My classmates asked what I should do if I didn t want to borrow something.

It's a real headache to encounter this situation.

Let's make a move, but it will take some time.

Discuss with a few people around you, if that person is often like that, other people next to him should have the same situation, so just say the reason and ask them to help, they will be the same. If it succeeds, that person will also change, so that the root cause can be solved. The classmates will get along more harmoniously, you say yes, hehe... First of all, don't bring or prepare your own portion, but you must not bring some of it, and then you borrow it from that person, make sure that person has it, otherwise how to borrow it.

Let that person also empathize, and then explain to her that there will only be a way with those around her, if she doesn't accept it, I don't believe that you can ask them to testify, so that it will not destroy the relationship between classmates.

You are so distressed that your own things have a certain meaning, and you don't just say that you are afraid of that person's feelings.

I think the excuse is to solve it, and I hope you and that person can find a better way to get along.

If she still doesn't accept or change, then you can put yourself away and borrow from others without reason or even abnormal. Hopefully, your troubles can be resolved and that person can correct this habit, otherwise it will be very detrimental to your future interactions.

It's better to have a showdown with her. Because she seems to take borrowing things from you for granted, even if she uses excuses to fool her once or twice, her habit will not change, and if you don't know it, she will find out that you are lying to her, and it will only get worse and worse in the end. Talk to her well, if she can recognize her mistakes, it's better, if not, it's better to keep a little distance from such friends.

Learn to refuse, have the courage to refuse him, and just say, it's nothing.

For such people, it is best to say it directly.

I think I can first send greetings to him, ask him how he is doing, and then explain that I urgently need these things at home, and hope that the other party can return them to me and express my intentions.

Actually, you can talk to him directly, because it's your stuff, and you just lent it to him, so he has to give it back to you.

You can communicate with him directly and explain your own difficulties, and if he still pretends not to hear, you can choose to give up such a friendship.

Summary. Hello dear, I understand: if you are not good to others, others will be good to you! Or are you usually helpful!

Looking for classmates to borrow things and not borrowing from me, I understood something.

Hello dear, I understand: if you are not good to others, others will be good to you! Or are you usually helpful!

Ask yourself if you are usually friendly to your classmates, and if you readily agreed when others borrowed your knowledge. If you don't have a very warm attitude towards others, of course, you won't necessarily lend it to you, not everyone doesn't hold grudges. But if you are usually very friendly to everyone, only this person does not accept your affection, then there is no need to blame yourself, it may be that the classmate cherishes this thing, or that he .........There is no need to look at yourself too much because of a trivial matter, there will be a certain rough cherry tree inferiority complex in the long run, and I will doubt whether I am not good enough because of some people's words or practices, but in fact, I don't care, now I hear others say that I can't do all kinds of things, just smile and don't speak, he just says it, I don't live in other people's mouths, I have to be confident in myself!

Summary. Legal basis: Article 119 of the Civil Procedure Law stipulates that the following conditions must be met for a lawsuit:

1) The plaintiff is a citizen, legal person, or other organization that has a direct interest in the case; (2) There is a clear defendant; (3) There are specific litigation claims, facts, and reasons; (4) It is within the scope of civil litigation accepted by the people's court and the jurisdiction of the people's court receiving the lawsuit.

My classmates asked me what I should do if I borrowed money and didn't pay it back.

If a student borrows money and does not repay it, friendly negotiation shall be used as the main means of collection, and if the other party is not repaid through consultation and reminder, relevant evidence may be prepared and a lawsuit may be filed in the court, and the court will rule that the other party should repay the money, and if the other party still does not repay it after the judgment, it may apply for compulsory enforcement, and if the other party has the ability to enforce the judgment but refuses to do so, it is suspected of committing a crime and must bear criminal responsibility.

Legal basis: Article 119 of the Civil Procedure Law stipulates that a lawsuit must meet the following conditions: (1) the plaintiff is a citizen, legal person or other organization with a direct interest in the case; (2) There is a clear defendant; (3) There are specific litigation claims, facts, and reasons; (4) It is within the scope of civil litigation accepted by the people's court and the jurisdiction of the people's court receiving the lawsuit.