In my workplace, I meet my wife s first boyfriend every day

May I ask: Did you tell you about your wife's previous experiences before you got married, or did you only find out after you got married?

If you only know it after marriage, then I can understand that you have this kind of mood, and it can be called a temporary inability to adjust your mentality. But if your wife has already told you frankly before marriage, I personally think that you should have thought about today's situation, should be mentally prepared for this, and think that you have no shadow at all about this matter, so you will marry your wife.

My husband is my middle school classmate, but I dated another boy in middle school, and I have a deep affection for him, more than ten years of involvement, my husband also knows this boy, so when my husband chases me, I think it is not appropriate, because both parties know each other, if there is a dispute between the two parties after marriage (when people are angry, they will find the most difficult to listen to, the most ruthless and mean words to say), I am afraid that my husband will turn over old accounts with me. Later, my husband repeatedly assured me that this would not happen, that he did not care about this matter at all, and that he would not attack me with this matter no matter how angry he was. I just agreed to get married.

Now my husband and I have been together for three years, we have a good relationship, and often talk about the original boy (now an old man), and can analyze why my relationship failed very rationally, I think my husband is very successful, very man.

I think it's understandable that you're a little unhappy at first, but you should get used to it quickly, after all, your wife chose you in the end, or you chose your wife, you should actively adjust your mentality, don't let this matter finally affect your relationship between husband and wife!

Everyone has a painful past, and since you still love your wife, you should accept everything about her, even the past. The past does not mean the future, your heart is now an unbalanced attitude, don't get old to think about this kind of thing, change your thinking more, think about this family, as you are a man, as long as you have something hidden in your heart, there is nothing you can't let go.

Life is not a world of sex, after all, there is a career, family, future ideals, and so on. Be a casual man, since you have chosen her, there is nothing to regret.

Don't think so, you should feel happy when you see him, not embarrassed if you can't raise your head It should be that he is not as happy as you to marry your wife, you should think that you have your own wife, you should be happy! What is he, men are conservative in this way, conservative in thinking, why don't you think about it from a different angle. Stupid!

You deserve to be happy! Right!

The mediocre people disturbed themselves, and they were really unhappy to beat that kid.

Just think about it, what is this little thing, you just got married, and your life will be more complicated in the future.

When you meet, you meet, it's not a big deal, it mainly depends on how your wife treats you, whether it's good to you or not, and meeting doesn't mean anything! If you want to open a little, don't take the problem too seriously, it's a big deal to change jobs!

Break up, love for such a woman is not worth it.

and his wife straight to the point about their feelings, hoping that each other can cherish this marriage. What do you have to do, adjust each other and grow together! Remember this juncture and communicate patiently! Don't be violent!

Ask what's going on, or the blue will be green! After all, it's the ex.

It's better to explain it to your wife, for the rest of your life, what do you say!

As a man, you have to be strong.

Remind her that a woman with a family is almost fine, it's okay to chat normally, and it's not good if it's too much.

You have to make sure what they say before making a decision, if they just talk about family life or jokes, don't worry

It should have been out.,If you hit ** every day.。

There's no need to be silent. It's been so long, don't be embarrassed. You don't talk all the time, and it's embarrassing to be in a company.

Such a strong fate, why don't I have such an opportunity? If I met my ex-boyfriend, I would definitely pat him on the shoulder and say, I haven't seen you for a long time, I've become handsome again... hoho

After all, they have loved each other. There's no need to be that raw. If you're not together, at least they should be good friends. After all, in a company. It's also an opportunity to have a good chat.

If you still have the other person in your heart, take the initiative. If you don't feel it anymore, then break the silence and be friends.

The past is always gone, there is no need for nostalgia, memories are always more valuable than the impossible of reality!

Ting is very good, very strong, fate fate, if you are not married, he is not married, you can try it.

You can't go wrong with this kind of thing...

In order not to leave regrets and not let yourself regret it, stick to what you think in your heart.

Wouldn't it be better to let the past pass and make it a good memory.

Let's have dinner together.

It's all men.

I don't have time to think about it every day!!

Personal opinion: Since such a problem has occurred, you should first explain the situation to both parents, let the other party's parents communicate with your wife, and see if there is room for recovery. If there is no hope, since your wife is here with you, and her heart is not with you, is it interesting?

Why bother? The twisted melon is not sweet! It's better to leave it than to drag it.

Better a finger off than always aching. Before the problem is solved, don't have too much contact with that girl. so as not to save his wife, but he fell into another abyss.

You tell your wife to keep her away from her first love, otherwise you will divorce, this is to live, this kind of woman is not good.

Have a good talk with her, he doesn't care if he loves you.

If you don't go home every day, your wife really can't accept it, and if you can't do it, you can find a new job, otherwise it will have an impact on the family after a long time.

You explain to her that you can't help yourself at work, you can't live and can't be homesick, you tell him that this is work, not play.

No one can accept that you don't go home every day! Hurry up and change jobs.

Depending on the nature of the work, if the work is particularly good, you can discuss it with your wife! If the job is average, quit your job and start your own business!

For the sake of the family, I suggest that you don't change it.

Your wife is important, you can find a job, or your wife can accompany you.

Time! The one who said that "time is like water in a sponge, as long as the original squeeze is always there".

I still have to spend time with your wife.

How good should you be at that job? Ha ha.