wish you a speedy way out!

The reality is like this, helpless ......On the bright side, we can think about the fact that everyone lives in such a reality that ...... leveling out

Friend, I understand you very well, you really want to live the truth, but you live inflexible, truth is not a sin, but living is not witty, just having truth, is rigid, is sinning.

That only means that you don't fit in. You just have to adapt to this society.

Because you don't really experience life, sometimes the reality is so cruel, but we have to face it bravely.

First of all, with the development of society and economy, people are facing more and more competition and pressure. Modern society has a higher demand for the individual, pursuing a higher quality of life and living standards, so Song Luchen people must work harder and pursue to meet these requirements.

Second, the values and concepts of modern society have also undergone great changes. Renye Zen people pay more attention to practical interests and personal interests, rather than traditional moral and humanistic values. This tendency leads people to become more realistic and effective, focusing on immediate benefits and ignoring further thinking.

Finally, the development and change of society has also brought some negative effects, such as information overload, social dependence, etc., which also make people feel more tired and anxious.

More and more people have this feeling, not erect and dismantle the young, or the old, in this era, everyone is moving forward with a load, the old, the young, get married and have children, cash is king, no way, we are facing the same situation, not only yourself, everyone is very realistic, between relatives, friends and even between brothers and sisters, very cruel but very helpless, you have to learn to accept, learn to adjust your heart, as happy as possible, life in the world is just a few decades, Don't waste your time on these negative energy emotions, actively exercise, work hard, treat others sincerely, don't bow to reality, work hard and work hard, don't leave the world in vain