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I remember when I first came back from studying abroad four years ago, the first thing that came to mind was to buy a car. After a period of evaluation, I decided to buy a green midsize sedan. At that time, I had the impression that most people buy white or black cars, so I had to choose a unique one to show my personal taste.
When I was complacent about buying a different car, I suddenly found that there were many cars of the same shape and color as my car, whether on the highway, in the alley, or even in the parking lot of the building where I lived.
I'm starting to wonder why all of a sudden everyone is buying dark green cars. I share this sudden discovery with my colleagues around me. There was a female colleague who happened to be pregnant, and after listening to me, she rushed to say:
I don't see a lot of dark green cars, but I do find that there are a lot of pregnant women now. Last week, I went to a department store and saw 6 pregnant women in just two hours. And I and other colleagues didn't notice this phenomenon she said, thinking that her discovery was probably a coincidence!
Later, when I listened to a lecture, I learned that this phenomenon is called the "retinal effect" in psychology. To put it simply, when we own something or a trait, we pay more attention to whether others have the same trait as we do. "
Mr. Carnegie long ago made the argument that 80 of every person's traits are strengths, and about 20 are our weaknesses. When a person only knows his own shortcomings and does not know his strengths, the "retinal effect" will prompt the person to discover that there are many people around him who have similar shortcomings, which in turn will make his relationships unable to improve and his life will not be happy.
If a person wants to be popular and popular, he must have the ability to appreciate himself and affirm himself. Because under the operation of the "retinal effect", a person who sees his own good has the ability to see the good in others. And being able to look at others with a positive attitude is often a necessary condition for good interpersonal relationships.
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to: Straight to the point. life. As long as you live in this world,. What can't be avoided is interpersonal communication. Now, our class has a class meeting on the theme of interpersonal relationships.
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A gang of three, giving people roses has a lingering fragrance.
Benefit others and self, mutual benefit
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Why is Sun Wukong so powerful? Answer: He is not supernatural, but has good interpersonal relationships.
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Theme class meeting: We need friends 1. Class meeting form: Conversation form:
The moderator asks questions, and everyone speaks and discusses impromptuly. 2. Preparation for the class meeting: (1) Before the class meeting, let each student describe the one of the students who impressed him or her the most, point out what makes him (her) appreciate him (her), write his (her) name and these characteristics on a piece of paper, and hand it to the class president (2) Ask two male students to rehearse a sketch "Look at the Face" (3) Each student prepares a short story of a great man making friends 3. The process of the class meeting:
1) Moderator: In today's society, with the fierce competition, the relationship between people is becoming weaker and weaker, and there are more and more people who go their own way, take themselves as the center, and draw a circle with their own interests as the radius. Moreover, this concept is also expanding to our students, we are about to enter the third year of high school, the competition for admission will be more intense, and there are more or less problems in the relationship between students, is there really a need for real friendship between students?
Let's take a sincere heart and look for friends forever in our lives--- theme class meeting "We Need Friends" starts now (background** - Zang Tianshuo's "Friends 9") 2) Moderator: Please recall who was the first classmate you met in our class? How did you meet?
What was the first thing to say? (A few students are invited to speak) Moderator: Through the narrative of the above students, it seems that each of us has brought to the beginning of the school year, in fact, it is not difficult to make friends; As long as you sincerely say "Hello, my name is X", you will have many friends from now on; (3) Moderator:
Before the class meeting, we ask each student to describe the one of your classmates who is most impressed by you, point out what makes him (her) appreciate him (her) very much, and write down his (her) name and characteristics, we found that the content from the classmates is very rich, including the names of almost all the students in the class, there are activists in the class; There are also students who rarely speak very quietly, because of the relationship of time, we selected 10 of them and asked the students to guess who he is (after reading one; The students scrambled to guess who the described classmate was, and the atmosphere of the class meeting was very lively) (4) Host: Students, in fact, everyone around us has many advantages and flashes, which are often inadvertently ignored by us. We should all be nostalgic for the people and things around us, absorb the advantages of others, change our own shortcomings, learn from each other's strengths, and make progress together.
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