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Two people in a marriage must communicate with each other frequently, only in this way can they better solve the contradictions between each other, and they can also better run in with each other.
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Tolerate each other, two people can tolerate each other when they see each other's shortcomings in the process of getting along, so that they can run in as soon as possible.
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Personally, I think that if the two people do not give in to each other in the marriage, if we want the two people to run in well, we can let the two people calm down first, and then enlighten the two people.
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In marriage, older children should be made aware of their responsibilities and obligations to help the younger, and they should often create time for them to be alone.
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I think this forbearance, change requires both sides.
In marriage, both parties need to tolerate each other, tolerate each other, and change each other in order to be happy for a long time.
First, is it tolerable or intolerable?
There is also a bottom-line principle of forbearance in marriage, for example, moral degradation, domestic violence, stealing chickens and dogs, drug abuse, gambling, if there is this viciousness, resolutely can't bear it, once tolerate it in exchange for an accomplice a hundred times, your constant forbearance will only help and abuse.
Second, marriage needs to tolerate and tolerate each other.
In married life, the two people have different personalities and different living habits, and it is inevitable that they will have all kinds of unhappiness and many conflicts together, which every family will encounter. There is no right or wrong in this kind of contradiction, and everyone can solve it in their own way, and there is no need to fight for the high. The other party has a bad temper, put up with it yourself, and wait for the other party to calm down, and then reason.
Marriage is the mutual tolerance of both parties together, and the mutual run-in becomes more and more stable.
Third, a happy marriage is a change in the personalities of both parties.
No one's marriage is smooth sailing, marriage is to change oneself while operating. Change your self-righteous personality, accept each other's shortcomings, and let yourself be open-minded. Many couples have lived for a long time, and their appearance has become more and more similar, which may be caused by their common joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Mutual understanding and tolerance are the fundamental guarantees for a happy marriage.
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If you don't give in to each other in marriage, sooner or later such a marriage will be respectful and know that the rent will be eliminated, and the best thing in a good married life is to be polite and respectful to each other, so that you can wait for your love.
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It depends on what the problem is, some things can be humble to each other, and some things must not be compromised, especially those principled issues, the woman cuckolded the man before Xun, can the man let it? No, one party wants to find a short-term view and doesn't want to live anymore, can you let it? Can't let it.
Therefore, the specific situation is treated on a case-by-case basis, and only by holding the Chang dialect can the problem be dealt with well.
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Quarrels between husband and wife are mostly triggered by the details of life, and they are a kind of venting for the troubles encountered in life. Everyone knows that the tribulation of starting a business, the care of parents in the family, the education of children, etc., all require huge expenses, and everyone has a time when they are unhappy at work. At this time, it is normal for couples to quarrel, sometimes the tone of the man is high, and sometimes the tone of the woman is high, because both parties are angry.
When both parties calm down, they will feel that they may be too excited, so that their pants tremble and care about their families. The emotional foundation of both parties is still there, and there is no need to continue to fight. Also, this person mentions that the man feels that the man's tone is high, so he thinks that the marriage has failed, but in fact, her personal thoughts are too arrogant.
If you divorce and then have the next marriage, you will definitely fail.
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If husband and wife can tolerate each other, marriage will definitely be able to go further.
The way husband and wife get along is a lifelong topic, and many people can't figure out how to get along when facing marriage, so many people eventually go their separate ways on the road to marriage. In fact, the divorce of many people is not because their feelings are not strong, but there are many problems in the process of getting along, two people get along, it is inevitable that one plus one is greater than two, because they need to restrain some of their temper, and at the same time be able to accept each other's shortcomings, only in this way can they last in the marriage for a long time.
If a couple doesn't know how to tolerate each other, it can only mean that they don't love each other so much, and at the same time, the conflicts that erupt in this marriage will increase day by day. In the process of getting along with each other day after day, two people will naturally find many problems, but the eternal needle point to Mai Mang, arguing about the first line is tantamount to adding fuel to the fire, and will only make this relationship precarious, so husband and wife should not be too careful, and it is the best way to deal with the world by turning big things into small things. And when we love someone, we should also make more concessions, don't always think about winning or losing, the relationship between two people is never a place to be reasonable, home is a place to intercede.
Marriage is not easy to come by, we should accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings, and at the same time be able to tolerate each other's small temper, defeating each other in marriage is not a real voice, and being able to properly submit to softness is a manifestation of generosity. Only in this way can the relationship between two people last long enough to live peacefully in the next few decades, otherwise, marriage is just a crumbling cage, and one day it will go to the extreme because it is unbearable.
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Husbands and wives must not only tolerate each other, but also face up to each other when they encounter a big mistake or a big ideological mistake on the side of the quarrel, so that the other party will wake up immediately, only tolerance and such as Wei Zheng"Mirrors", in order to make this faction of servants and marriages go further.
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Yes, if the husband and wife can tolerate each other, such a marriage will go further, because some people will have to adapt to each other's temper. If you don't get used to the other person's temper, you won't be able to spend time here, you need to use another way to make the two people reach harmony and stop arguing.
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No, communication is the most important thing, because many things cannot be solved by tolerance, but need to be solved together.
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Yes, if husband and wife can tolerate each other, it will make this marriage go further. Therefore, we must learn to tolerate each other in marriage.
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Yes. Because two people can tolerate each other and make each other feel loved, which can make the marriage life longer.
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It's not that they tolerate each other, the two sides still have to understand each other, and if you are unhappy, don't keep it in your heart, after a long time, everyone is uncomfortable because of a little thing, and it will break out because of a little thing.
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That's not true.
Forbearance does not mean change. Forbearance is a compromise, and a change in an intimate relationship is an adjustment to the good aspects of both parties, which is called change. And blindly compromising and forbearance will only make this intimate relationship more and more unequal and more and more negative emotions.
You yourself know that every time you decide to tolerate the other person and compromise with the other person, you will increase your negative emotions about the relationship.
Many people's marriages are not very happy, although they have not yet reached the point of divorce, but they often turn on the red light, and the relationship between husband and wife has long been cracked.
1.Manage your emotions and temper.
Many people lose their temper and sprinkle it on their family members, which is a great destruction of family happiness. In a good marriage, you must hide your temper.
If you really love her, please don't yell at her, no one has the right to dump emotional garbage on others, let alone their own lover.
2.Encourage and praise each other.
After marriage, many couples quickly fade away from mystery, shyness, and accommodation, and rarely give each other encouragement and praise, taking it for granted that this is living at home.
However, a truly happy marriage requires mutual respect, encouragement and praise. If the other party handles something to your satisfaction, you must not be stingy with praise, so that the other party can feel the greatest happiness and be relieved and smile at all the efforts.
Even if you don't do well, as long as you do your best, you must not be stingy with your encouragement, only in this way can the other party make progress next time.
3.Imagine that you have a guest living in your house.
Married people treat strangers far more than their partners. Dr. Lerna was counselled by a couple who would pull their throats and blame each other whenever they were alone.
So, Lena suggested that one of their colleagues move in with them for a few months.
As a result, the husband and wife became respectful of each other.
In this regard, Dr. Lera pointed out that imagining a guest living in a home greatly improves the partner's ability to control his or her emotions.
4.Be honest with each other.
I have seen some couples who guard against each other, like thieves, and each other has their own inner abacus, as if they are not a couple.
Some people will say that I have no sense of security, so I secretly saved up private money and fortified it, in order to leave a way back for myself.
This seems to be a wise move, but in fact, it is to split the married life, marriage is that you have me, I always have your integrated life, and the fortification is to forcibly break up the whole, it is like a knife, you split the marriage from the middle, you and I hold half of it, and finally it is difficult to escape the fate of divorce.
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The husband and wife did not look at the same place, and did not work together for the same goal. Or one is desperate for the family but everything is lost, and the hearts of both parties are not together, and there is not even each other in their hearts.
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The first is a marriage without trust, when a couple does not trust each other, they will be suspicious of each other and suspicious of each other all day long. The second is a marriage without a common language, because then it is easy to lead the husband and wife to not be able to talk together and do their own things. In the end, there is a marriage with love and sexlessness, and such a marriage will not go far.
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Almost all relatives and friends around me are strongly opposed to marriage. We must always believe that bystanders are clear, marriage is not child's play, and we must not go our own way.
There is a world of difference between the three views.
There is a difference in strength and taste between the two sides.
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I think that harmony between husband and wife is not tolerance, but tolerance and understanding. If you forbear, it will break out one day.
Husbands and wives are more tolerant and understanding, and we use our love for each other to influence and tolerate. Why do some people say that to love one person is to love all of them. Of course, this kind of love is too difficult in reality. Probably very few people can do it.
When something happens and there is a misunderstanding, then find a time for the two of them to have a good chat together. Once the misunderstanding is clear, I believe there will be nothing. My husband and I would find a time to sit together and chat after every quarrel, even if it was a text message or QQ.
But I think the misunderstanding has to be made clear, so that there is no accumulated barrier between the two people.
Communicate more, and when you calm down, think about the other person from a different perspective, and think about what was good to you. I believe that as long as you truly love each other, everything else is not a problem.
A kind of happiness that is happier than buying lottery tickets and winning millions and tens of millions. Because there is mutual understanding in marriage, but it is not realistic to understand each other all the time. There will be many things because of the two people often quarrel, the head of the bed quarrels and the end of the bed, I think this is marriage.
If you want to be warm and down-to-earth in marriage, then two people need to understand each other, tolerate each other, and treat each other as their idols.
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