The infatuated women in The Legend of Ruyi do not have a happy ending, shouldn t women rely too mu

When we watched the TV series Ruyichuan, we all found that the women in the play were too infatuated, and they didn't get a happy ending. Therefore, I think that as a woman, you should not rely too much on men, be independent, whether it is in personality or economy, you should be an independent person, independent people are often more attractive.

In ancient times, because the status of women was very low, they often had no right to speak, which caused them to be too dependent on men, but when we watched costume TV series, we all found that the heroines in costume dramas were often the kind of women who were very independent, they did not depend on the male protagonist, and even dared to rebel against the people at home. Bravely chase what they want, and such women can often get what they want, in fact, it can also be shown from here that women should be independent.

In love, there are many girls who tend to rely too much on their boyfriends and treat their boyfriends as the whole world, and they revolve around their boyfriends all day long. Without a life of their own, the happiness of their boyfriend is their happiness, and the sadness of their boyfriend is their sadness. But there are often many boys who hate girls who are too dependent on themselves, and these boys tend to prefer those who are independent and confident, because these girls seem more attractive.

Women who rely too much on boys often end up being abandoned by their boyfriends. So I want to tell female friends, we must not rely too much on boys, we must have our own lives and be independent. When I was studying, my teacher often told me that as a girl, we must be independent, especially in the financial aspect, so that even if we are abandoned by our boyfriend one day, we still have the confidence to live well.

If we rely on our boyfriend for everything, then when we are abandoned, we really have nothing. Think about it, isn't this a very miserable end!

Women can't rely too much on men. Whether it is spiritually or financially, women should be independent and mature, and have their own small circle, even if the marriage is not smooth, there is a way back.

The Legend of Ruyi came to an end, Ruyi died of tuberculosis, and Qianlong also died.

In the last episode, the screenwriter is still trying to redeem Qianlong's infatuated character, he kept his broken hair and silk handkerchief, cut his hair and put it together with Ruyi, recalled the relationship between the two people, and closed his eyes.

Rao is like this, the audience still doesn't buy it, and they can't have a good impression of the character of Qianlong.

Because Ruyi's life has too much frustration and helplessness, she is tired of this belated "warmth" after all, and she doesn't want it anymore.

Qianlong has always believed that I am the Son of Heaven and should have everything. The harem is deep, I gave you a different kind of care, gave you a back position, which is the greatest grace, what more do you want?!

What does Ruyi want? All she wants is affection.

She doesn't care about position, she doesn't care about glory and wealth, and she doesn't care about those false promises, what she wants is very simple, it has nothing to do with material things, it has to do with true love.

When watching Ruyi's biography, she felt that Ruyi's fate was too miserable, Ruyi didn't want to fight with others in this life, she only hoped that the emperor could love herself and be able to accompany the emperor until she grew old.

At the beginning, the emperor liked Ruyi very much, and at that time, the emperor asked Ruyi to be a concubine, but because of Zhen Huan, Ruyi could not be a concubine, which was because of this incident, which caused Ruyi to be hated by the queen. And after Ruyi married the emperor, the emperor also went to Ruyi's room three or four times, which also made other people not sleepy and too happy. It can be said that how much I liked it at the beginning, and how much I disliked it later, Ruyi's relationship with the emperor deteriorated, and it was also after Ruyi became the queen.

The emperor is a person who knows how to cherish only when he loses, when Ruyi was in power, the emperor always compared with Ruyi after Huang Xian, which also caused Ruyi to be very angry, because the original queen did all the evil things to Ruyi, and the emperor kept saying how good the first queen was next to Ruyi. Later, the emperor's suspicion also made the relationship between him and Ruyi more and more distant.

When I watched Ruyi's biography, I found that Ruyi was a woman with delusions about love, and when Ruyi told her that Westerners were monogamous, she also longed for this kind of life very much, so this idea was deeply rooted in Ruyi's heart. But she herself knew that in the emperor's house, it would definitely be impossible to have such a husband and wife system. Later, Ruyi also had some estrangement with the emperor because of this incident, and the emperor only told Ruyi not to be delusional, and said that where there is such a husband and wife system, the emperor thinks that as a person with supreme power, he should have three wives and four concubines.

Later, Ruyi also died of illness, and the relationship between the emperor and Ruyi was also very poor, because Ruyi was too partial to Sun Qi's praise, and all she hoped for in her life was to be able to get the emperor's unique love, but the emperor was above ten thousand people, how could she only favor Ruyi alone? In addition, the relationship between Ruyi and the emperor became very bad later, and the emperor did not go to Ruyi's residence for a long time. And before Ruyi died, the emperor was still suspicious of Ruyi, and only after Ruyi's death did the emperor know how excessive his previous actions were.

Because the heroine doesn't know how to use the resources around her, she traps herself in feelings and only pays attention to feelings.

Because Ruyi is a particularly strong person, and she only loves one person in her life, so the end is so miserable.

It is because she has always insisted on being herself that she will make others very jealous of her, putting herself in difficulties, and the heroine's way of dealing with things is problematic.

I don't think it's worth it. The real relationship is a lifetime, only the other party, if your other half also has feelings for others, your efforts will be worthless.

It's not worth it, these women are particularly infatuated, but men don't cherish it at all, and it's not worth it for women to pay like this.

I don't think it's worth it, and I should live for myself anyway. Take care of yourself first, and then like others.

In my opinion, it's definitely not worth it, but in the TV series, they have all kinds of interests and conflicts, maybe it's worth it for that little bit of power and desire.

The heroine of "The Legend of Ruyi" ended so miserably because the heroine was too simple and silly and sweet, and then she was used in various ways, until she still didn't make changes, and was finally killed by the villain.

One is that the emperor is too scumbag, selfish and hypocritical, unkind, and unwarranted suspicion; Another reason is that Ruyi is too infatuated, no matter what the emperor does to her, she has never had any bad intentions.

Mainly because of Ruyi's personality, she insists on being herself, never flatters, and likes to tell the truth.

It's not like this, infatuated people in real life often have good endings, and court dramas set up such plots for the sake of effect.

Infatuation is really not a good thing, in a relationship, if you pay too much, it will only make the other party feel that your love is very cheap and you don't know how to cherish it, so often infatuated people are also easy to be disappointed.

Not necessarily. As long as you look at who the object of infatuation is, if it is the emperor, it is destined to be disappointed, after all, the ancient emperor's three palaces and six courtyards have no affection at all.

Because there are those who have vested interests who will not tolerate the appearance of such girls, and will always try to kill them.

Mainly because these women will never be able to get the emperor's sincerity, so they can only end up miserable.

Because most of the women who are devoted to the emperor are so in love that they have no self, human nature is very strange, the more they like themselves, the less they cherish them, and the emperor is no exception, they are often obsessed with people who don't like themselves, and they have a desire to conquer, so they won't cherish if they like themselves.

Because they poured too much love into the emperor and didn't leave room for themselves, when they couldn't get favor, they were greeted by depression.

Because such women are often brave and unstrategic, they are easy to play some small tricks in the battle of the harem, and finally kill themselves miserably.

The end is very miserable, in fact, the main reason is that he didn't figure out what his identity is, and then sometimes the emperor feels very annoying.

Because the emperor is very suspicious, he is always suspicious of others, so the woman who is obsessed with the emperor will end up miserable.

It is difficult for women in the palace to survive if they have always maintained their hearts, and the women in the palace all regard the emperor as a king, and what they need is to cater to them, and Ruyi's sincerity to the emperor hopes that the emperor will also give her love, which is doomed to tragedy.

Ruyi saw through the emperor in the deep palace, and she was not sincere to every woman, she was the only person in this deep palace who treated the emperor sincerely, and finally her heart died! Therefore, Ruyi's death in the end was a relief for herself.

Because the heroine thinks that the emperor will always be her young man, she will not become, but this is not the case, the male protagonist is changing, and it is too late for her to see it clearly.

just pays attention to the love and hatred in his heart, but he doesn't care about the various battles in the palace, he is easy to attract wind, he and she are the queen, and they must have been attacked by many people.

Ruyi was originally a person who dared to love and hate, her love for the emperor finally turned into helplessness, she tried to exchange herself for the emperor, but it didn't work, but made her end miserable.

That's great, I like Ruyi too. It's not that she can't fight, it's not that she can't fight, it's just that she is more fond of love, and any fight in love is a blasphemy against love.

What is she not stupid? Since ancient times, the emperor has true feelings, and has been pursuing unobtainable things all his life, so many people have been implicated by her, and they don't know how to repent, it's normal to have this kind of end, it's okay to be stupid, don't harm others!

Her desireless and wantless character can actually be understood as selfishness, just like Shen Meizhuang said, the women in the palace not only live for themselves, but also the relatives and parents and brothers on the lintel, all of them are dragging. Wise, after she was disappointed in the emperor, she turned her goal to the queen mother, even if she did not want grace, she also wanted to keep the family safe from being implicated by herself. The emperor and queen were inherently unequal.

How can you expect the emperor to keep his original intention. Consistently. Don't you take your grace, status, and honor into account, nor do you care about the safety of your mother, or the future and status of your son?

Why? Because I lost in love too! In the deep palace, Ruyi shouldn't have an autumn love for the emperor!

Why did Zhen Huan win? Because she won in love!

Why did Ruyi lose? Because she lost in love too!