What to do with girls after abortions, and will the girls who had abortions regret it?

Rely on your own mentality, don't think too much, let yourself go out for a walk, how can life be so smooth, a long life, this is a small thing.

It's better not to tell your boyfriend in the future, men generally can't let go of this matter much, let yourself have this secret, he doesn't ask you and don't tell it.

If you don't want to live in pain for the rest of your life, you must say it, and if he loves you very much in the future, you will feel guilty for the rest of your life.

So it's better to talk to him clearly.

I advise you, Miss, blame others first, don't blame others.

Don't say it well ... 95 of serious men can't stand it. You said that people love you more, that is the probability of winning the lottery!

To say it or not to say it is all up to you.

It's better to say it. Words not to say. I'll feel guilty for the rest of my life.

If the man you meet genuinely likes you. He knows that it will cherish you even more.

I had the same experience as you, I said it.

The best way: next time be sure to let him bring a condom.

Girls who have had an abortion should be prepared for the next time they are cheated into having an abortion.

Clever women don't speak. It's better not to say,

Don't tell her, a lot of people can't accept it

A man who really loves you will cherish you even more because of this.

1. Both men and women have the right to procreate.

According to China's "Law on Population and Focal Area Family Planning" and other relevant laws and regulations, husband and wife have common responsibilities in the practice of family planning, and also enjoy the right to have children. The argument that only women have the right to have children and men have no rights to have children is wrong, and men have the right to have children! The right to reproduce includes both the right to have children and the freedom not to have children, that is to say, the right to have children also includes the right not to have children.

2. The woman may decide to terminate the pregnancy at her own discretion.

China's Law on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests clearly stipulates that women have the right to give birth and the freedom not to have children. In other words, the woman has the right to terminate the pregnancy if she decides not to have children during pregnancy. The reason why the law gives women such full rights is because women are still in a disadvantaged position in modern society, fulfilling more obligations in taking care of and raising children, and bearing irreplaceable hardships and risks in pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding!

3. The man shall not claim damages from the woman.

According to the interpretation of China's Marriage Law, where a husband requests damages on the grounds that his wife's unauthorized termination of pregnancy violates his reproductive rights, the people's court will not support it. However, if there is a dispute between the husband and wife due to childbirth, the court shall grant the divorce after mediation fails. That is to say, in many divorce cases, the man asks the woman for compensation for the "stubble" of the abortion without permission, and it will not be supported by the people's court!

4. The realization of the man's reproductive rights requires the cooperation of the woman.

The peculiarity of reproductive rights makes it possible for men to realize their reproductive rights only through women. In the process of the specific implementation of rights, due to the difference in the physical conditions of men and women, it is inevitable that women are the main body of pregnancy. Pregnant mothers have to endure anxiety, pain, and physical discomfort in the process, which is difficult for others to experience.

From the day of the birth of humanity, a woman has endured such a sacrifice that makes her noble in the eyes of others. Therefore, it is in line with the spirit of balancing legal interests to give more preferential protection to women in the orientation of legal values.

Abortion is an injury to a woman, a harm to an innocent new life.

The issue of abortion is a controversial and emotional issue in American politics. Pro-abortion rights activists argue"The Republican Party in the United States is crushing the legal basis for legal abortion bit by bit"。In 2001, Bush announced a ban on non-agency funding that performs abortions and provides counseling on the act.

U.S. Congressman Hillary Clinton supports women's right to abortion, she argues"Bush has regressed on many issues of importance to women. "Activists from other countries who participated in the event said that the U.S. abortion policy has an impact not only at home but also on women in other countries, especially in developing countries.

From the basic principles of Buddhism, abortion is killing, and it is not a murderous wriggling, it is a murderous life. Originally, this child came to be reborn as a child for you, and there was an intimate relationship with you, but you had an abortion for various reasons, and then one of your enemies came into being.

Therefore, everyone must pay attention, be highly vigilant about this, and do a good job of contraception if you don't want children; Once you are pregnant, you must give birth to her. Nowadays, in order to give birth to a healthy child, some people go to ultrasound during pregnancy, and when they see that the fetus seems to be disabled, they don't want to have an abortion, which is absolutely not allowed.

When a child comes into this world, this is a rare opportunity for him to gain a human body in the past countless eons. He may not have the six roots, but as a humane being, he has an opportunity to verify the truth and cultivate the Tao. A person who does not possess the six roots can also be reborn in the Western Elysium by reciting the Buddha, and we cannot interrupt his life because of some worldly values.

Mothers should know that 90 percent of education takes place at home. Ideally speaking, we should have different mechanisms and ways of educating children, and the current education methods are too utilitarian, we only teach things like profit and economics, but we don't teach the relationship between cause and effect, and there is not enough education about cause and effect.

Education for job hunting is not the only way to educate. A good education should make children happier and more elegant, and now our education system makes children robots, and it doesn't matter if they are 100% robots, the sad thing is that they have a mind and a consciousness. Our goals are not the same as the status quo, so many children don't grow up so satisfactorily.

I think that girls who have abortions are disrespectful to themselves and life, and since they don't want children, why should they get pregnant. Moreover, abortion will cause indelible damage to the body, which will seriously affect the second pregnancy.

For abortion, the situation is also treated. If you are an unmarried girl, an abortion can have very serious consequences for your body, so you must respect and love yourself. For married women, it is also advisable to take steps to avoid abortion.

One is morally and psychologically condemnable. The second is that it will indeed cause damage to one's own body. No matter what age you are, cherish yourself.

I would think that it is too hasty for a girl to have an abortion before she is married, and that an abortion will cause a lot of harm to a girl's body.

A woman has absolute rights over the uterus.

I don't think I'm careful enough about my life.

To give another example, there is a person I know, because she was pregnant, and then she aborted the child when she was more than seven months old, why did she have a miscarriage at that time? Because she was checked out at that time, when the pregnancy test was taken, the four-dimensional color ultrasound showed that the child was deformed, and she couldn't have this child, so I think she must have been very painful when she made that decision, but she definitely didn't regret it, why? Because if she gave birth to a child who was not healthy, then why bother to bring it into the world?

Therefore, if you don't regret it after having an abortion, I think it depends on the actual situation of each person, if it is some reason why you have to have an abortion, I don't think you should regret it, but if it is not necessary, then it depends on the individual.

Do you mind, you ask? If you mind, forget it, there are so many people you can like, it doesn't have to be her, since you mind that she has had a baby, then keep this liking and go to find the purity of the next one; If you don't mind, then like her seriously and do your best to protect her.

A girl who is not married and has had an abortion must have experienced an unforgettable once beautiful love, so her heart will not be melted by you so easily. I think if you really like this person, you don't need to care too much about her past, that girl has never met a scumbag in her life. Anyway, it's her past, a person's past, which can explain some things, but it can't explain everything.

You can't deny a person's life because they have made mistakes, and you can't ignore a person's past because of the beauty of his present. She had an abortion, it doesn't mean that this person is unclean and has no chance of being loved, maybe, she is just a victim of a relationship, and he is also the one who is deeply hurt.

Then you should leave this girl and stop liking her.

This kind of thinking of yours is typical of straight male cancer. Since you asked so, you should still like her. Your inherent feudal thinking and the fact that you like her fight in your heart, and you don't want to give up on her, maybe she is good to you, and she loves you very much, but you just can't get over this hurdle in your heart.

If you feel that aspect of your heart is more important, then you can choose whichever one.

But I think the feudal thoughts in your head may not be able to change, this is what you have formed since you were a child, I think you are already such a person in your bones, even if you like that girl again, you can't change yourself for an outsider.

In this era, a large number of people are still prejudiced against women, thinking that women should be reserved, and the kitchen is the most important. This kind of thinking seems really unreasonable to me, probably because as a girl, I am a little strong in my bones, so I insist in my heart that men and women are equal, but I can't deny that men and women are not really equal in society.

But I would say that it was not her fault that the girl had an abortion, she was also a pure and flawless girl, and she was once able to give herself to a man who could not accompany her for the rest of her life, perhaps because of ignorance, perhaps because her feelings overwhelmed her.

Abortion is very harmful to a woman's body, which woman is willing to **? It's not forced yet. She is the biggest victim, you don't understand her, you don't protect her, love her and spoil her, but ask this question, which makes people wonder if you really like her?

If you really mind this, then you should simply stop messing with this girl, you can't give her a future, don't hurt her feelings again.

If you really like someone, how can you care about her past, no matter how unbearable her past is, but like is like, love is unreasonable, you know? Love can make people crazy and irrational, so if you really care about a girl having an abortion, it may be because you don't love her very much, and you don't love someone so deeply, so you will care about that person's past, in fact, everyone has some past, some good and some bad, but you only accept it as a manifestation of loving her.

Miscarriage must be an indelible experience in her life, you can't accept it, and she won't feel good in her heart. You need to be clear about this, so don't hurt easily. From any point of view, it is not right to continue to hurt her.

Your main problem now is that you don't know until you get married, and that's where your current knot lies. We all know that if we find out before marriage, we will inevitably choose to break up decisively, and the reasons need not be repeated. And after marriage, I found that things were by no means so simple.

To resolve this knot, you must first find the reason, why did you find out after marriage? Did your wife deliberately hide it, or did you not understand it before marriage? Don't blame her for not saying it, this kind of thing, if you don't pursue it, there's nothing wrong with her not taking the initiative to explain.

Therefore, whether you didn't ask, or she concealed it, is more important.

If you really can't accept it, I advise you to divorce as soon as possible. Because, this kind of thing will have a shadow for a long time on anyone. Don't wait until the longer it goes, the more you hurt each other.

What you like is the girl's present, not the past.

She didn't say she liked you, she was amorous.