Why am I always not cared for and hated by people?

I think you're a person who wants a lot of people to like, and your kindness already has that condition. The ancient Siran philosopher Democritus said, don't try to know everything, otherwise you will know nothing, in other words, it is impossible to make everyone like you, that is almost impossible, you are a good person, but you do not know how to use your zeal. Excessive concern is a kind of pressure, people have a proud side, do not want to owe others, excessive concern is sometimes like an emotional debt, others do not want to owe you too much.

You just need to pay attention to some details, specifically, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, and do to others what you want. You have a warm heart, not afraid that others don't like you, a person can actually do far more than he can think, you may be the kind of person who speaks more practically, it depends on what you want in your heart, if you don't say practical, you feel very unhappy, you just need to keep this kind of self, in fact, in society, there is a shortage of people like you, once people grow up, sometimes they can't reply when they speak, this is a fact, your situation is also your charm, in fact, there are many people who like you like friends. If you want to be better, you should also use it with some other techniques.

You just have to remember what you want, do to others, and his counter-theorem. I hope you find yourself soon. What kind of life you really want to live in your heart, only you know in your heart, in short.

As long as you are happy, don't live in the evaluation of others, your attention to interpersonal relationships itself shows that you pay great attention to the evaluation of others, in fact, you are already very good, others can not help you live.

Kindness is the essence of human beings, but people live in human society, to interact with people, but everyone's personality is different, so we should pay attention to ways and means when interacting, pay attention to the art of speaking, and at the same time have the character of being lenient to others, so that the popularity will be good, read more communication books such as "Speech and Eloquence", which will help you.

You have discovered your own shortcomings, slowly correct them, don't worry so much, others have become accustomed to your current personality, if it suddenly becomes unfamiliar to people, it is not good,

As long as you talk less and work more, as long as you make some achievements and achievements, others will look at you differently, hehe, this society is like this, speak with ability, if they are like this, then they have a problem. Don't worry about that.

Just work hard and you're good to go.

We look like oh! In fact, it's easy to pull yourself happy!

You've found the answer to your question.

It may be that your occasional sharp, round and vertical injuries hurt others to swim late. A friend of mine is very unlikeable, and many people hate it. But I still put up with a lot of her vexatious trouble. If you really want to be friends with you, you will endure everything you have.

Learn to love yourself Learn to love others.

Are you too selfish person, if you are kind, you will think a lot about others everywhere, and there is no problem now, I think you are too selfish.

Dude, I used to be like this, but I don't know what's going on, I suddenly softened my heart one day, and I don't want to hurt Zhaohui, because I learned to empathize, what would happen if someone hurt you with harsh words?

Don't scold, don't watch erotic films, don't fight can make people better and kinder, and the skin will be very delicate.

You have to determine whether he is worthy of your love or not. If you want to continue. Then you can distance yourself from him for a while, and be brave enough to be yourself. Show your charm. Don't cling to him too ... Take your time. Go for it!

Do you think she hates you? Or does she say she hates you? And are you a boy or a girl?

Reasons to hate you? These are the key questions, if I continue to love first, don't give up easily, the most important thing depends on your specific situation! If you need to contact me, I hope it can help you!

It's good to show your strengths and make people like you... But the first impression is too important.

Keep loving and keep pestering him until he doesn't hate you anymore.

When I talk to you about my heart, I will look at you unconsciously.

There is a good thing to laugh at, and the first time you will find you.

will always care about you, answer that I feel sorry for you, and worry about you.

That's enough.

She will be happy because you are happy, sad because you are sad, and your every move is touching her heart.

It's okay, time will dilute everything.

I had a friend who was also my favorite person and hated him the most, and he was quite decadent at the time, and he couldn't do anything.

But after a long time, I don't feel so sad.

The advice to you is to divert your attention and find something fun to do.

Always be with friends, don't be alone, make yourself feel warm, mobile phone typing is hard, lz share it with me

He doesn't love you and can't help it, and if it's useless for you to keep it, he's better to give up! Remember to find someone who loves you in the future.

Let it go, at least then she'll hate you less. Do not dwell on fearlessly.

Maybe she didn't think about being serious when they were together, since she wanted to divide it, then divide it, such a person has nothing to be nostalgic for, just like the elders said, there is no grass at the end of the world, right?

A stupid kid with a little sense, he said that he broke up, you are together, and you will be very tired, he doesn't care about you! Let's find a new home.

Divide and divide. What else do you want to do? If you love him, you won't break up.

Do you say that you are pestering or pestering or pestering or pestering or pestering?

I think you let go is the best concern, she's afraid of you, why do you still bother her? You really don't know how to care.

But he didn't know that you were the one he liked.

Just like you like others, others don't necessarily like you.

People who like you always care about you silently, if it's too obvious, some people will gossip, and those who don't love you care about you, and they are not afraid of gossip.

I don't know, it may be that I am attractive.

Give up early, this kind of thing, God is destined, and it will barely come. This is a matter of experience.

Either try to make him like you, or you fight to dislike her yourself.

Try to be friends with them first.

Feelings can definitely be cultivated slowly.

Since ancient times, there have been infatuated lovers, both men and women. The love between men and women was originally consensual. The road of life is very broad, and it is not worth gambling your whole life for love. Since you love it, and you can't catch it, it's wise to let love go for a way out.