Emotional confusion about boyfriends and shopping 5

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe it means that he treats you as his own person from the heart, I remember that when I first talked to my girlfriend, it seemed that it was also your boyfriend's situation, and he would take her around each floor and buy her a lot of things, and my feeling was that it was a little flattering to her, hehe. Later, when she got acquainted with her girlfriend, it was not like that, she said that she would go wherever she went. I don't think it's because I don't care about her anymore, I feel from the bottom of my heart that I care about her more now than before, and I love her more.

    Maybe I think of her as my other half from the heart, and I'm not so rusty anymore, so I don't have to do those things to show her, your boyfriend should be like this. You can talk to her. Blessings, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He knows you're good to her, so he doesn't have to please you anymore.

    He is so good to her, so to please her, because your departure makes him feel that his emotional world is very empty, and he has to make up for it, and if he wants to make up for it, he has to pay. You have a delicate relationship with him, and between him and her, which is completely different.

    Therefore, everyone should learn to empathize with things, truly understand what the other person needs, and should not always think about what the other person should give you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because you are not mature enough, in fact, if a person relaxes a little and thinks in a different direction, you will suddenly open up, and many will become very beautiful!

    Advice: Don't be too demanding, don't be too perfectionist, only when you have your first love, when you have your first love, you will find how harsh you were before. Everyone has your troubles, see if you will deal with them, solve, you have to learn to be humorous, tactfully tell each other your own ideas, this is the best solution!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't think too much, treat him well, don't worry too much about your own gains and losses, as long as two people really love each other, why bother to force yourself with perfectionism, you worry too much, live every day, life is impermanent, you have to affect this relationship because of some trivial things!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, he's pretty good, boys don't like shopping much in the first place, and it's common for there to be situations like the one you said.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Most likely, not.

    1. Affect feelings:

    Most boys don't like to hang out, so there must be a purpose in shopping, such as buying a pair of pants. Then he will go directly to that store to pick out a pair of pants according to his preference for the brand.

    And girls are different, aimlessly see what they like, they will try it on, and then they may not buy it, because they have to be weighed repeatedly, what if there is a better one?

    The boy is easily impatient after a long time of shopping, although he may not say it, but the expression is all there—bored with a store, stand at the door, or sit on the sofa in that store and start playing with his phone. You ask him if his clothes look good, and he doesn't look up and says they look good. Girls are naturally angry.

    2. Most straight men are not good at aesthetics:

    What kind of high-end aesthetic can you point to a boy whose wardrobe is full of basic styles? What constructive advice can I give you?

    Either you tried a few clothes and he couldn't see the difference, or he finally helped you pick one and you still thought the thief Liang Yusou's ugly, and he was embarrassed to say that he had to pretend to try it. So I feel very tired of shopping with boys, except for the aesthetic gay honey.

    3. I don't want him to know how bad I am:

    Every time I go shopping, if I don't buy and buy, I feel that I am at a loss, and I run out in vain. So when you see what you like, you can't help but start.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's been a long time since I met Mr. Zhang, and it's the first time we've gone shopping together.

    He is a patient, thoughtful, selfish, and responsible boyfriend, and he likes to buy me things, and he doesn't like to make me pay for my boyfriend Manuscript Pei Ying.

    Yesterday we went to the Gongmi Lane Night Market next to Miquan Fengyuan, which was really lively, there were all kinds of food stalls, there were grilled gluten stalls, fruit stalls, mobile phone case stalls, Liangpi restaurant in the cherry blossoms, rice noodle restaurants, etc., we ate some roasted fish, grilled chicken wings, grilled vegetables, and drank in the cabin, I think after having a boyfriend, doing everything together, I think it's good.

    I feel like it's a happy thing to go shopping with my boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When shopping, when you recall the previous moments when he was by your side, it is inevitable that there will be a little sadness in your heart. And the ** in the mobile phone, that is your eternal memorial, what will you do with these ** after breaking up?

    Some people will keep it as a memento, after all, they love each other, and there is grace between the two of them, and they teach each other many things and truths. If this is an unacceptable first acquaintance for your new girlfriend, let Celery I think you should consider the possibility of you being together. If it were me, I wouldn't object to my boyfriend leaving his ex-girlfriend's **, keeping it as a souvenir and proving that you really love it.

    I don't care how good your past is, I just need you to be good to me now.

    Even if you tear up your ex-girlfriend's ** in front of your new girlfriend, you shouldn't secretly think of her when passing by somewhere. Nor should anything come to mind in mind. So, you might as well generously tell your new girlfriend and leave her ** as a souvenir!

    Because I want to cherish you even more! In fact, everyone has a past, and a ** does not mean anything, some are just beautiful memorials. After all, it's the person you love, so be kind to someone else's.

    If you don't have that memory, or if you want to start a new life, then we can respect your choice to delete **. Because it's an inevitable thing, and you don't want to stay in the shadow of the past and not be able to get out, it's all up to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why do you feel this way?

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