Whether in urban or rural areas, do you still think that raising children prevents old age? Are sons

In the past, the concept of raising children to prevent old age was indeed deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but few people have such thoughts, and now many people have pension insurance, and their pension has a great guarantee. Chinese pay attention to filial piety, and those who do not have pension insurance will also have their own sons who are filial, and those who are not filial to the elderly are only individuals. Nowadays, young people are under a lot of pressure, and many people pay more attention to pension insurance, so that their children can be more relaxed.

1.Today's young people are very filial to their parents, but because these young people are young and old, they are also faced with all the construction costs of the family, especially all the expenses of the children's schooling. of young people can't straighten their backs.

Relying on wages alone, they do not have the financial strength to support their parents and allow them to live happily ever after in their old age. This is still prevalent in rural areas.

2.Now people in the countryside have clearly seen the future trend of social discovery and development, that is, it is unreliable to prevent aging by raising children. Quite a number of peasants under the age of 60 have purchased old-age insurance and old-age pension methods, relying on the state's good policies for old-age care, and this understanding has been formed in rural areas.

Therefore, the old saying of raising children will become history and be sealed.

3.The new society is equal between men and women, and children are the same in both urban and rural areas. Both legally and theoretically, children have the right to inherit their parents' estates and have the responsibility to support their parents.

In particular, the elderly in rural areas have no pension income. Whether a son or a daughter supports the elderly depends on the economic conditions of the children and the contribution of the parents. In general, they pay more for their daughters, who have the ability to earn their own money and support their parents more reliably than sons.

In today's society, everyone sees the issue of old-age care very clearly. Raising children does not necessarily prevent old age. Having children is the same, and raising children can be a heavier burden for parents.

Therefore, now everyone's concept of raising children to prevent old age has completely changed. Although there is endowment insurance, we young people should also be more filial to the elderly, and young people who are struggling outside should often go home to accompany the elderly.

At present, people in the rural areas have clearly seen the trend of social discovery in the future, that is, it is unreliable to rely on raising children to prevent old age, and there are many peasants under the age of 60 who have purchased old-age insurance methods to provide for the elderly when they are old, and rely on the state's good policies to provide for the elderly, and this understanding has been formed in the rural areas. Therefore, the saying of relying on raising children to provide for the elderly in the past will become the history of the past.

Yes, many people have this view, so there is a view of raising a son. It's not that some sons are very filial to their parents, and this kind of filial piety will make you very envious, but some sons really make their parents angry.

Many people now think that raising children prevents old age, but having a son is sometimes unreliable. Therefore, you should still pay pension insurance normally, so that you can rely on your old age.

This kind of thinking still exists in the hearts of most people, who believe that they must give birth to a son, otherwise they will be helpless when they are old, and they think that their daughters are unreliable. However, there are also a small number of people whose concepts have changed, and they will see the value of their daughters, cultivate their daughters wholeheartedly, and no longer think about giving birth to sons, thinking that their daughters can also provide for themselves and live a better life in old age.

Compared with the cities, the thinking of rural people may be relatively narrow and very ignorant, and the old concepts are relatively deep-rooted, and there is no way to change them in a short period of time. Many old ladies or grandfathers in rural areas are very fond of their grandchildren or sons, and they don't like daughters and granddaughters very much, but they don't hate them either. The reason why this happens is because when they were young, they grew up listening to the words that their son is the root of a family, and their daughter is a loser, and they were deeply poisoned by these thoughts.

This kind of situation will become more and more severe after they get old, and there are many patriarchal phenomena. However, some people in the city will only have one daughter, after all, it is better for their own daughter to be restricted by the birth policy. As long as the person's thinking changes, his behavior will naturally change, and there is no need for external force to influence it.

In today's social situation, most people no longer have such thoughts, and will be very good to their children, regardless of whether the child's gender is male or female. I hope that all people can re-understand gender and not use gender to judge a person's value. Some sons are more unfilial, because they were favored by their parents when they were young, and they are more self-willed when they grow up.

And some daughters are very sensible, and when it comes to the hard work of making money, they are very considerate of their parents, and they will be better to their parents.

Therefore, parents must treat their sons and daughters equally, so that they can enjoy better support, and do not entrust the hope of providing for the elderly to their sons, otherwise they will eventually be counterattacked.

In the past, the elderly in rural areas have always been the main sedan chair, and they have to rely on "raising children to prevent old age" to enjoy their old age. However, with the development of urbanization, a large number of laborers have moved from rural areas to cities, choosing to leave their hometowns and go out to work, and there are more and more empty nesters in rural areas, making the rural pension model of "raising children and preventing old age" gradually become less reliable.

Nowadays, there are more only children in rural families, and single-person families and empty-nest families are constantly emerging. In the past, multiple children shared the support of an elderly person; Now, a small number of children support many elderly people, and there is no doubt that the burden of children's pension is very heavy.

The elderly are prone to illness, and their expenses related to medicine, nursing and nutrition are huge expenses, which add a certain financial burden to the children of migrant workers. For a long time, the children only go home for a year and a half due to various reasons, resulting in the elderly in rural areas being "old and helpless", having difficulty in taking care of themselves, and losing spiritual comfort.

If it was in the past, whether it was urban or rural, it was true that it was necessary to rely on raising children to be able to support the elderly, but the son was unreliable and unfilial. However, in the past few decades since the reform and opening up, there has been a great upheaval in society, and the concept of raising children to prevent old age from being buried is being changed.

Now this society is no longer the society that used to be a false banquet, it is impossible to raise children to prevent old age, and now the pressure of young people is very poor, and there is no time to take care of the elderly, so don't worry about the problem of Luqin anymore.

"Raising children to prevent old age" is a matter of course, I raise you young, you raise me old, and this is how the generations have come.

You grow up with me, I grow old with you" is full of poetry and romance, which is indeed a portrayal of many people's lives, but with the improvement of social security, economic progress and social development, people have given a new concept of raising children.

The needs of the elderly for their children are mainly reflected in the following aspects:

1. The role of companionship and spiritual support for the elderly.

When people reach old age, they generally have little energy, the organs are degenerate, many things must be taboo, and they can't go to the mountains and rivers as they like, if they have children and grandchildren by their side, it will largely eliminate the loneliness of the elderly, so that the elderly have a pillar in the spirit, and the sense of happiness will be stronger.

2. Take care of the elderly when they are sick.

People will inevitably get sick when they get old, and the elderly who are no longer sharp in their legs and feet will feel much more comfortable if they have children who run around the hospital for themselves and take care of them.

I saw an 80-year-old man in the hospital, who drove an electric wheelchair to see a doctor, and saw that he occasionally had to get out of the wheelchair, trembling with a crutch, and suddenly felt very uncomfortable, and sighed that it was not easy for people to get old.

Not to mention the care before the bed, in addition to the children, the nurse nanny is definitely not as intimate and careful as the children, although there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, but if you are old and have no children and no daughters, I am afraid it will be more desolate.

3. Take care of the daily life of the elderly.

Laundry, mopping, cooking, etc. for the elderly with limited mobility.

To sum up, in fact, the elderly are still quite dependent on their children in their old age, just like newborn babies need to be fed and cared for by their parents, and the elderly also need the care and care of their children in their old age.

Therefore, when you see those parents who work tirelessly to have a second and third child, do you have a little more understanding? The old man is like a child, he likes to be lively, life is like a circle, going around and around, and he returns to the original point when he is old.

3. When you are old, you must rely on your children, but you must also rely on yourself.

In China, most children will fulfill their filial piety, and children generally have feelings for their parents, and very few children do not care about their parents.

But many middle-aged people are under a lot of pressure these days. This is especially true for the one-child generation, where a couple has to take care of two elderly couples, raise children, and are often burdened with car loans and mortgages, and are busy making ends meet every day.

Therefore, for the elderly, they should plan for their own pension from a young age, and while relying on their children, they should also take precautions and make plans for themselves.

Bloodline is very important, but in real life, bloodline becomes worthless in the face of money, believe in yourself, don't believe in damn blood.

The relationship between adoptive parents and adoptive children can be severed in law, but the relationship of blood relationship cannot be severed.

You can not recognize your parents, but you know it in your heart. No matter what happens, they are your parents. It's an emotional constraint.

In the face of their parents, their children are grateful, and in the face of their children, their parents are full of love.

In the vast majority of cases, parents are the ones who can do anything to help their children. Because the love of parents is the most selfless love in the world.

The relationship between parents and children can be stiff or even extreme. But family affection has firmly entangled parents and children at the moment of birth.

Tsubaki Xuan" is the name of the parents. "Tsubaki" is a type of tree, and "Xuan" is a flower, orange-red or yellow-red. It is common to call the father "Tsubaki Garden" and the mother "Xuantang".

Giving birth to a child is a task, counting on a child is a mistake, don't expect anything, there used to be a saying that a mother can raise ten children, and ten children are difficult to support a mother.

More than that. First, the cost of childbirth has increased significantly. It used to be an extra child.

The child is to add a pair of "chopsticks", but also to share more land, and now it is simply added "golden chopsticks", from milk powder, diapers, body milk, nutrition and other supplies to spend money, and then to kindergarten, trusteeship, various interest classes, tutoring, for fear that he will lag behind his peers at the starting line, so that the increasingly serious "involution" can be consumed?

Second, the work pressure has increased. The pace of work is so fast, the ridge is high, big.

996 is the norm in the city, and even your own weekends can't be guaranteed, how to take care of your children? Moreover, the child has to take maternity leave for a lifetime, and some people's careers are on the rise, so they will face the contradiction of suspension. Basically, I don't have the energy to give birth to children and take care of children, so I leave them to my parents to bring, and now I don't have the same left-behind children as we used to throw them to their parents, worrying that they will not bring them well.

Third, there is a risk of childbirth. Most of us get married after graduating from college, and the time to get married and have children is constantly delayed, especially when older women have a second child, they may face accelerated aging, high blood pressure and other grinding.

The biggest impact of negative population growth on ordinary people is the following two aspects. It's a matter of seeing a doctor. Earlier, if you have paid for 15 or 20 years, you can enjoy the end-of-life plastic medical insurance.

That is, after paying a certain number of years, after retirement, you can enjoy medical insurance treatment without paying medical insurance money. However, with negative population growth, fewer and fewer young people can continue to pay for health insurance.

The money in the pool is decreasing, but the medical spending is increasing. This is also normal, the older you get, the more your body functions gradually decline. According to data from the National Health Commission, China's average life expectancy in 2022 is aged, but the healthy life expectancy is less than 70 years.

That is to say, Wu said that there are about 8 years of living with illness, and chronic diseases, geriatric diseases, and elderly care all need to spend a lot of money.

Most of the elderly need to go to public hospitals to be reimbursed for medical insurance expenses. At present, public hospitals are overcrowded, and medical resources are unevenly distributed. If you want to receive high-quality medical care, such as going to a private hospital, international department, or special needs department, etc.

There is often a need to pay more. Once you get seriously ill, the scope and amount of medical insurance reimbursement are limited, and the elderly have little income at this time, and relying on the pension alone is really a drop in the bucket. It's a pension issue. It is difficult to provide for the elderly, and the declining birthrate is superimposed on the aging population, and the most prominent problem is the pension.

The burden of family pension may become heavier and heavier. The model of "raising children and preventing old age" shows that it can no longer meet the future social development trend. Although many people have participated in the country's social security pension, our current social security pension system.

It is a pay-as-you-go system, that is, the money paid by young people to social security is used to pay pensions to the elderly. When there are fewer and fewer young people and more and more elderly people in the future, the total amount of pension will increase less and consume more, and the pressure on the national pension will not be small.

Especially in the next 15 years, more than 300 million people will reach the age of 60, and it is a sure fact that the baby boom will turn into a retirement wave. People are afraid of getting old and poor, although the general consensus is that "raising children is difficult to prevent old age", but after all, it is also a possible reliable option.

Of course, when it comes to childbirth, it's best if you're willing to give birth, and if you don't want to give birth, then don't give birth! In addition to having a baby, it is more important to plan well in advance. For example, for medical risks that may occur in the future.

In addition to exercising, going to bed early and waking up early, don't forget to do regular physical examinations every year.

In addition, it is also possible to appropriately increase the protection of critical illness insurance and medical insurance to reduce the possibility of poverty due to illness. In terms of pension, although there is not much social security, it is better than running naked. So the delivery still can't be stopped.

At the same time, you can do a good job of wealth planning for the future. For example, to appropriately increase future cash flow income, you can increase your lifetime life through annuity insurance.

Save a certain amount of money every year, and then compound it over time. Prepare an extra money bag for your old self.