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Sometimes, you lose it, maybe the next time you try hard, you will still get it.
But there are many times when you lose it and you can't get it back. For example, feelings, life.
A lot of times, you feel lost because you don't know what's next. Maybe it's the end, maybe it's the abyss, maybe it's a swamp.
If you have lost a relationship, then congratulations, maybe the next one you will cherish more because of the loss. However, I also regret to tell you that maybe the next one will not cherish or love you as much as the last one. This is the process of searching.
People are so entangled, they have lost it and become a fact, but they still think about the previous facts and don't want to accept the facts.
Advice for you: If you've lost something and want to get it again, go for it. Take your sincerity, hold your sincerity, and go for it. Of course, there are two results: one is that you get it, and the other is that it doesn't work.
If you succeed in getting what you want, then please cherish it, and be sure to cherish it. Because, it takes courage for people to believe in you again.
If you fail, don't be discouraged. Say to yourself that you will meet a better one. Because feelings are too hard to say, it's the same as taking the bus. If you miss this shift, you may not get off work, you will only have to wait to get off work, right?
There is no regret medicine in the world to take, so think about it when you do it.
Hope it helps. Hope!
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Tell yourself that you won't get it if you lose it, and cherish what you have, cherish the people who love you and the people you love. Cherish the life in front of you. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it.
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Life will never stop because of anyone's sadness, and the torrent of time will silently sweep away the past years.
As said in "Half an Acre of Flower Field": In life, we all receive different scripts. Some are bland, some are intense, some are laughing, some are tears, no matter what, I always have to play well until the curtain ends.
And all your losses, will be compensated, and eventually, come back in another way.
At present, I resigned from my job in Shenzhen, when I put down the heavy work, I felt that I had never relaxed, the moment I left, I still listened to my colleagues discussing the heavy work, I smiled slightly, I knew that it no longer belonged to me, I lost a glamorous job that outsiders looked at, I exchanged for peace of mind, and a short rest, so that my nerves that had been overdrawn were relaxed.
Everyone will always have a difficult road that needs to be walked by themselves, with no one to help or accompany them.
Don't be afraid, just walk through it with your head held high, and after all the setbacks and tribulations, you will find that you are far stronger than you imagined.
Time knows.
Life will always give you the answer, but it won't tell you everything right away.
Sometimes, the reward does not necessarily appear immediately after the pay, as long as you are willing to wait, the beauty of life will always come when you are not expecting.
Even if you shout to the hollow valley, it will take a while before you hear the long echo.
The mountains have peaks, and the sea has the other side. It's a long journey, and there will be a turnaround.
You don't have to rush to give you all the answers that life gives, you have to be patient when you have no brothers, etc.
Legend has it that penguins used to be able to fly, but there was a female penguin whose wings were too short to fly anyway.
Later, a large number of penguins flew away, and only one male penguin decided to stay and accompany her.
In search of food, they tried to learn to swim, and many years later, when they sat on the beach, the mother penguin said, "I'm sorry for giving up the sky for me." ”
The male penguin looked at her with a smile and said, "It's okay, with you, I have harvested the ocean." ”
So, you see, in this world, there is never a real loss.
Four of India's most famous Zen sayings:
No matter who you meet, he's the right person;
Whatever happens, that's the only thing that happens;
No matter what moment it starts, it's the right moment;
If it's over, it's over.
Even if the reality is cruel, you must always learn to live affectionately in this merciless world.
Life is a journey, and all you pass by is the scenery.
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Hello, lost everything and gained more. Lost a sense of security, but gained more freedom; Lost the familiar environment, but got more opportunities; lost a comfortable life, but got more challenges; Lost the comfortable space, but got more development; Lost a stable income, but gained more; Lost everything, but gained more self-confidence, more courage, more wisdom, and more growth.
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After getting married, I get a body that will only make me old, and I get the person I should love, but I can't love the person who raised me; After marriage, I lost my youth, lost my mother's love and father's love, lost my old happy times, and how haggard and lonely I am now.
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Parents who are worried about their children may also need to respect their children's opinions at times. In fact, if two people really love each other, then they should be able to come together in the end.
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I'm facing the same problem as you right now, and it's been bothering me for almost a year, and it's nothing more than money in the end. Who can say which is right and which is wrong? Since it's not clear.
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Big brother, do you mean yourself or her?? I've just come out of society now, and I've had a similar experience to you, and I think a lot of men will mature because of a woman, and I also think that money is very important now. It used to be a matter of just enough to eat and drink, but now it's suddenly not.
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