Why do many people now say that they haven t found the right person after they get married?

Many people, in fact, have not seriously thought about what is going on in marriage at all, but blindly entered marriage with an expectation, but when they entered the marriage, they found that marriage was different from what they imagined and expected. So they regret getting married so early. But if he doesn't always have a rational thought about marriage, he will have the same problem no matter what age he gets married.

Of course, in general, people tend to be more rational as they get older than when they were younger. Therefore, people who marry early are less happy.

In this world, no one can be completely suitable for themselves, and their brothers and sisters are not the same as thinking about problems and doing things by themselves, let alone the opposite sex who grew up in another environment. Therefore, after two people who love each other form a family, there must be a run-in stage, and husband and wife must tolerate each other and adapt to each other. If you have tolerance and strong adaptability, then the marriage will run well, otherwise it will be bad.

It is difficult for people to examine themselves, but it is easy to blame others. But only by introspecting can people make progress. Whether it is in society or marriage, the only thing you can change is yourself, and you can't change others.

said that the other party is not good, it is because of poor self-reflection ability. If in marriage he only blames places and does not examine himself, then whoever he marries will think that the other party is not suitable for him. Being able to find problems from oneself and introspecting is a kind of ability and a kind of upbringing.

Many people say that they didn't find the right person after they got married, maybe both parties hid their shortcomings before marriage and tried to show their strengths. When they get married and get along for a long time, the shortcomings and shortcomings of both parties will be exposed. That's when you say you're not looking for the right person.

Because now that the technology network is developed, there are too many people killing on the Internet, which is in stark contrast

One After the death of a parent, siblings go from being relatives to relatives.

If one of the parents is still in the world, the brothers and sisters can still get together with their parents during the New Year's holidays, but with the death of their parents, the time to get together is getting less and less.

2. Before marriage is a large family, after marriage is a number of small families.

After marriage, although the brothers and sisters say that there is no clear separation, but it also means that the interests of the big family are not so important, the important thing is the interests of their own small family, if there is no conflict of interest, it is okay, once there is a conflict of interest, they will not give an inch for their own small family, after marriage, they are mainly based on their own small family interests, mainly married brothers and sisters also pull the family to live together, occasionally once or twice the loss can not be counted, but the number of times will not be compromised, Fighting back and forth slowly lost the little family affection left, whether it is fighting or winning, but it will make the family affection lost, and there will be discord when we meet in the future.

3. Some parents will favor one of their children, and the distribution of property will be unfair, and sometimes the parents can solve the problem, which really makes the siblings fight each other, and even some parents themselves do not set an example, and the relationship with their siblings is very bad, and the child is likely to go to school.

There must be a variety of reasons to alienate the feelings of siblings, may no longer be able to find the feeling of childhood, parents can not decide whether the sibling relationship is good or bad in the future, but the usual behavior of parents is enough to affect the starting point and process of sibling relationship, being a qualified parent is not a simple matter, parents are the first teacher of the child, if there is a lack of family education, or the wrong way of education, it will make the relationship between siblings go farther and farther.

If there is a person around you who is married, you don't have much contact, because when you get married, there are a lot of things that are very busy, and you can't take care of your work and life, and many things in the family are busy, and they can't take care of it, so there is no contact, which is normal.

When someone around you gets married, you don't have much contact, this is mainly due to the fact that when you get married, you don't live alone, there are a lot of things in your life, and you may have greater responsibilities, so you may not have much time to do something else, which is also very normal.

This is mainly because after getting married, the focus is on the family, so friends rarely keep in touch.

Because when you are not married, everyone has more time to get along with friends and have more time to come out and have fun, so everyone will be closer, and after getting married, everyone is busy, and they are busy taking care of their families in their own lives, so there is no time to contact.

Some people around me don't have much contact when they get married, because some people are married, he is busy with his small family, and it is a newlywed honeymoon A few months after the honeymoon, they have children again, and they are busy for children and life, so they don't have much contact with other friends.

Why don't some people around me keep in touch with each other when they get married? After the people around you get married, the two of them form a new family, which must have more things to do than when they are single, and the newlyweds are often in and out of pairs, and the two of them do not break up, so there is less contact with you, so there is not much contact.

Because they are married and have a home of their own. She is no longer the single she used to be. They will also be busy for their homes. So slowly, I won't have contact with my surroundings.

Why don't people around me contact each other when they get married? I think what you said is very right, there are many people around me now who are under pressure from work and life after getting married, especially when they have children, they have to take care of children, and they have less contact with their friends.

Why don't some people around me keep in touch with each other when they get married? When a person gets married, the burden on the family increases. If you have a child, you have to get off work, and you have to coax the child in the future. So there's no extra time to get in touch.

I think a lot of people are busy with their lives and jobs after they get married, so they may not have so much time to socialize, and some irrelevant people naturally don't contact them.

Why don't some people around me keep in touch with each other when they get married? I think there are people around me who don't have much contact when they get married, because the burden of their family is on them, they don't have time to play like they are single anymore, and they are responsible for the family.

A lot of circles have changed, and there is no common discourse, and there is no contact, and there is no contact at all, and we are the same when we work outside, and we have changed places, and we have been in contact a few times at first, and after a long time, there is no common speech, and I don't know if others have time, so we don't have any contact at all, and now people are like this, and it's so realistic.

Some people will focus more on their family when they get married, and they will gradually have less contact with friends outside the family.

Your friends are busy, and everyone has their own things to do. Most people are busy with work, they have to work all day during the day, and overtime at night is also the norm, and if there is a big project, many people will be deprived of weekends.

Why don't some people around me keep in touch with each other when they get married? I don't think I can connect with you when I just got married, because he has to accompany the bride, and it doesn't seem good to contact you when I just get married.

Why don't some people around me keep in touch with each other when they get married? Because after getting married, there are more things at home, I have to take care of the children, and do housework, there are many things, and I have no time to contact.

Hello, I think this statement is incorrect, because the other half of the marriage is the person with whom he wants to live for the rest of his life, and marriage is an intimate relationship between two people, which needs to be built on the basis of mutual respect, understanding and support. If a person does not regard the other half as his or her own person in marriage, this perception is not recognized.

Thinking that your partner isn't your own stupid person can lead to a breakdown in your marriage. In marriage, two people should build openness and trust, feel mutual love and support, and this intimacy requires interaction and effort from both parties.

1. Lack of team spirit and consensus: Marriage requires both husband and wife to cooperate and cooperate with each other, and if a person thinks that the other half is not their own, they may have a hard time forming consensus and team spirit, resulting in an increasingly distant marital relationship.

2. Lack of communication and understanding: Communication and understanding between couples is the foundation of a marital relationship, and if a person does not consider their partner to be their own, then they may lack effective communication and understanding while escalating to bigger problems.

3. Lack of mutual support: Marriage requires both spouses to support each other, and if a person does not recognize their spouse as their own, then they may lack true love and support for their partner, which can lead to alienation and coldness in the marital relationship.

In summary, the idea that the partner in the marriage is not one's own person is not recognized, and the perception that the lead can damage the relationship between the couple and lead to the failure of the marital relationship. The other half of a good marriage is the person closest to you.

This is a difficult question because everyone has different views and expectations about marriage. Some people think that marriage is about fulfilling their feelings, not binding themselves, so they will choose to marry the person they love. Some people think that marriage is a duty and a contract, so they will choose to marry someone they feel fit.

There are also those who believe that marriage is a balance and sacrifice that includes things, so they will choose to marry someone who loves them.

From a rational point of view, I believe that the decision to get married should be a process that takes into account multiple factors, including personal values, life goals, family background, personality interests, etc. If someone meets your criteria, treats you well, and gets along well with you, chances are that Minyuan is a suitable choice for conversation. In any case, marriage should be voluntary and require you to make the final decision yourself.

I think it's only temporary, men should get married, women should get married, and the vast majority of people will choose to get married. ......But there are also people who like to live a single life and think "it's good to be single". These people think this way because they don't feel like they have to take on family responsibilities when they're single, they don't have to do more housework when they're single, and they don't have to worry about marital fights.

After getting married, there is a lot of housework, and I have to do housework in addition to work, which is very hard. ......In a single life, there is not much housework and simple work, and as long as you are satisfied, you can skip housework, which will obviously make you feel more relaxed, and then produce a feeling of "it's good to be single".

2. Single life does not have to worry about husband and wife quarrels.

After marriage, although the husband and wife can support each other and face life together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and even quarrels because of the differences between them. It's annoying to yourself. ......But single living effectively avoids this problem.

In the single state, living alone, not having to worry about the quarrel between the husband and wife, and being happy every day, such a state of life will make you feel more comfortable and satisfied.

3. Living single does not have to take on family responsibilities.

When you get married, you have to take on family responsibilities, which is a burden for yourself. ......If you are single, you don't have a family, so you don't have to take on family responsibilities. ......Because there are no burdens in life, you will feel more relaxed and happy, so you will feel "It's good to be single".

It is precisely because of the above situations that some people feel more comfortable living alone. But after all, there are many inconveniences in living alone, so for the vast majority of people, they will eventually choose to get married.