Am I a philistine and unfilial? 30

Grinding copper mirrors, copper mirrors with serious rust, first have to be polished a very rough grinding stone, not a few times on the line, but to polish to expose the copper color, and then rub on a slightly thicker grinding wheel, the same force, or not afraid of death, willing to strength, but also willing to face, to be ruthless, and finally slowly grind with fine sandpaper, to be attentive, to be meticulous, to be gentle, fine rust to be clean.

If we want to polish our temperament, we have to polish it on the wicked, and whoever hurts me, harms me, looks down on me, insults me, squeezes me, scolds me, beats me, or even kills me, must think that after all, it is for my good, at least it will be useful to me! The more bad someone treats me, the more they want to love whom, the more they want to be close to whom, and what are you doing when you are close? It's not to fight, it's to polish the bronze mirror, to reform, to guide, to persuade, don't argue, don't try to say yes, so the effort is in vain.

Transformation is to learn loss, learn to be poor, learn to be short, learn to be ordinary, learn to be safe, learn to be inferior to others, learn to hold up people, learn to care for people indomitable, love people's face, love people's interests, and love people's reason.

If you can't figure it out, you will be restrained, and your temperament will go against the grain, and you will have gloom in your heart, what should you do? How to get rid of all kinds of uncomfortable things? Laugh out, laugh out with humor, and don't get depressed.

Think about it, people always complain when they encounter unhappy things, and complain about other people's bad things, how is this right? I ask you, is it the smell of feet or the smell of socks? People's socks were originally clean, but after two days of wearing them on your feet, you wrote that you took off your socks with crooked eyes and nose and threw them away, muttering why these broken socks are so smelly!

Because the feet are their own, and they grow on themselves, the socks will be scolded, and they must protect their feet, how can this be considered fair?

Socks smell because of foot odor, foot odor is because feet love to sweat, or athlete's foot, beriberi is because of dampness and heat in the body, phlegm and internal resistance, this is because of the spleen's dysfunction, spleen function is not good because of the love of temper, I can't figure it out, love to lose my temper because there is yin in my temperament, so I want to change sex, I have to admit that I don't, look for benefits, think about people's socks don't dislike my foot odor, I blame others in turn, think about my bad temper is fundamental, how can I complain about socks, the more I complain about my feet, the more smelly I am, to think like this, Slowly the socks stop smelling. You try it, anyway, I'm ten years of severe athlete's foot now, and now the weather is very hot, but my feet don't sweat anymore, I used to use no medicine, but now I don't use medicine, and recently my athlete's foot has improved, it's amazing.

At the very least, your parents have given you a worry-free environment, what do you have to complain about.

Those children in the mountains even have food and clothing as a problem, and they never resent their parents.

There are many children in this world who don't go to aristocratic schools, and every one of them has to be like you.

You're only 17 years old, you don't want to study hard, you just want to share your grandmother's inheritance, I really don't know what to say about you, your father is a gnawing old clan, is it possible that you also plan to gnaw old clan?

Don't compare like this, child, it will only make your character worse and worse!

1. Put all your thoughts on studying and strive to get into a good university!

2. Be filial to your parents and grandparents at home! Let parents worry;

3. Don't compare these external things, improve your own qualities, and when you have the ability, everything will be there;

It's not small, but it's not to the point of being "not human", and your parents are also responsible for the way you look, they dote on you too much.

But I think, in fact, you know in your heart that the only people who love you in the world are your parents, and they are not immortal, if you continue like this, you will regret it one day (you seem to regret it now because you are not sensible).

Actually, I don't think you should be so miserable:

1. You don't have the pressure of a mortgage, and you can get by financially.

2. Your parents can take good care of themselves, and they don't need you to support them for the time being.

3. You are married, and your wife's conditions are also good.

For you, your stress comes mainly from work, and in addition, your needs are not being met.

I think, first of all, you should find a way to improve your work ability, you have been working for several years, as long as you focus on the work, your basic ability to graduate should be no problem, why do you always make the leader dissatisfied with you? You have to reflect on it, you have to know that your parents are old, and now it should be you who can support a family. Don't always make excuses for yourself, if you go on like this, it's you who suffers:

I know it's wrong, but I always feel like I can't control it. Actually, it's just because of willfulness.

Aren't you already aware of your own problems? You are still very filial, so go home to see your parents more often, and it is better to go to your parents' house and kneel down and kowtow - - repent, but this also requires you to be willing - in fact, if you think you have done something wrong, you will admit that there is nothing to fear.

Everybody's tired -- you have to look at people who are more tired than you, like your parents, they're much more tired than you, do you see them tired?

A short question, full of typos. It seems that your family conditions are good, and your parents may be pampered by you. However, you have recognized the problem and recommend that you start with the little things. Do things seriously and everything will be fine.

Needless to say, it seems polite to thank your parents, the main thing is to know how to care about your parents, and you should buy clothes for your parents, even if it is just to buy clothes for a dozen yuan, they will be happy. Have time to spend more time with your parents, otherwise when you lose your parents, you will have no chance to care about your parents. Of course, this is just a personal opinion.

Don't be pained, face your parents and the world with a grateful heart, and you will feel happy. Compared to those ant tribes and naked marriage clans, you are already very happy, and I suspect that you are here to bask in happiness. It's not easy for parents to raise their children, how can they be embarrassed to quarrel with them?

The kindness of parents will never be repaid in this life.

If you say that, you know you're wrong....From today onwards, I would like to greet my parents and chat with them more...

What are you buying a car for, just go to work normally, owed.