Manifestations of empathy, what does empathy mean

The frequency of empathy shown by the client is as follows: dependence (attachment), love emotion, and two-sided emotion. Another phenomenon of empathy is emotional problems in love.

Teacher, I like you, do you love me too? "I want to have a personal relationship with you" and so on are examples of close to love feelings. If the counseling partner is of the same sex, an emotion similar to that of a friend, parent-child, or sibling relationship can arise.

As mentioned earlier, this does not mean that such emotions must be explained, nor do they have to be freed from them. Making the most of such positive metastases can sometimes get to the heart of the problem. So, there is also a question of the degree of this emotion of love:

If this emotion can promote the psychological growth of the client, there is no particular problem; If the degree of transfer is too strong and the amount of transfer is too large, it may become a problem. The third phenomenon of empathy is the simultaneous transfer of two feelings, such as love and hate, wanting to get close and wanting to avoid, believing but not believing.

If the client can handle the client's empathy more appropriately (i.e., do not produce confrontational empathy, and make the client aware of the empathy), the client can be liberated from insecurity and guilt, and trust the counselor more, so that through empathy, he can experience a new interpersonal learning and identification.

Women have these 4 manifestations, and men should pay attention, they may have empathized.

Women have these 3 performances, which means that they have "empathized and don't fall in love", and it is necessary for men to understand them.

The term empathy is a term used in psychoanalysis in psychoanalytic theory. Client empathy refers to a strong emotion generated by the client towards the analyst in the psychoanalytic process with hypnosis and free association as the main body. It is the process by which the client projects too much of his past emotions about certain important people in his life onto the analyst.

mechanism

The basis for the formation of empathy is the failure to properly deal with parents or other key people in interpersonal relationships in early childhood. This metastasis is divided into positive and negative metastases.

Positive transfer, such as the desire to confess love and hope to get love emotions from the ** person. Negative transfer, such as disgust, hatred, hostility and desire to accuse the person. The former is also known as positive metastases, and the latter is also known as negative metastases.

Easy to empathize means that this kind of person is very emotionally unstable, and he should be emotional when he meets someone else, and his feelings are also unstable.

Share Day 541.

1. For the handling of empathy, the counselor should find out the meaning behind empathy. We have to work with the client**, the points in the client's life, and the scenes he cares about. Let him know that the counselor only has the points he cares about in his life or the ones he likes in his life, but he is not her love interest.

The counselor then expresses his or her opinion on the client's empathy. First of all, I am a counselor, and I can't find any kind of relationship with the client in an ethical relationship, and if you think we can continue to do counseling, we can continue to do it. If you don't think so, then let's not continue, and I can refer you to another counselor.

2. We generally do not give advice in consultation. If the visitor must suggest, we can be invited to the expert, the suggestion is okay but we have to negotiate. I'm curious if you asked me to give you advice, so what influence do I have on you coming to the consultation.

We don't give advice if we can.

4. The relationship between people and problems is diverse.