Please help me, is it my fault?

I understand you very well, not because I have a family, because I have a sister-in-law, my mother is also a mother-in-law, she tells me everything, in fact, every family has a difficult scripture, your situation is actually a lot of people, I know your mother-in-law's thoughts, because he thinks of his son first in everything, ignoring your feelings, in fact, you don't have to think too much I think she doesn't really have the heart to break you up, if you really divorce, she will definitely not be happy, people are heart-to-heart (with your sincerity in exchange for her sincerity), Usually cheerful, mother-in-law is not as close to her mother as she is after all, you can talk to your mother very casually, but you can't with your mother-in-law, in fact, I think there are some things you have to say, I think if you say it, your mother-in-law will understand you, now the smart daughter-in-law does not quarrel with her mother-in-law, in fact, in the whole thing, you just need to look at your husband's attitude, if your husband doesn't care about 3721 to scold you, then his husband is incompetent, On the contrary, if your husband goes to talk to your mother-in-law calmly, I think it is necessary for you to do a good job in the relationship between you and your mother-in-law for such a husband, your mother-in-law is at fault because she as an elder has to understand and care about you, she obviously didn't do it, but as the saying goes, a good slap doesn't make a sound, you must also have your fault, think about it, don't just mention breaking up with your husband, that would be very unfair to him, he didn't do anything wrong, if you really don't come with it, then go out with your husband to live, Forming a warm small family outside, there is no need to separate from your lover for this kind of thing, right, this kind of housework is also difficult to decide, it depends on how you want to do it, what I said is just for you to make a reference, I don't know if I can help you, I hope you can be happy as a family in the future! Bless you!

I can understand your difficulties, and you have done a good job. As a junior, you fully respect the elderly, even if you suffer a big grievance, you don't do anything excessive, you are a rare daughter-in-law.

But is it the only way to go? It's a pity to give up your lover and give up your marriage for your mother-in-law's misunderstanding, besides, this can't solve the problem at all, what you have to do now is not to leave home, leave your lover, you just need to minimize the time you spend with your mother-in-law, if the physical condition is not very bad, you might as well try to find a relatively easy job, although now the job opportunities are tight, talents are everywhere, but you are more experienced than people who have just come out of school, and there will be more opportunities than them, Even if you are a clerk, you will have more contact with some people, and you will not be separated from society for a long time, so that you will become more and more unfamiliar with the outside, and more importantly, your posture will be relatively high, whether it is your husband or mother-in-law, you will be very praised for your general knowledge, which is a choice that kills multiple birds with one stone. Of course, I don't know much about whether your physical condition allows it, and I hope to help you a little.

There will be many contradictions in life, but do not avoid them, and actively seek solutions. You say that your husband loves you very much, which means that you have many good qualities and are a very good girl. In my opinion, the best way is for you to move out and live by yourself, which can effectively avoid a lot of contradictions.

You first have to explain your thoughts to your husband, win his trust and approval with you, and then let him do the work of your mother-in-law. After moving out, it is not that you have lost your relationship with your mother-in-law, you should often go back to see the old man, care more about her, she is your husband's mother after all, you have to be considerate of the old man's feelings. Pay attention to the way you usually speak and do things, and think more about each other.

Life is actually very simple, don't overcomplicate it. As long as you give love, you will definitely get a happy family. I wish you an early and noble son.

I also sympathize with your plight, and you can also ask the grandparents of the neighborhood committee to persuade your mother-in-law. After all, it's a matter between husband and wife, and it's not good for my mother-in-law to interject. There is nothing wrong with asking your mother-in-law to give herself a little space, and there is nothing wrong with being wronged for the sake of her beloved.

Eat bitterly, get sweet and sweet. Your husband will love you even more.

Have you told your husband, I know it's very uncomfortable to be wronged, but if you don't tell your husband to leave, your husband will be sad, and then you can also find it from your own reasons, try to make yourself cheerful, chat with the old man, and then find an opportunity to talk to the old man.

I think there are two sides to everything, and I feel the same way as you, and I used to be too, but now it's much better, and I communicate well with my family now

You have to work hard

Others don't fit in with you, you have to try to adapt to others

Marriage is not a simple matter, don't just separate, it's too late to regret when the time comes, don't make trouble, the more troublesome it is, the more chaotic it becomes

Try to minimize contact with your mother-in-law, the elderly are nagging. Since you said that your husband loves you, don't think about it so much

You're not wrong and they should understand you.

Ten years of repairing the same ship, and a hundred years of repairing to sleep together.

No, it should be -5 and 12 at the end

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