When people reach old age, can raising children and daughters really not prevent old age?

Personally, when people reach old age, can they really not prevent old age by raising children and daughters? My answer is: No, some people in their old age, their children are very filial, take good care of the elderly, or accompany the old people to spend their old age, and some old people in their old age, their children are not willing to stick to their bodies, they are not willing to take care of them, and this kind of blood is thicker than water family affection is very light, and there is not even a little taste of family affection, as if it has nothing to do with themselves.

First, the old people who enjoy the happiness will be very satisfied in their old age, and they will be gray-haired, and gradually drowned by the loess, and they all say that people will enjoy happiness in their old age, because at this time the children are older, and they don't have to work hard, this is true, for some children who have been very filial to their parents since childhood, when the old people reach their old age, they will not take care of the elderly, and they will take care of the living of the elderly. Even if he is very busy at work, he will go home to accompany the elderly as soon as he is busy with work, and the elderly are also very comfortable and enjoy the joy of family.

Second, the unfilial children will make the old man very sad in his old age, there are filial children, there must be unfilial children, after all, the difference and difference between people is very big, when there are that kind of unfilial children, the old man in his old age is a little insecure, to put it bluntly, the old man has no one to rely on in his old age, even if he is seventy or eighty, his waist is not straight, and he is still facing the loess, doing farm work with his back to the sky, earning his pension money in his old age, and living on those acres of land. Coarse tea and light food every day, there is no room for enjoyment in life, there is a wife can still give the wife to rely on each other, no wife alone scruples to spend the old age, I don't know how long I can live, but I know very well that my children are white-eyed wolves, they are not filial, and they don't want to mention more.

Third, the old age and the adoption of daughters to prevent old age is completely due to the person in the past, it was always said that raising children can prevent old age, resulting in many people feeling that raising sons is real, and they can be relied on in their old age, but now many sons are not necessarily filial people, many daughters are very filial, but it is still different from person to person, and it is also related to the cultivation of all aspects of their family from an early age, and it is also related to their own edification and awareness of the elderly, so it is still that sentence, filial children, whether they are sons or daughters, the elderly will be very relieved, Unfilial children, not to mention being able to prevent old age, don't torture the old people It's a good thing.

Not necessarily, raising children and daughters nowadays can prevent old age, although it is said that daughters are not married in their own homes, but they also have the responsibility of providing for the elderly, so raising children and daughters can prevent old age.

It's not like this, raising children and daughters can also prevent old age, and they can be taken care of by their children in their later years, but what really determines whether they can prevent old age is the education and cultivation of children from an early age.

Whether you can prevent old age cannot be said absolutely, but when you reach your old age, if you have a son and daughter by your side, you can still take good care of yourself.

As the saying goes, there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, even the daughter will feel that her parents have been sick for a long time, and she is very annoying, but as a wife, she will not feel disgusted, and husband and wife accompany each other is the best nanny, and good health is the greatest blessing for the elderly.

Raising children and daughters can prevent old age, but when you are old, you will not have the financial ability. At this time, the child can support you.

Raising children and daughters is to prevent old age, otherwise what do you want. But how to teach a kind and filial child to support you in your old age depends on your educational methods.

Of course not, in fact, when you are old, it is very likely that the problem of children not providing for the elderly is in education, which will lead to the formation of children like this.

Not necessarily. Because many sons and daughters are very unfilial, and there are many children who will not support the elderly, it depends on whether the children are reliable.

Nowadays, people generally have one or two children, if they all want to raise children to prevent old age, then the pressure on children in the future will be very great, they in addition to coping with their own lives, but also to help their parents provide for the elderly, you can imagine how hard it will be. Children only come to this world through us, not our reserve for retirement, we should plan for our old age when we are young, and do not think about relying on others.

I think so, but there are also many young people, because of the huge pressure of work and life, it is difficult to have enough financial strength to support the elderly.

I can't say for sure. Some children are filial, and some children are not filial, so the specific should be looked at specifically. However, I think the safest way is to have a certain pension, so that you can rely on your old age.

The more affluent groups do not have a strong concept of raising children to prevent old age. In the group of wealthy families, because of the good economic conditions, there is no clear urgency to raise children to prevent old age, and this part of the group has the conditions to ensure their old age, so raising children to prevent old age is not their only purpose for their children.

For groups with a high level of education, the concept of raising children and preventing old age is relatively indifferent. The group with a high level of education is relatively indifferent to the concept of raising children to prevent old age, and their main goal is to hope that their children will study more and become useful talents for the country and society.

For urban residents, the concept of raising children and preventing old age is not urgent. With the coverage of the national pension is getting bigger and bigger, urban residents have a stable pension, the demand for raising children and preventing old age is not very urgent, the greatest hope of this part of the group for their children can make their children study more, stronger than themselves, at least to support themselves.

The following groups have the strongest concept of raising children to prevent aging.

The vast number of people in rural areas basically have no pension, and once they are old, if they do not have children to take care of themselves, it is basically difficult to take care of themselves, especially in the rural areas of remote mountainous areas.

People who are living in relative hardship hope that their children can find a good job and a good income, which can help them change their poverty.

People who are not in good health, because they are sick, or they have underlying diseases, are in poor health, and these people hope that their children will not leave their side, and once there is a physical problem, no one will take care of them.

Can raising children prevent aging? The situation in real life is not as good as it should be.

The better the children's learning, the more outstanding their achievements, and the farther away from the goal of raising children to prevent old age. Some children go abroad to study and settle overseas, and they can't return home for a few years, and some haven't returned home for ten years, so they can be contacted through **, and there is a time difference.

More children settle in first- and second-tier cities, can only go home once a year, pension is to send some money home, to express filial piety, if the elderly are sick, really love can not help, far water can not quench the thirst.

The only child has more than enough to support the elderly, but not enough. The only child is to live around, because there are four or even six old people, and one or two children under it, once an old man is sick or bedridden, the only child is really more than enough and not enough.

A considerable number of rural children go out to work, and some have settled in the city, and it is difficult for the empty-nest elderly to provide for the elderly. Now many rural areas are empty nest villages, and the left-behind elderly are basically taking care of themselves, but now due to the state's policy of caring for the children of migrant workers, the number of left-behind children is gradually decreasing, and the number of left-behind elderly people is increasing.

The actual situation of real life has collapsed the traditional concept of raising children to prevent old age, and it is difficult to raise children to support the elderly, which has become the consensus of many elderly people.

This question is very direct and practical, and the answer is yes.

Modern people pay less and less attention to inheritance, China's fertility rate has been declining year after year, that is, many young people think that their children will not be able to support the elderly in the future, so they refuse to have children. If it weren't for the fact that when you are old and sick and can't do anything, you can have a relative by your side, then who bothers to raise a child?

The ancients said that raising children prevents old age. He also said that his parents were not far away. All of them speak of the purpose and significance of raising children.

Whether in the past, today or in the future, there is only one true meaning for children to their parents: to have a support when they are old. Nowadays, this kind of reliance is not on the material and monetary level, but more on the spiritual level.

At present, the elderly in the city, who work better, have a good pension and publicly-funded medical care, and there is no problem with medical care.

When you can't take care of yourself, you can bend the hall to ask a nurse or go to a nursing home, but all this needs someone to handle it specifically, and the elderly don't need their children to wait by their side, but they need to see the figure of TM often, as a spiritual sustenance and mental support. Even if the children are not in the same city, the elderly have confidence, even if they only hear the voice or image in ** or **, it is also a great comfort and strength.

In this sense, having children is to prevent old age, and all other grandiose preaching is pale and powerless, and it is also extremely hypocritical.

Having a baby is not about preventing old age. There is a lot of positive feedback about raising children, such as spiritual sustenance, and it can also make the family warmer and more lively, but it is by no means for children to provide for themselves.

Nowadays, many young people say that when they are old, they can go to a nursing home and never add a burden to their children. And now people have a sense of insurance, basically start to buy insurance after graduation, and you can also receive a monthly pension when you are old, as long as you are not seriously ill, the basic life is not a problem, and you don't need to rely on your children to support the elderly.

Secondly, the process of raising children is also the process of parental growth.

The child's preference for his parents, perhaps there is no one in the world who can give it except the child. I often hear people say that since a certain boy became a father, he seems to have grown up and become sensible. After most men become fathers, they will consciously shoulder the burden on their shoulders, take their due responsibilities, and become mature.

Mothers also become stronger in the process of raising their children. As the saying goes, motherhood is rigidity. In the process of raising children, we will encounter all kinds of sadness, pain and difficulties, but we must grit our teeth and persevere for the sake of our children.

Mothers will become stronger and more calm than they were before they became mothers.

If you raise a child, this is just an objective condition, and the subjective one depends on whether the child has filial piety.

Getting married and having children is a process that each of us has to go through. But after getting married, if we can't provide good conditions for our children, we can't have more children. ......The reason why we say this is because we have an obligation to create good living conditions for our children, we have a responsibility to train our children to be talents, and we must take into account the realities of family life.

1. We have the obligation to create good conditions for our children. If you can't reach it, you can't have more children.

When we get married and have children, we have the right to create good living conditions for our children, so that our children have a good space for development. ......This obligation is not only based on the relevant regulations, but also from the sense of responsibility ...... our heartsBecause of this, we must take responsibility for our children and create the best conditions for them. ......If we can't afford more, we can't have more children.

2. As parents, we have the responsibility to train our children to become talents. Otherwise, you can't have more children.

As parents, in addition to fulfilling our own obligations to our children, we must also take on the responsibility of nurturing and educating our children. ......This is a great responsibility, and the future and future of the child depend on it. ......That's why we have to take responsibility for our children.

Having more children means that families with limited conditions cannot raise their children better. Such a family should rationally give up the idea of having more children and face this problem with a realistic attitude.

3. We must consider the actual situation of the family on the question of whether to have more children.

Whether or not to have more children is closely related to the actual situation of one's own family. ......Specifically, if your family conditions are relatively good, you not only have enough economic conditions to create good conditions for your children, but also have enough energy to cultivate and educate your children. Then there is no problem in choosing to have more children.

However, if your own conditions are limited, choosing to have more children is not conducive to the growth of your children, and you should give up this idea rationally, so as to obtain the most ideal results, make family life harmonious, and let your children get the best development.

With a normal and successful traditional education, yes. But I personally think that it is not practical for ordinary people to raise children to prevent old age, and most elderly people will choose to go to nursing homes instead of leaving a burden on their children.

Traditionally, there are many parents who save money to save money for their children, but they don't enjoy the care of their children when they are old! This kind of thinking should be changed, leave some money for your own retirement, give all the money to your children, and finally the state will give you money! The pressure on the country is huge.