What should I do if my child feels that learning is useless?

1. The learning efficiency is low, and there is no credit for hard work, which makes people very anxious, right?

2. Concretization: What is the extremely low learning efficiency of children, doing homework is slow, lazy and lazy, or what other manifestations do they have?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

There are two main reasons that affect children's learning efficiency: 1 is the child's learning ability, and 2 is the learning motivation. Learning ability is a child's own problem, and learning motivation involves the influence of the entire family education.

A Lack of learning ability: children's memory, concentration, and thinking ability training are insufficient, and the idea of solving problems is not broad enough. The main reason for this lies in the child itself.

Solution: Systematic and professional guidance and training are needed to let children master scientific learning methods, develop good learning habits, exercise all-round thinking ability, and gradually improve children's learning ability in all aspects. This is mainly done by the winning 1-on-1 subject teacher, and it can generally have an immediate effect.

The vast majority of the winning students can more or less see that their learning efficiency is getting higher and higher, and their grades are constantly improving.

b Lack of motivation for learning: children's learning goals, learning interests and self-confidence, etc., lead to children's learning grinding and low efficiency, which is not something that the teachers in the campus can control alone. This depends more on the shaping and influence of parents and the family environment.

It is necessary for the school district and parents to fully cooperate and communicate, analyze the reasons, and formulate specific measures with parents as the main body and the cooperation of the school district, so as to effectively stimulate children's learning motivation.

Solution: Create a good home learning environment and interaction mode. Specifically, you can:

1) Reduce learning tasks appropriately, so that children can play freely and happily when they see that the tasks are completed, so as to spontaneously accelerate the learning progress, improve efficiency and form habits;

2) Affirm the advantages of children's learning, let children see their own learning ability and achievements, and stimulate children's inner sense of value;

3) Constantly encourage children, let them see their own progress, and constantly increase the motivation to learn and move forward;

4) Respect children's interests and hobbies, protect children's innate curiosity, carry out their own hobbies and hobbies when children have free time outside of learning, and appropriately guide them into the learning content, so as to stimulate learning interest and improve learning efficiency;

5) Awaken children's deep dreams, and use the natural power of dreams to guide children's spontaneous and voluntary goals and learning goals;

6) The above content seems simple, but it is difficult to do, which is a big challenge for parents. Parents can actively participate in the winning free family education seminars, and under the guidance of experts, they can continuously improve their own education level, so as to effectively enhance their children's learning motivation;

7) Once the child's learning motivation has been effectively improved, coupled with 1-to-1 subject tutoring, the child's learning efficiency will naturally improve, and it is difficult to improve the grades.

In fact, you don't have to be too anxious, it's not necessarily a bad thing for children to have such thoughts, there are many who can't find a job after graduating from college, and in the end they compete for the same position as those who haven't gone to college, and the final winner may not be a college student. This is what the current society looks like, no matter what he does in the future, as long as he can make money reasonably and legally, and can live his life well. It is understandable that parents want their son to become a Chan, but you don't have to be too anxious, it's useless to be anxious, it's better to properly guide him to do what he likes to do, the Internet is not a bad thing, you can let him develop in the direction of the Internet, and there are many people who play games and become famous!

You, don't be too anxious, the child's thinking is not controlled by us adults, only through little by little communication and understanding, so that he will change, let him feel that you and he are equal, don't be too strong, now children don't eat this set!

I hope my words will be of some use to you!!

You have overlooked one of the most important details, and as a parent, you should be guided, not scolded.

You say that he understands everything, is it not as deep as a hairy child who has only lived for more than ten years after you have lived for decades?

For example, if he wants to learn computers, you have to tell him that the in-depth knowledge of computers requires those foundations, such as mathematics and foreign languages.

In this way, he will learn for what he likes, instead of your foolish persecution, which will only be counterproductive.

Remember, guidance is very important, children in junior high school are more rebellious, you must first find a way to get into his psychology, can clearly understand what he is thinking, and then according to his hobbies and pursuits to guide him in the right direction.

Your child is a child prodigy. However, it is necessary to guide well, and children in this time period are prone to go wrong. His hobby with her, is very good. But adults must instill in him the idea that only by working hard and skillfully can he do well, and he can't do without either.

I am also a student, parents should not be too strict with their children, but be gentle.

You can say to him: If you don't study well, you will have no money when you grow up, so you can only pick up rags.

Hee-hee@!####

Educate him well, reason with him, and don't fight.

Children are greedy for play and do not like to learn is a problem for many parents, and not learning will inevitably affect their children's grades, so what should I do if my children do not like to learn their mothers? The following is a trick for children who don't like to learn.

1.Set learning goals, arrange study plans, and patiently guide children to learn.

It is not enough for children to only have interest and competitiveness, but also to develop a meticulous spirit, which is an important guarantee for achieving excellent results. A child's learning mostly starts from observing luck, regretting, emptiness, and imitation. Therefore, when parents tutor their children's learning, they must first be careful and careful and do a good job of demonstration.

Count, count, count, number of words, number of words, word number of words, word sentence, word is round, word is round, do not scribble, handwriting. Only by leading by example can children be required and guided, so that they can play an exemplary role. The child will gradually develop the quality of being serious and careful.

2.Create conditions for children's learning so that they can learn freely.

Because the child is not tall and the bones are not fully developed, what parents can do is to provide their children with high-protein, high-calcium food, but they cannot provide nutrition for their children and cannot grow taller. When it comes to learning, what parents can do is to create a quiet, welcoming learning environment. Parents can't spend too much time watching TV, let alone playing poker and mahjong all day long, because the environment is too crowded for children to read and study.

3.A role model for parents.

It's best not martial arts**, romance**, but books related to your work, or books related to children, such as popular science books on children's psychology, or classic books to improve self-cultivation, etc., and concentrate on drawing nutrients from them, in the process of your own improvement, you may have found a new way to educate children, and he may have imitated your example.

4.A healthy competition for power and victory.

Of course, such a struggle must not be simply understood as the first place in the grades.

The competition for the first, second and third places is to participate in it and do a better job in learning. For example, encourage children to pay attention to the class, write homework clearly, speak boldly, read aloud clearly, do all the questions correctly during the exam, and correct the shortcomings immediately.

At the same time, full attention should be paid to skillfully infiltrating the competition in learning into children's life and entertainment, so as to comprehensively improve the quality of children's comprehensive and blind cooperation.

For children who don't like to learn, the most important thing for parents is to find the right way to help their children learn, and for children who don't like to learn, the most important thing is to find the right way to cultivate children's interest in learning.

1. Set an example.

Role models are an important way to influence and educate children with the good thoughts and deeds of others. For example, classmates, neighbors, teachers, heroic and exemplary figures, positive characters in literary and artistic works, and the excellent qualities of revolutionary leaders are all objects for children to learn and imitate. Whether a parent's words or deeds are wrong or right, they have a profound impact on their children.

Therefore, parents should always check their words and deeds in their daily lives.

2. Establish environmental edification.

Parents should consciously create a good living environment so that their children can be infected and edified. The family is the main place for their children's lives, and parents should organize their lives well, handle the relations between members well, uphold correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a united and harmonious family atmosphere, and establish an orderly order of life, so as to cultivate their children's good sentiments. Therefore, establishing an environment is a good way to educate children.

3. Criticism and punishment.

Criticism and punishment are both negations of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is a means of educating children with serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, it is first necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of the situation, grasp the specific circumstances and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the reality of mistakes; criticism is to point out the harm and ideological roots, negate their thoughts and behaviors, make them feel ashamed and painful, and then generate motivation to correct their mistakes. Don't be sarcastic, don't ridicule, don't be abusive.

Punishment is mainly the deprivation of a certain right, not corporal punishment, not humiliation and physical and mental destruction.