Why do most parents take the daily necessities used by the eldest to the second child?

1. The second eldest item is then used.

Families with two children generally have to inherit the mantle of the boss, the child grows up fast, especially when the eldest has no experience, always afraid of wronging the child, the task of the mother is to go shopping, so I bought a lot of things to wear, but I didn't wait to wear them, or some new clothes were only worn once, just because I was small, and I never had the opportunity to wear them.

So when the second child came to report, it was a happy mother, this time I can finally use these small clothes and shoes, anyway, they are all my own children, *** the same as new, even if the gender is different, you can wear it, and the resolution of children's clothes is not very high.

2. Relatives and friends do not refuse.

Every family will have children, naturally children's toys and things used are also more than the family can not pile up, learned the lessons of Dabao, Bao mothers to the two treasures this time is a lot thrifty, around friends to send things feel able to use all receiving, in fact, it is recommended here that mothers whether it is new things or old clothes, it is best not to take, the things used by children are of high standards, it is difficult for you to know the quality of the things sent by relatives, and some things contain chemical fibers that will affect the baby's physical development.

Because this is a very simple thing, it can save money, it is not a question of partiality or not, this thing is good, why not continue to use it? We're not billionaires, so why waste it? Even if you have a lot of money, I don't think there's any need to waste it.

What's more, it's not wearing other people's clothes, and there is nothing wrong with your own children's clothes, and there is no problem at all.

There are always some people who feel that if the second child is allowed to use the boss's things, then it is not a very fair thing to the second child, and I don't think there is any unfairness. Nowadays, children are growing faster, and there are not as many clothes as before, but there are a lot of clothes. And it's not particularly cheap to buy, most of them can't be worn without being worn.

So in such a situation, why can't it be left for the second child to wear? Do you have to buy a new one to prove that you are very good for your second child? I don't think it's really necessary.

Some people may mind their children wearing other people's children's old clothes, in fact, everyone has such a mentality, after all, you are such a sweethearted baby, you definitely don't want him to use old things, you definitely want him to use brand new. But if it's your own child, it's different, because you buy these things yourself, and you don't have to worry about bad quality or other problems. And generally you will definitely leave some clothes that are better and cleaner, and those clothes that are dirty or very bad, you will definitely not stay.

However, I think this method is only suitable when I am a child, and when the child is a little older, after going to school, try not to do this. At this time, it is best to buy whatever you buy for the eldest and the second, because the child has grown up slowly and he has an independent mind. If you only buy new clothes for your brother and then let your brother wear your brother's old clothes, this will have a very bad effect on the psychology of children.

Because the baby grows faster, he keeps buying new supplies, which is not only a waste of money, but also a waste of products.

The main reason is that the cost of buying things for children is too high, so the things that can be reused are used again.