Younger than her boyfriend, she may not understand his worries

Logically speaking, this relationship should not last long.

But man is to be good at changing, to change what is not good, to make it good.

It doesn't matter if he's three years older than you, it's not really important because of your educational differences, it's your outlook on life. Compared to it, your social outlook must not be as profound as his. He has to think about his future.

Actually, after all, why? Because he wants to be excellent, and maybe more for the love between you.

You say that you don't understand his troubles, I stand in the position of a man to be fair, in fact, there are many times when we men's troubles are not wanted to be shared with our girlfriends, because in this way we can show our so-called "manhood". Is that right? Hehe.

What you can do now is to work hard to improve yourself, for your own future, and also to make him want to capture your heart, I believe you can do it!

Yes. But don't worry, you see that most of those who get married are older than men.

But if you want to change this situation, you have to experience more, be well-informed, have your own thinking when you encounter problems, and have your own understanding of this society.

Then there is the effort to understand his character, and the person who marries knows the character of his spouse inside out. The foundation of love is understanding, and you have to do that too. Observe his speech and demeanor.

Comfort him specifically, as long as you talk to him about what he likes or what he is interested in, he will talk very speculatively.

If you want to solve the problem of hard to find a job, you have to rely on yourself. You can buy some books on job hunting, etiquette, maybe it will help.

It's puppy love again!!

I said, "Can't you wait until college??? High school time is wasted by you studying and falling in love, where is the experience???

You should share your happiness and worries with each other!

Weigh it yourself, wouldn't it be very tiring.

I feel uncomfortable, as if I am very unhappy with the fire.

If you are angry, there may be something unpleasant, so spend more time with her.

I can understand your feelings, and I don't have anything to say, I thought, you should spend more time with him.

When you are with him, if he doesn't say it, don't force him to say it, remember. To accompany is to accompany, and when he wants to speak, you are his best listener. When he doesn't want to talk about it, you can tell him jokes, stories, news, fashion, etc., and you can find something to say yourself, and hit what he wants to hear.

Or, you can just accompany you without saying anything.

You can also watch movies with him, hang out, etc. Find your own activities.

When you are with him, let him feel that you care about him and that you care about him.

It's up to you. I think, after a while, your boyfriend will be able to think about it, and for him, it will also be his growth. Or maybe he will take the initiative to tell you.

Some men, when he encounters troubles, he is afraid that his girlfriend will worry, so he solves it by himself and does not want to tell his girlfriend.

Everyone's situation is different. Everyone has their worries at times. The solution also varies.

You just have to respect him and care about him, and that's good.

Hope you are happy.

Since he is reluctant to tell you, it is likely that he is afraid that you will worry, or he wants to solve it by himself. At this time, you must ask him about the best friends who usually get along for a long time, learn the reason for the matter, and find a way to help him. And then you have to pretend that you don't know, since he doesn't tell you, he just doesn't want you to know, you must not say it directly, he may be unhappy.

You have to always be with him, tell him jokes or something, make him happy, and don't always make him sad. At least not when he was alone, he was happy. Then you're solving the problem at the same time!

Be sure to help him, and after this incident, you will definitely become better in your relationship. He will also regard you as the most trusted person in his heart!

In fact, your gentleness, thoughtfulness, and understanding are already the greatest help to him.

If you can't help even if you know something, he doesn't tell you that he doesn't want you to know, he just doesn't want you to worry.

You can start with the best buddies next to your boyfriend, but when you ask questions, don't be too direct, start inadvertently!

Or why is my boyfriend always losing things lately, in a bad mood, and he doesn't want to eat, you guys are the best buddies, you know what's wrong with him??

He will only tell you when he wants to talk to you himself, and he won't tell you because he doesn't want you to be upset with him.

You just divert the other person's attention and ask him to treat him with optimism instead of thinking about it!

You tell him that if you talk about your unhappiness, you will feel better, and you still have me.

Judging by your description, your boyfriend seems to be interested in the girl. But that girl doesn't have to be, you shouldn't care that much.

Hello, you try to impress him more often, maybe you don't want to worry about you, some things don't want you to worry, you should tell him to let him know that he still has you, you have to bear it with him, this is called sharing weal and woe.

It may be upset and doesn't want to speak, but it also responds to you, I'm afraid you'll be too careful.

What is the problem, and how can you solve your problem.

It's too tired, it's too stressful, you should try to help him share the burden.

1. If you feel troubled and don't accept it before you get married, you don't love you enough.

Personally, I think that if a man loves you, he will share your sorrows and joys.

He doesn't love you enough, because those who love you will listen to everything you say.

Yes, if he loves you, he will listen to whatever you say and take care of you.

Maybe he happened to be in a bad mood too.

Because he only loves himself, and he doesn't want to care so much, so as not to destroy the relationship and each other's mood because of this...Follow-up question: Why do I ruin each other's mood when I mention troubles? Answer:

Because he changes with your mood, just because he likes you...