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First, good looks, high education does not necessarily have a good vision, second, everything depends on yourself, third, everyone is selfish, fourth, you can never replace the position of your wife and daughter, and fifth, you can't lie flat in the future.

In "North and South", Dai Xiaoyu was pregnant and suffered a miscarriage in a car accident, and she understood that only her parents were backing, and there was no prodigal son in the world to turn back, and this car accident was ruthlessly let down by her many years of youth, and she could no longer have her own children, her sadness was partly because she believed that the prodigal son could turn back, but she put aside the advice of her dear parents.

Dai Xiaoyu lost her child, and only then did she see the true face of the man she loved in the past: a man who has an extramarital affair can't give you all his love with all his heart, and the essence of his love is lust and lovelessness. When you are in danger, you will see the truth, and the person who truly loves you will never be willing to let you be hurt.

The love of parents for their children is the person who does not want to reciprocate but still wants you to be good in all relationships. Many stupid women abandon their family affection for the so-called love, but the result is that the tragedy verifies the human heart and is scarred.

Director Feng Xiaogang's North and South, I don't know if you have seen it, some people say that this is the Beijing version of the small era, but in this TV series, there don't seem to be some good-looking plots, especially the surging one, who is a scumbag. Dai Xiaoyu and The Paper have been together for five years, I thought that The Paper had divorced, but I didn't expect Dai Xiaoyu to be a junior for the Three Years without knowing it, and when Dai Xiaoyu knew about it, he left The Paper and returned to China, originally thinking that after leaving The Paper, he would be able to return to the right track of life.

But what I didn't expect was that the surging paper also chased back to China, and at the same time opened a company in China, and has been chasing Dai Xiaoyu relentlessly, seeing the surging from abroad to Beijing, he has been apologizing to Dai Xiaoyu, and also said that he has gone through the divorce, and half of the inheritance is given to Dai Xiaoyu, Dai Xiaoyu chose to forgive the surging when he saw this situation, so the two of them were reunited.

Unconsciously, Dai Xiaoyu found out that she was pregnant, she was very happy, after telling the news to The Paper, she thought that the Paper could be as happy as him, and even thought of marrying the Paper, in this way, then the next thing is to live together as a family of three, and Dai Xiaoyu is 30 years old, which is the age to get married.

Originally, the two of them had already planned to hold an engagement ceremony when the surging came back from a business trip, but what they didn't expect was that after the surging and his ex-wife's daughter found the surging and learned about Dai Xiaoyu, they felt that Dai Xiaoyu ruined her family, and they also found Dai Xiaoyu and scolded her.

Who knew that the surging attitude had changed and actually asked Dai Xiaoyu to beat the child, and even as long as Dai Xiaoyu and The Paper got married, the surging would ignore the past, and Dai Dai Xiaoyu was heartbroken and went out in the car, but what he didn't expect was that there was a car accident, resulting in the loss of the child and even the loss of the uterus.

Then in "North and South", Dai Xiaoyu was pregnant and miscarried, her tragedies were all caused by surging, she is a scumbag, and she knows from the beginning of the reunion that there should not be a good ending, after all, this kind of man always loves himself the most.

It was she who caused herself, because she ruined other people's feelings and families, and then she had a situation of cheating on marriage, and then fell in love with a man who was already married.

Dai Xiaoyu's tragedy was caused by the surging, he deceived Dai Xiaoyu for 5 years, and in the end, his attitude towards Dai Xiaoyu was particularly bad, and he was a typical scumbag.

The plot of the north and south has been complained about not being grounded, more from a male perspective, for example, when creating an excellent young girl like Dai Xiaoyu, too many dog blood elements were used, in fact, a really smart girl would not be so in love. In the play, Dai Xiaoyu is a gentle and kind, a girl with a very good family background, her grandmother lives in a small bungalow in Beijing, her parents are intellectuals, her family is wealthy, and she herself is also an excellent girl who has returned from studying abroad, she has been favored by her family since she was a child, and all the seemingly perfect circumstances have affected her fate because of a married man.

It is undeniable that this man's career and excellent appearance were also a reason for attracting Xiaoyu in the first place, but in order to be with him, she gave up the pursuit of her career, and only opened a café for many years.

When Dai Xiaoyu learned that the man concealed his married identity and dated him, he should cut off the love thread and let himself be reborn, instead of realizing it after being bruised all over her body, the director and screenwriter set her experience too tragic. In the world of feelings, girls seem to be more likely to be led by the so-called love, so that they love each other too much and give up the career they are pursuing, and what they don't expect is that they are pampered when they are young, but when they are old, they may also be abandoned by such a man, and men are much more rational in the relationship, especially for married men, you only need to look at his attitude towards his ex-wife and children to figure out what you may encounter in the future.

After Dai Xiaoyu learned that the other party deceived him that he was single, he should have made a decision immediately.

TV series can show a woman's hesitation in the face of feelings, but it can't lower her IQ, in the face of setbacks, he will think and distinguish between good and bad with his heart, and it is really not a clever thing to shape modern girls into blind in the face of love. In fact, Xiaoyu has a premonition of many things in her heart, but she is unwilling to pierce this layer of window paper, she saw the surging coldness towards his ex-wife and the 10% of the property was not left to his ex-wife in the end, she should understand that this man said that 50% of what he left for himself was also in careful calculation.

Because the surging wishful thinking is to wait for Xiaoyu to give up the 50% by herself.

I feel that men always have a more rational attitude in their relationships, for example, the surging knows that he has entered middle age, he needs a young and healthy partner to take care of and accompany him, and the existence of his daughter is also very important, they are all chess pieces in the second half of his life that he has carefully arranged.

Is Dai Xiaoyu pitiful? It can only be said that poor people must have something to hate, when he started this relationship with Peng Pai, even if he was divorced, he said that if he is divorced, you will believe it, you can ask his divorce certificate to take a look, and it is impossible for him to show no clues in five years.

This plot is a bit inexplicable, and I don't think this TV series is that good.

It's still very distressing, because her tragedy was actually doomed from the very beginning, all because of the scumbag, break up quickly.

I don't think so, because everything is her own doing, and she chose the wrong person.

It's caused by herself, because she has no bottom line when doing things, and at the same time she is very respectful of others, and she has done a lot of things that touch the bottom line of morality.

Dai Xiaoyu's sad life was caused by himself, because he did not grow up in time, and he did not know how to respect and love himself.

It's yourself. Because she is an egoist, and she is very selfish, very vain.

The surging is the culprit of Dai Xiaoyu's miscarriage, but the miscarriage also has Dai Xiaoyu's own reasons. The relationship between the two, even though the surging is deceitful, but the purpose of Dai Xiaoyu and the surging together is not pure.

The surging love for Dai Xiaoyu is not true love, he is unwilling to be responsible for her, but uses one lie after another to deceive her to continue to stay by his side, for the surging person.

The two have been together for five years, and at the beginning of this play, Dai Xiaoyu is about to marry Peng Pai. Dai Xiaoyu accidentally saw the property division agreement sent to him by the lawyer from Peng Pai's computer, and then realized that Peng Pai had not divorced his wife at all. The reason why Peng Pai has not divorced for a long time is nothing more than wanting the best of both worlds, for him, he has a wife who can take care of his daughter in China, and Dai Xiaoyu by his side can be affectionate, so he doesn't want to change the status quo.

A year after the two broke up, Peng Pai not only took out the divorce certificate, will and property division agreement, but also a huge diamond ring and a promise to Dai Xiaoyu. Not only did he get divorced, but he also made a new will, that is, if he died, his estate would be inherited by his daughter and Dai Xiaoyu, and one person would inherit half of it.

When she told her that she was pregnant, the surging attitude was resistant, not surprised. If the surging really planned to marry Dai Xiaoyu, then he should be very much looking forward to the arrival of the little life, but his attitude was to subconsciously resist, so it would be clear what he was thinking about. Surging is not love for Dai Xiaoyu, but a habit and dependence, in the days when he didn't wear Xiaoyu, he couldn't even find clothes and socks in **, he just wanted Dai Xiaoyu to accompany him all the time, but he didn't want to pay for the youth of the family and give her a stable home.

Now Dai Xiaoyu saw it clearly, Dai Xiaoyu, who was too sad, accidentally had a car accident on the road, miscarried, and the child was gone. The culprit of all this is surging, if it weren't for his deception and his irresponsibility, Dai Xiaoyu would not have lost control of his heart and almost lost his life.

The surging love is not sincere, and the love of Dai Xiaoyu is also a nuclear shirt with a purpose. Dai Xiaoyu miscarried, and both of them were responsible.

Yes, he is indeed the culprit, if it weren't for his tracks, Dai Xiaoyu would not have been in a trance when he was bored on the road, and He Hong would not have miscarried.

It is indeed the culprit who caused Xiaoyu's miscarriage, he is really very excessive, it is because of him that Xiaoyu will have a miscarriage, and after the collision, Xiaoyu will be so hurt to talk to his heart.

Yes. Because Dai Xiaoyu's miscarriage was mainly caused by the surging wind, I think the surging is the culprit of Dai Xiaoyu's miscarriage.

In love, you must understand your object, you must let go in time, don't have too many fantasies, you must be realistic, you must learn to dress up, learn to make up, learn to communicate more with the outside world, and be financially independent.

You must know more about your object, don't have illusions, be realistic, face emotional problems and cut through the mess quickly, have your own social circle, have your own career, be independent, and be serious when you do something wrong.

Every girl must have her own career, she must not lose herself, constantly make herself better, have her own ideas, and be very independent.

A lot of enlightenment, and no matter when you should not give up your work, you should also have your own pursuit, you must be rational in the face of feelings, don't be too blind, and at the same time you must find a person who has a better match for your three views.