Family issues Can you give us a little help for father and son

There's something wrong with your dad's approach, and no matter what problems a man encounters, even if the world has collapsed.

It's also about guarding the last bit of hope for your children, rather than using violence to solve problems.

But you can see that you're a reasonable kid, and you won't hate your dad for it.

You can also understand the difficulties of the family, and I am sure that your father will be proud to have a son like you in the future.

You should be more motivated, study hard, and work hard to support this family.

Now try to reassure your dad, make him not upset, show your attitude, and be his strong back.

What you need is to study hard, because you are the hope of your father for the rest of his life, and he should do his best to find a suitable job for him, care more about his father, and encourage him to work hard to find a new beginning.

This is normal behavior, and when a person's weakness reaches a low point, it will explode, understand the father.

I'm often beaten by my father, he's a teacher, so I beat it hard, to be honest, anyone will be unhappy and cursed when they hit, and if you endure it, it will be sunny again, even if it is not given by him, I will comfort myself myself, you may not be comfortable, but you must be able to entertain yourself and see better.

You bear with it first, try to talk calmly with your father, remember, people don't need to face when they are in special events and places, put your posture low, you are a child, you must learn to accompany your father through difficulties, come on ( Pumpkin is here to bless you.

His father is good, but his son is stupid enough, his luck in talking is almost outrageous, looking at the watch is very different from reading a book, similar to tai chi, and the speed is different from f1, the connotation is different, it is conceivable that the reason is not valid, and there is no way to resist you.

Father and son have a deep relationship. You always have to remember him as your dad. Whatever he says is wrong or right, he should accept it with an open mind.

You are at the age of rebellion. Parents just want to teach you how to grow. But we didn't grow up the same way as theirs, so there was a conflict.

Accept this love with your forbearance.

The personality of parents is formed over many years, and it is impossible to change the personality of parents as children. Just remember one sentence and don't force your parents to talk back.

If you don't have a father, your children are unhappy, sometimes the child should be considerate of the father, find time to talk to the father, resolve the contradictions in the heart, and check the father's misunderstanding, but the father also has times when he does something wrong, then you also have to tell the father what the father did wrong, don't work against the father, so that the father-son relationship can be handled well.

As soon as my dad came home, I brought him water to drink, and then asked him if he could play on the computer, so he let him play, and he knew that I wanted to play, so he smiled and told me to play, what a good thing. You have to put your dad in a happy stage, do everything well, men are not like women. There is a saying that there is a saying that (complaining about being a cow and a horse at home, and going out to raise the door and a tiger), parents are the first.

Coordination is hard, and humility is advisable. The elders are supreme, and their nature is difficult to change.

I think it's quite normal, my dad often said this about me when he took the college entrance examination, I always talked back inside, he was even more angry, in fact, now I think about myself is quite naïve, I think my dad is purely for our sake, he said that if he doesn't violate his own principles, he can be tolerated.

What does it matter if you drink Red Bull or not, if Dad says it is not good, he will say that he will not drink it in the future, or he will not say anything, and Dad will not be angry.

If you have a watch, you can ask your father to help you look at it, he must be happy, in fact, he is not for his own Internet access, but for his son to study.

Next time Dad is saying something, just say yes, if it's not a big problem that violates personal principles, just promise Dad or say nothing, try to talk back as little as possible, there is nothing good except that everyone is angry.

I'm also looking for an answer to this question, even though I'm 28 years old. But there are still answers to such questions, but after seeing the answers of so many friends, although I am still very awkward in my heart, I am still relieved, because I have found the answer I want, maybe the landlord may not necessarily understand, but I want to borrow a sentence from upstairs.

Coordination is hard, and humility is advisable. The elders are supreme, and their nature is difficult to change. ”

We can't necessarily change the circumstances or facts, but we can change our mood and mentality.

Everyone's experience is different, the understanding of things may be different, if you get into the tip of the horns of the bull it will be bad, people only have one life (no one has experienced 2 lives), so please care for everyone, a lifetime.

There is a problem with the way of communication, the father does not understand the child, and the child does not understand the father. The father is a little rougher, but there is absolutely no malice, to understand.

What we need to do now is to avoid head-on conflicts, and even if I don't agree with my father's words, I don't directly refute them. It will be good to think more from the other person's point of view, and when the child grows up, it will be eased. My relationship with my parents was the same before, but after graduating from college, I left my parents, and slowly understood my parents and improved the way of communication, and my parents saw the growth of their children, and they also knew how to respect their children, and they would not be so rude, and their children would also understand their parents, so this problem would not have arisen.

My dad is like this, there is a solution to the egg, it really has to be solved, and when you have your own money, you can not bird him, it will be really solved.

But from the above 3 examples, I feel that his father is not too bad, 1. It's really not good for Red Bull to drink too much, and I can't help it if I don't believe it.

2. Mung bean soup, it's really not good, but a small bowl a day, 1 week is not excessive, 3, the college entrance examination and the Internet research watch really doesn't matter, do you want to cheat? Any watch has become, and I don't know what I need to research. Seriously, if I really have a son who talks nonsense with his eyes open (I need to study what kind of watch to buy for the college entrance examination), I will directly slap him to death.

My dad is fighting the landlord except for the hours when he sleeps, it's nothing, you have taken the college entrance examination, what kind of computer do you play (including the so-called watch for the college entrance examination).

If you think about the problem from someone else's point of view, the problem will be much simpler.

It has to be hard capped, I don't know how old you are right now. I went through this, and it was stiff during that time, but now it seems to be laughing it off. Sometimes he doesn't have to win you, you are his son, there is no concept of winning or losing, but he either thinks that you are doing something wrong, or he thinks that you are inexperienced.

The relationship between father and son is not like between mother and son, the mother is patient, what to say is not called euphemism, when the son can listen to it, willing to listen, the father is straightforward, now think about it and he quarreled fiercely at that time, in fact, it is not a big deal, it is nothing more than that the father and son do not communicate enough, maybe now you think you are very mature and have more contact, but you are a child in his eyes, no way, that is his point of view.

So don't go to the top, go back and find a suitable opportunity to share your opinion. Or just do something decent to make him feel like you've grown up.

Don't go any further, although this stage of contradiction must be experienced, but the contradiction cannot be expanded. That's the father, after all. If you can't bear your family, then there is nothing to endure.

You can't hard-top this kind of person!

Gotta go along! Say when you talk about things, when you're in a good mood!

It stands to reason that fighting poison with poison will have a miraculous effect!

But not for you! You can't overpower him! Momentum!

My father is like this, he is in his sixties and still has the same temper as Xiaohuo!

It took me ten years to succeed!

You can't do it! Also, it won't be menopause!

If this is the case, you have to learn to back down!

If you are still a student, it is recommended to go back to the house to read, and if he does not disturb you to read, he will naturally stop talking, and then learn to go in the left ear and out the right ear. But your parents are good for you, if you can communicate more, maybe the problem will be solved?

Whose name is it in the house book now? If it's yours, you don't have to be so troublesome, just throw it to your brother 30,000 yuan, but you have to take out the proof that it is your capital to repay, if the house book is written in your father's name, this matter will not be easy to do, so you have to follow the legal procedures, one is that your brother takes the money out to buy the house, and the other is that you take the money to buy the house back, which is estimated to be 30,000 yuan, but the legal procedure is more troublesome.

It is recommended that you negotiate first, and if the negotiation fails, you will be sued.

If the house is registered in the name of the parents, the parents have the right to dispose of the property independently.

If a legal inheritance occurs, in principle, you can compensate your brother for the acquisition of the property at a discount.

The house is monolithic and it is not possible to deal with only a part or buy it all for a penny, you can ask for more cents.

1.The house is your parents' (if the title deed is in your parents' name). Therefore, it is not up to your brothers to decide who the house belongs to and how it is distributed, but by your parents.

2.Since there is a situation where the brothers have paid for the decoration, in order to make it clear in the future, it is recommended that your parents jointly write a written statement (the capital contribution) for you to keep.

Hello! Did the house take care of when your parents divorced? If not, you can negotiate with your mother, who will claim that the house is joint property and ask for a division. After the partition, it was given to you by your mother.

Otherwise, it's not good for you.