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Raising children to prevent old age can be done and should be done. Your parents raise your young, and you raise your parents old, not to mention family affection, that is, from the most realistic utilitarian point of view, it is also a reasonable equivalent exchange, not to mention that there is another layer of blood relatives. Excellent traditions should be inherited, and I believe that the vast majority of children consciously uphold and practice the purpose of filial piety.
There may also be some children who are not very filial, but because of the sake of face, the most basic support for their parents is still there.
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In order to prevent old age, in the final analysis, it is necessary to educate the child well in his education, so that he can become a sympathetic, kind and optimistic person. If it is not an only child, it is a family with multiple children, then it is more important to educate well, to weigh the relationship between their children, and to maintain the brotherhood and sisterhood between them.
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Raising children and preventing old age is only one aspect, the important thing is to have a good and healthy body. Being able to walk around and eat without illness is the best way to care for the elderly! But there are very few such ways!
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Regardless of children, filial children must prevent old age, whether children are filial and ancestors accumulate goodness, accumulate yin virtue, whether the elders are filial, family education.
The education environment is related, and one report is also reported.
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This is not necessarily, it depends on the nature of the child, and some sons do not support the elderly.
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A good education can prevent old age.
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There is a saying in China, raising children to prevent old age, the reason why we have children is to wait for us to be old, someone to take care of ourselves. However, with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved, many people have pensions after retirement, or have accumulated enough wealth through hard work when they are young to ensure their pension life, and there is no need to rely on children to provide for the elderly. Hence the emergence of more and more dink couples, who think:
We don't rely on children to support our old age, so what's the point of having children?
You must know that the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it is not easy to bring up a child, and parents have to help their children buy a car and a house, get married and have children, and even when they are old, it is difficult to have their own free time, and they have to help their children take care of their children.
The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples can't figure out why they want to have children. When I was watching a variety show recently, the host of the show raised this question, I don't want to get married before I get married, and I don't want children after I get married, because I don't understand what the meaning of having children is. Spending money and having children is a very troublesome thing that will bring a lot of troubles to your life, which can be completely avoided, so you don't want to, because children disrupt your normal life.
The thoughts of this show host are naturally also the thoughts of many young couples, they don't know why they want to have children, is it just to pass on the lineage? If it is to have a child for the sake of having a child, what is the meaning of marriage? Regarding the host's question, Xiang Huaqiang's wife Chen Lan gave this answer:
When I grow old day by day, but my youth continues in the child, he grows up, so my time has not disappeared, many people will ask where has the time gone? I saw it in children.
Xiang Tai, who is in his 60s, is the only one among the guests of the show who is ready to be a mother-in-law, and because he is older, he has experienced a lot of things, so he sees things very clearly, and people live well.
It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, but if once you decide to have children, it is best for couples to make a careful decision after thinking clearly, once you become parents, the responsibility becomes more important, and two children are indeed something that requires more energy to complete in a day. Some people say that children are the continuation of each of our lives, and when we leave this world, there is still our blood in the world, and there are still people who remember the days when we were alive, you grow up with him, and he grows old with you, which can also be said to be the happiest thing in the world.
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From the development of feudal society to the current socialist society, there have been rapid development and changes in all aspects, but the concept of "raising children to prevent old age" is deeply rooted in people's thoughts.
1. Elderly people who do not live with young people.
For various reasons, the old do not live with the young people. Many young people who work hard in the city, whether they live in a rented house or buy a house in the city where they live, most of their parents will not go to the city where their children live to support the elderly.
On the one hand, they don't want to add trouble to their children and increase financial pressure; On the other hand, when people reach a certain age, they will fall in love with their families, and the places where they live for most of their lives cannot be thrown away; Another reason is that after all, it is an intergenerational person, and the lifestyle, diet and living will be very different, and it is not comfortable for anyone to live awkwardly together, so it is better to let the young people live in their way, and the elderly themselves how to be comfortable, so that the relationship between the two generations will be closer.
2. The elderly who want to live together, but can't live together.
The most realistic problem, the economic conditions. Raising children to prevent old age is still the consensus of the elderly in rural areas.
Young people in rural areas are roughly divided into two categories, one is those who have jobs in the cities or do business in the cities and settle down, there is a saying that is very practical, if you want to change the fate of one generation, you must have a good foundation laid by the previous three generations. This generation has just left the countryside and has no certain foundation in the city, and their original intention of settling in the city is to make the fate of the next generation better than their own, and they first think about the future of their children, and then they think of their parents in the countryside.
The second type is that young people go out to work, and the parents who stay in the countryside have to take care of the work of the family on the one hand, and on the other hand, they also have to take care of the lives of the grandchildren who are left behind.
Third, the current situation of having more than enough heart but not enough strength.
Our parents raise us young, and we support our parents when they are old, which is the traditional filial piety of the Chinese nation. But the reality in front of people is that everyone is willing to be willing to stay with their parents and have to run for life and provide for their parents. It's just that pension is not as simple as thinking about it in your heart and talking about it in your mouth.
If there is a pension for the elderly, it will greatly reduce the financial burden of children. And those rural elderly, most of them suffered a lot in their early years, were unwell and were reluctant to go to the hospital for examination**, and when they reached old age, they were often sick. Although there is a pension insurance now, the little money for a year is not enough to even do a physical examination.
Relying on children, children also have the next generation to raise, even if they have that heart, they don't have that strength.
Therefore, raising children does not prevent old age. The elderly should change their concept and save more pension money for themselves when they have the ability to prepare for their old age.
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