Because my husband is selfish, is it worth divorcing him?

Everything has to learn to be tolerant, he is selfish, you are married to him, then he is not selfish before you get married, husband and wife must learn to understand each other, everything must be faced and borne together, talk to him well, have children, don't be so reckless, will regret it, what to do if you leave the child, think about the child, what he said is angry, don't break up your family because of something, let's talk about it, I believe your husband can also understand you, talk about it instead of letting you quarrel, You all have a responsibility to think about this family and for your children.

You and I are in a similar situation, but I am better than you, I have no children, I have a job, and I want to get a divorce, but I have just gotten married! Why do men become two people before and after marriage? I think you should think about it, after all, you have children, you have to think about your children Don't threaten the other party with divorce if you quarrel with your husband, so you will put pressure on him, and then you file for divorce when he releases it!

I think you'd better think about it, talk to him, and don't break up a family for a little thing!

No, first of all, I'm sure he can't change it, and secondly, if you divorce, you should ask for property division, as well as alimony, etc., don't do it in vain, ask a lawyer to hold the other party accountable when you go to court.

Be cautious, no. Can't leave.

Divorce! This can't be said casually, one day husband and wife hundred days. Learn to tolerate your husband!

Change her with practical actions! I can teach you a way to be suddenly nice to him, hehe! Good can't be good, do everything for him!

That's good for 1 month. You suddenly ran back to your mother's house! Let him feel how to live without you.

I think let's say goodbye first!

He promised so happily, is there someone out there?

Think about it!

Even if you want to leave, you have to ask him for money!

You can't be too soft on men!

Strike when it's time to strike.

Women should protect themselves!

Forget it, people will have shortcomings, let alone men! It can only be said that it is immature, do not make any mistakes in principle, and tolerate it if you can tolerate it! You can guide him well! ~

...Then you think about it first---don't worry- -

Think about it. Think about how good he is to you.

If you find that your husband is an extremely selfish person, whether it is to the point of divorce depends on the specific situation.

If his extreme selfishness has affected your normal life, and you can no longer bear it in this life, feel very depressed and difficult, have no way to control your emotions, and have no way to accept his extreme selfishness, then you can only choose to divorce. After all, whether or not you want a divorce is determined by your own subjective assumptions, not by the judgment of others. When you feel that there is no longer any fun and meaning in life, then only the path of divorce is the right path for you.

But if his rhythm is selfish, and it just seems incredible to others, but you can accept it yourself, and the company can tolerate it, then there is no need for divorce. So this is still different from person to person, depending on your own perception.

However, extremely selfish people are indeed helpless, after all, they are born to have a good family and life. The husband's extreme selfishness will only put the family in a predicament, that is, either everyone becomes extremely selfish, or they are forever selfless and selfless. In either case, it is difficult to accept, or it is possible that in the long run, the other party will be able to compromise and accept this life.

The marriage relationship can be maintained, but any girl who has ideas, in the face of such a husband, will not have any love, and the relationship will only become very weak, and even the emotional breakdown, such a marriage does not make much sense to continue.

When having a child, the child can also experience the direct impact of the father's selfishness on him, that is, he may also become extremely selfish, which is also very detrimental to the growth of the child, so if the husband can not change at this time, you might as well try to find your own new life, after all, people's lives are very long, and it is not good to live in such an environment and family.

You should divorce him, because selfish people are very scary, they only love themselves, they don't know how to care for others, such a married life will only make you worse and worse, so you should divorce him.

Of course, you have to divorce such a man, because he is very irresponsible to you and doesn't care about you very much, so you should divorce in the face of such a person.

Don't divorce the other party, you are already married, you should solve this matter, so that you don't feel very unhappy, and you won't let others look down on you.

When you feel that your husband doesn't love you, in fact this feeling is correct. When you have a mistake in your heart, even if it is correct logical thinking, you can be confused, why don't you ask yourself, do you still love him now?If you coax outsiders, can you deceive your conscience?

But it's the external inducement harm, and when you meet someone you think is stronger, must this person be your favorite?Won't it be a haircut pick with a hot head?I'm sure you won't feel like your husband doesn't love you when you get married, and after the stumbles in your married life, there will be some changes in your relationship.

In response to this shift, it is not advisable to choose to escape or pretend not to see. If the divorce is very simple and you can deal with all your unhappiness, it is estimated that you will not explicitly raise the difficult question of whether to divorce or not. You asked, and there is no doubt that you are reluctant to give up this emotion in your heart.

Even if you are reluctant, then find a way to find the past emotion, find the person who made you feel that you loved you before.

You need to put yourself in your shoes and think about how your husband usually treats you!Busy at work?Is the work smooth?

How tired is it?Usually your husband knows best about you, and scolds youDid you hit you?

Still didn't pay you?You may compare yourself to someone else's husband, who is always someone else's!There are some just superficial conditions!

Daily life is all about mutual understanding and tolerance, and if you relate to him more, he will relate to you more.

In fact, there will always be friction between husband and wife, but there is a good saying that "quarrel at the bedside and the foot of the bed" Everyone should sit down and talk about it carefully, talk to each other about their thoughts, and deal with it gradually!I hope you are happy!Married life should be warm, grasp yourself well, cultivate emotions carefully, and believe that you will be happier in the future.

You don't have to be negative for my momentary disappointment, courage and confidence depend on you, boys have their jobs, and you should come to warm your heart to assist and apply, and you don't have to divorce for a little bit of unhappiness.

Of course, if you choose to divorce, married life should be happy, and if you don't feel happy in marriage, you are wasting your time.

Personally, I think if you have children, try not to divorce, if you don't have children, you can't feel love in marriage, then you can get divorced.

This is something that many women will face, and they are very helpless. If he is very average to you, and he is very poor, then do not follow him, but if he is very rich, and he will give you a lot of money to spend, then get along with him.

Li Siyu asked: My husband is very selfish, I want to divorce, but he is very good to me, I just want to be a full-time wife at home, I don't want to work, he doesn't have a job, what should you do? After reading his WeChat and **, they are the kind of people who make you very disgusted, and they are also difficult for you, but he is unwilling to divorce, I am very anxious, I hope you can help me and help me solve this problem, thank you!

Li Siyu: Hello, I am a company employee, my husband works very hard, usually he is meticulous to me, very considerate, and very good to me, but he is very selfish to me at home, and he is unwilling to work, does not want to work, and is also difficult for me, I am very wronged. So I would like to ask you, can you help me solve this problem?

I'm also confused right now.

1. Why is he selfish?

Why do I care so much about your feelings? I think first of all you want to know why my husband is selfish. There are two levels involved.

One has to do with your husband's own personality, and your husband is just a very strong person. And this layer of character determines this. The other layer is that the wisdom belt is related to your husband's own conditions.

2. Why is he reluctant to work?

First of all, in the question you asked, he was reluctant to work because he was not motivated to work. Of course, it is also possible that he feels that he does not have the ability to earn money. If you ask, the reason is very simple, what do you think his reluctance to work will have in the future?

All I can tell you is that it may be one or because of his own thoughts.

3. What are you going to do.

In fact, if this kind of problem is not solved in marriage, it is the most sad, and it is the saddest thing if a person does not take marriage seriously. So you're going to give him a change! First of all, it is necessary to change the perception that men work hard outside the home to earn money in order to take better care of the family.

Wives should learn to take on the responsibilities of the family appropriately, and if the husband does not have such ability and responsibility, she can discuss with her husband whether it is feasible to be a full-time wife at home.

4. What do you think.

Li Siyu: This problem is very difficult to solve, because selfish men don't actually change themselves, and even men who usually have a little bit of good to themselves will become very selfish, so we have to find ways to make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious. Whether a man has a sense of responsibility or not is to see whether the man has a sense of responsibility.

And this sense of responsibility cannot be formed overnight. Therefore, men should constantly make themselves accountable, so that their wives can also know what their husbands are doing outside.

The husband is very selfish, is it not du should divorce immediately, treat it differently.

zhi。If the relationship between the two parties is indeed broken, and there is no power to reconcile, divorce can be considered; Otherwise, it is advisable to consider carefully, after all, marriage is not child's play.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

Of course, such a man wants to leave.

1. Even their own children.

Du Zhi is not raised, and a man still has to rely on DAO to support you to live, to say that it is ugly.

Hello, I don't know if you and your husband have any other contradictions in addition to the economy, "he is reluctant to spend a cent of the money he earns", "he never gives the family, and I pay for the expenses" is not the AA system (some couples around us AA system, most people are very unacceptable), it is excessive, I don't know how you have allowed it to develop like this in recent years, I think this is not a simple economy can be summarized, even Scrooge is just like that, it's a little ugly, But I really thought so after seeing your description. "It is said that it will be left to the child as an inheritance in the future" "The child is now two years old, and he is not even willing to give milk powder money after birth" Can the child grow up without milk, and if he can't grow up healthily, how can he inherit the inheritance? It is most unrealistic to look forward to the future despite the present.

Now my mother is seriously ill and needs money urgently. He said it wasn't his parents who couldn't have given it. "It's really a bit ruthless, and he's also a mother-in-law, but it's conceivable to see that he is reluctant to spend money on his own children.

I didn't think of me as a family. "Does he treat the child as his own family, isn't he reluctant to pay for milk powder and the cost of hiring a nanny, they are still related by blood, let alone you? So I think your husband is a person who values money very much, at least more than feelings, more than children than you.

Have you talked to him about your thoughts?" is now my mother seriously ill and in dire need of money. He said it wasn't his parents who couldn't have given it. I am an only daughter and have no siblings to share the pressure with.

In the future, when I get sick, I guess he will do the same, no matter what. Your worries, apprehensions, and insecurity.

I think that because of this divorce, it will not solve the problem, because your mother's expenses will not be raised after the divorce, and "divorce is very shameful." And I can't bear to have children, I'm 31 years old this year, and there is pressure to remarry. "It's better for you to talk and determine the post-menstrual AA system, the family also has his share, everyone contributes, you can also give your share of the rest of the support to your mother, as for the urgent need now, you ask him to help, lend it to you first, after all, it is important to save people."