What if the boss doesn t like the second child, what if the boss doesn t want the second child

Share together and deepen the relationship.

For the eldest child, if he is older, such as six or seven years old, then parents must educate the eldest and the second child to share some things together, such as toys, snacks, etc., so that the two children can learn to get along and play together, which is their first step towards society. Parents play a very big role in this process, for example, buying a toy and letting two people play together, rather than letting one person dominate it. After two people learn to share, the relationship between the two will definitely increase, if the relationship is getting deeper and deeper, then, there will be no phenomenon of the boss being jealous of the second.

Parents grasp it, and the elderly help.

In fact, when dealing with the relationship between the eldest and the second, parents are the most critical, and the grasp of some of these things needs to be handled correctly by parents, but sometimes it is inevitable that there will be some bias.

At this time, the role of the child's grandparents or grandparents is very large. Although parents may be biased in this regard, as an elderly person, their attitude and feelings towards their children are the same. Only by the joint efforts of parents and the elderly can children grow up healthy and happy.

The boss doesn't like the second child, this depends on his parents to guide him, and parents should not ignore the boss.

Do your child's work slowly, and if your child really doesn't want to, then consider not having another child, so as to bring negative emotions to your child.

The key is to make him feel responsible. He is the elder brother who should do what he should do responsibly. In the future, he will help his brother with many things. Infect the child with love, so that he will also love his brother.

Now many families are planning to have a second child, but there are many problems that we need to pay attention to, and at this time we must also observe Dabao's emotions, we must not ignore our children. If you find that the eldest has become very untalkative, then parents must express their love at this time, and we must care more about this child.

We all want our children to be healthy, and we also want our children to enjoy this kind of family atmosphere, because a good family atmosphere is very helpful for children's growth, so we must also pay attention to related issues. If you find that the child in the family is not talkative, it may be because the child has become particularly insecure, so the child will feel very sad. But parents may not pay attention to him at this time, so these children will become very inferior, and such children will be prone to many problems in their personalities.

At this time, we must understand the inner thoughts of the child, and we must express our love.

If you are already planning to have a second child, then parents must care about their big treasure at this time, and we should communicate the idea of having a child with our children in advance. In this way, the child will be better able to accept it, so we must treat the child as an adult, so everyone should also pay attention. We all want our children to be fine, and we also want our second child to get along well with Dabao, so we must also pay attention to Dabao's emotions.

We must pay more attention to these issues in our daily lives, and we must also express our love reasonably. We must make the child feel loved, so that the child can better accept these problems, and the child can become better, so parents must pay attention to the way.

You should take care of the boss's emotions more, you should slowly squeeze out some time to accompany the boss, learn to slowly improve the relationship with him, and then put the boss and the second child together to play and care, communicate more with the boss, experience the boss's feelings more, and you can go out to play as a family.

Because the psychology of the eldest has changed a lot, and after the parents have a second child, the neglect of the eldest is very large, so it will lead to such a situation for the child, which has caused such an impact on the child.

Be sure to communicate more with your child, don't have eccentric behavior, pay attention to your child's mental health, learn to comfort your child, and meet your child's wishes.

You should choose to go out and walk around on your own, or you can choose to talk to someone close to you about your emotions, or you can see a psychologist.

The eldest doesn't want a second child, and most of them are older? To make it clear to the boss that his parents' love for him will not be reduced by a point, and after having a little brother or little sister, he will also discipline him. Listen to him. Guide him more.

Many parents' attention will be on the second child, and they often ignore the eldest child, so that the eldest will have a series of rebellious behaviors. It is very wrong for parents to only pay attention to the behavior of the second child, and it is also a very undesirable way, so let's introduce it to you, what does the boss generally think when encountering this situation?

The second child is more common in our lives, and many parents attach much more importance to the second child than the boss, many parents will think that the boss must let the younger, in fact, this will only aggravate the boss's rebellion, and at the same time, it will also make the boss less and less like his parents. In their ideology, the love of my parents has been taken away by my little brother or little sister, and it is because of the existence of a second child that my parents will dislike me more and more, if only there was no second child. It can be seen that the boss's sensibility is really regrettable, if the family wants a second child, it is best to ask for the boss's consent, if the boss does not agree, the parents will give birth to the second child strongly, then it will not get the boss's love, and it will also aggravate the contradiction between the boss and the second child.

It can be seen from this that the threat of the second child to the boss is also very large, the boss often thinks that if there is no second child, then my parents will like me alone, and no one will take away my father's love and mother's love, what do you want, at the same time, my parents are very good to me, it is because of the existence of the second child, so my parents are all attracted by the second child, and ignore the healthy development of the boss's body and mind. It can be seen that when the family is ready to want a second child, it is best to seek the consent of the boss, and then give the boss more care and attention in life, and tell the boss something to love for his younger siblings, so that the boss will not be prejudiced against the second child, and at the same time, there will be countless wars between the two children.

The Boss can become particularly insecure. I feel that my parents don't care about me anymore, and my parents don't love me anymore.

You may feel that your parents don't care about you anymore, and your personality in life will become very introverted, and you will become cautious in everything you do. Parents should be able to achieve a bowl of water in life.

The boss will be very lonely, and the boss will feel that his parents don't love him anymore, and he will feel like an outsider.

After many families have a second child, they will not pay special attention to the boss, this phenomenon must be very wrong, and may make the boss feel very unbalanced in his heart. Today, I want to talk to you carefully about what kind of impact it will have on the boss.

When the second child was not born, all the love of the parents was on themselves, after the second child was born, the parents put all their attention on the second child, which will inevitably make the boss feel very uncomfortable, and at this time, the relationship between the boss and the second child will become very poor, if we don't want to make the brothers turn against each other, then it is recommended that you pay attention to this situation. We should be able to make a bowl of water even, don't always ignore one child, both children are born to us, ignoring one child will make the other child very sad.

If you want to make a bowl of water even, it is actually a very simple thing, first of all, we have to understand right and wrong. After the child does something wrong, we must solve this problem from the perspective of fairness, we can't say that the second child is smaller, we must favor the second child. If we deal with problems in this way, it will lead to two children who cannot distinguish right from wrong, and both children will use tricks to escape after making mistakes in the future.

As parents, we need to let our children know what is right and what is wrong.

I think that if you can't make a bowl of water even, don't have a second child, otherwise, it will also lead to some harm to the child. Therefore, we must think clearly, and when we give birth to a child, we must be responsible for the child. If it is not possible to be responsible for the child, then is it to bring the child into this world to suffer?

I hope that everyone will be aware of this situation.

The eldest may be very sad, the eldest is very envious of the second child, very lonely in his heart, and has no expectations for his parents.

The boss will be very disappointed in his heart, there will be a lot of mental illness, and there will also be jealousy, which will have a great impact on the child.

The boss will feel that his parents don't love him anymore, he will become very inferior, and he doesn't want to talk to his parents.

The boss thinks that the second child has robbed the love of his parents and has become sensitive and vulnerable.

Introduction: If you have a second child, you don't pay attention to the boss, it will only make the boss psychologically unbalanced, and it will have some rebellious psychology towards the younger brother or sister, the child's learning may be degenerate, and the child may use some other behaviors to retaliate, as a parent, you must not ignore the love and education of the boss.

I feel that many parents have been saying to the boss before they have a second child, even if they have younger siblings, I love you the most, but after the younger siblings are born, they will unconsciously ignore the boss, you must know that this kind of behavior is really a great harm to the child, and it also makes the child feel as if he has been deceived, the child is not very welcome to the second child, he feels that his love may be separated, and the parent's behavior is directly telling the child, you see that with the younger siblings, I will ignore you, I just don't love you anymore, and the child's psychology will also be distorted, as a parent should never do such a thing, and the child may feel very unbalanced in his heart, he will be jealous of those younger brothers or sisters.

Once the child is jealous, he will actually do something to seek attention, he may be more depraved in learning, he thinks that this can attract everyone's attention, so that parents can shift their attention to him, but he doesn't know that the more he does this, the more likely it is to cause dissatisfaction among parents, and the child may also use other behaviors to retaliate, which is very scary, and may even lead the child astray, must let the child feel your love for him, Let him feel his importance in life, don't always ignore the boss, and don't ignore the boss. After the second child that is not in the family, you can't ignore the emotional changes of the boss, otherwise the boss will really feel particularly wronged, obviously all the love is on him at the beginning, but after having a younger brother and sister, the parents no longer love him.

At this time, it is likely to affect the boss's personality, which is likely to cause the boss to become very irritable, and it may also cause the boss to feel that he is not good, so he will also have an inferiority complex.

The boss will become very inferior, and the boss will also feel particularly aggrieved, because the boss also needs to be cared for, and the boss will become very sad.

Feeling that his parents are partial, thinking that his parents don't like him, feeling lonely, feeling redundant, and feeling wronged.

Hello, your problem is not a legal one, but here I can give you some advice:

First of all, after you give birth to a second child, you don't like the boss more and more, you find this change in yourself, you should first tell yourself that this is a normal phenomenon, don't be anxious, and then you can go to the mother who has given birth to a second child and have relevant experience to communicate, ask them, maybe they can help you, you can also consult relevant books or read some experience on how to adjust your mentality in the relevant **.

Secondly, if it is inconvenient for you or you do not want to get help by communicating with others, you can choose to consult a psychologist, who has more professional knowledge than ordinary people and can find a good solution to your problem, but when consulting a doctor, it is recommended that you must choose a regular psychological counselor, so as to ensure that your own problems are solved.

Finally, here is some personal advice, in your case, it is recommended that you learn to identify the child's strengths and weaknesses when you are in contact with your older baby, or you can choose to be separated from your older baby for a short period of time, during this time of separation, your feelings for the child should change. The above two points are small suggestions for you, for your reference only, how to deal with it, you still have to deal with it in combination with your own and your child's situation, if you want to deal with this situation well, consulting a professional psychological counselor is the best choice.

[Legal basis].Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1067: [Parents' Obligation to Support and Obligation to Support Children]Where parents do not perform their obligation to support, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 1068: [Rights and Obligations of Parents in Educating and Protecting Minor Children] Parents have the rights and obligations to educate and protect their minor children. Where minor children cause harm to others, parents shall bear civil liability in accordance with law.