Growing up, isolated, friendships between friends are not so pure

Ha ha. Normal.

I graduated from school. Went to another school. Other cities.

All have their own new friends. New playmates.

In addition. The things to play are also different.

There is less natural contact.

It is said that there is no feast in the world that will not be dissolved.

I rarely have contact with my classmates anymore. But we also have to get together several times a year.

I would all say to them, I miss them so much, they are my best friends.

Don't look at things like that, what interests are not interests.

As long as you can see it for yourself. When you see someone you want to see, you say what you think. I miss you. You're a good friend of mine!

Nothing. Express your true feelings!

As for what true friendship is said, confidant. I feel like it's going to be fate.

As long as you have the opportunity to be together. Something to do together. Eat, drink and have fun together, and work together, Have you not met such a person, in fact, I am also looking for it, and I am also waiting. I don't know if I'll be able to find it later. I don't know if I'll be isolated for a lifetime in the future.

I believe! As long as we give with sincerity. (Identify people) can be successful!!

As long as you don't think about them, I used to think that friends are the most important, and later, I slowly learned to rely on myself for everything, so friends, for me is an extra gain, I don't think about having a pure friendship every day, everyone in this world is using each other, remember not to believe in classmates or friends you know after college, a person is very lonely, but sometimes there are a lot less troubles, buddy, good luck ha

Yes, my friendship with my best friend is the same, time is over, his friendship with me has faded, and the person has grown up, and he has never been able to return to the way it used to be

In fact, everyone's personality is different. The way of doing things is also different.

Grew up. It's all different, indeed. People are changing. Friends are human beings, too. In fact, everyone is changing. I'm just growing up. I realized.

Some people say that there are only eternal interests, and there are no eternal friends. I think it's very sad.

It's hard to find, but at least there's still one.

Everyone uses each other a lot.

True friends: start from interest, conform to the three views, respect personality, and be long-lasting. Not all people are suitable as friends, and we should know some precautions for making friends.

One writer wrote in his book: "Life is actually like a road that leads from a vast plain to a forest. On the plains, companions can walk in groups, happily pushing forward and helping each other; Once in the forest, small grass and thorns get in the way, and the situation changes, everyone pays attention to their own path and finds their own direction.

Some friends, when they meet, think it will be a lifetime; As we walked, we drifted in a sea of people. It is only in the end that we can understand that true friends often begin with interest, temperament, respect for character, and outlast the years.

For friends with different points of view, giving up may be the best option. The three views are the farthest distance between people. Two people who are not on the same channel will eventually drift apart.

In life, it is a kind of fate to meet friends with the same three views, and it is a blessing to be understood by the other party. There are many reasons why people come together. They may have the same magnetic field, or they may have the same three views.

But no matter what it looks like at the beginning, the most important thing that can make everyone together in the end is "good characters", and when you are honest with each other, you also want them to be honest with you.

get along, rely on sincerity; Deep friendship, relying on character. Bacon said: "A man should not be judged by his wealth and origin, much less by his learning, but by his true character." "Character is the most valuable pass for a person, and it is also the most important quality to get along with others.

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time. True friends will definitely not just pay lip service, they will help you and accompany you when you are in danger, when you are soaring, it may not be the icing on the cake, but when you are in trouble, it will definitely be a blessing. This kind of friend who can withstand the precipitation of time is the most precious wealth of our life.

When making friends, you should first look at whether the three views of two people are the same, whether the two people have common interests and hobbies, whether the two people have a common circle of friends, but also whether the person is good to you, see whether the personality of the two people is suitable, and have a bottom line when making friends, and never always tolerate each other unconditionally.

We must keep our eyes open, we must find friends who match the three views, in the process of making friends, we must have common hobbies, have common topics, and we should not give up the feelings in front of us for the sake of interests at any time, we must be sincere and sincere.

I think we have to make friends who share the same interests, and we can't be too far away from our friends, we have to keep in touch often, and we have to be careful not to explore privacy when we get along with each other.

When we grow up, we will experience a lot of things, some things that cannot be explained, can only be buried in our hearts.

When we are young, most people will have a lot of friends, but as we get older, many friends will also leave us with the passage of time. Not only that, but in society, we even find that sometimes we don't even have a friend who really speaks, do we grow up and become more and more lonely when we experience growth? If this is not the case, then why are we having fewer and fewer friends around us.

In fact, for many people, this is a normal phenomenon, when they are young, everyone lives close to each other, there is no need to go to school, there are not so many worries, and they can get together and play happily every day, which is the reason why everyone will have a lot of friends when they are young. However, as they get older, they will gradually start to go to school, and some people will not go to the same school, which will reduce their contacts with each other and lose some friends. But this doesn't seem to reduce the practice of friends, why don't you have a friend who can talk to your heart when you grow up?

In fact, in addition to the student days, everyone can make more friends because they live together and continue to play, but the friends you meet in a certain period of time are not necessarily friends who will accompany you for a lifetime. At some point, they may leave us because of the passage of time, and some people will drift away because of the pressure to go on to higher education. There are also people who will gradually lose contact after going to college because they are scattered to various corners of the world, which is the normal change between people.

Even after work, more people have no energy to deal with the relationship between friends because of the pressure of work, and many people have lost contact with friends because of marriage and children. It's a phenomenon that everyone will experience in their life, but if there are more friends but there are not a few sincere ones, then what's the use of having so many friends? Maybe we have few friends when we grow up, but our friends are true friends who can accompany us for a lifetime, and that may be the real thing worth getting along with.

Many people are passers-by in our lives, and we should treat them correctly and rationally, and not be sad because we have lost a friend. We need to look at the world in a positive light. It is also necessary to look at the relationship with friends from a different point of view.

In addition to the same three views, people get along with each other but also go through the test of time, in the long river of time, those friends who stay are often able to accompany each other for a lifetime.

It's the truth, I was carefree when I was a child, and when I grew up, my friends who didn't have money would be estranged, and all my friends would be linked to interests, so I felt that I grew up with fewer and fewer friends.

I think it's the truth, because when you grow up, you need to do more, and the fewer people who can understand you, so there are fewer and fewer friends.

It's true, because as your mind continues to mature, you will think more about gains and losses when doing things, and pay more attention to personal interests. And some sophistication will also make you keep a lot of it for your friends.

I think this is true, because the older you get, the more you will find that the human mind is too difficult to fathom, and you will not be too pushy for emotional things.

When we grow up or work, we will put our hearts on work or family, and the circle will become fewer children.

As we get older, we put more of our hearts on work or family (especially after marriage), so the circle of life will gradually shrink. In addition to work, we spend more time with our relatives and friends. After the circle of friends slowly becomes smaller, you will find that you do not have as many friends as before, in fact, everyone will go through this stage, and those who stay by your side really belong to the closest friends.

It may be my own personal personality and life experience that will cause me to feel more and more lonely and lonely.

After joining the work, I also became more and more mature, I felt that the pressure at work was too great, and the relationship between people was deceitful, and at that time I knew that I did not have a few sincere friends, and I felt more and more lonely, and I encountered difficulties in life, and I did not even have a friend to confide in.

Life is so realistic, now that I have grown up, I know a lot of things and have to face such loneliness.

The more I grow up, the more friends I have, but the real friends are getting fewer and fewer, because the more I grow up, the heavier the defense of others, and my heart is no longer that innocent child, not that I can easily share happiness with my friends about anything, I have something hidden in my heart, and I don't want to share it with my friends, so the relationship between friends will naturally progress slowly, and it will take a long time to be able to enter each other's hearts.

Because when we grow up, we will automatically filter out people who don't help us in any way, because we have our own opinions and ideas. Another is that our social circle is getting smaller and smaller, and it is difficult to reach people outside of our own work.

Many people say that people in the workplace can become friends, but that is only the opinion of minors, because the real workplace only has interests and nothing else.

So cherish the existing three or five friends around you now, and look at it again in another ten or twenty years, the passers-by are in a hurry, and it is just three or three to stay here.

When we grow up, we become sensitive, become not good at communicating, and think twice about everything, for fear that we will say the wrong thing and lose the opportunity, so we become intrigued, become flattering, and become more and more lonely, which is the feeling that every adult has, because we have lost the innocence and simplicity of our childhood, we have become worldly, so people are more and more lonely as they grow up.

The older people get, the more calculating they become, and when they are with their friends, they often feel that they have suffered a loss. It's no longer like when I was a child, even if my best friend ate all his bag of potato chips, he wouldn't care. When there is a relationship of interests between friends, the relationship is no longer simple.

It's a stage of growth.

When I was in high school, I had a lot of friends, and a few classmates in my class had a very good relationship with me, but since I arrived at university, the contact between us has become less and less, and there are fewer and fewer close friends around me, especially now that I have come out to work, the friends around me who talk to me do not feel particularly lonely.

I think it's mainly because of growing up, when I grew up, I had my own family, I had my own career, I was too busy, I didn't have time to contact at all, naturally, I slowly lost contact, the relationship faded, and I became more and more lonely.

When I was a child, everyone was very simple, they didn't know how to play scheming, they only knew how to eat snacks together, play together, and a little material could make them happy for a long time.

When I grew up, I found that the society was complicated, the human heart was sinister, and even my former good friends became unrecognizable, and I didn't know what they thought anymore, and even I would become the object of their attacks, and many friendships turned into interests, so there was no one to even speak to my heart, and all the good things turned into memories.

I think the more I grow up, the more lonely I become, the more I have no friends, mainly because people are very powerful now, and gradually I find that some people are useless to themselves, and the contact is gradually reduced.

In addition, we are really busy at work, and after getting married, we take care of the family's food, drink, and Lazar, and rarely contact friends, and gradually go farther and farther.

If you're also a kid's shoe, it's okay if it's not, hehe.

Children's shoes that are often left alone will have this thought. In fact, everyone will be lonely sometimes. However, people who spend a lot of time with friends don't think about it, so maybe it's called an escape.

Actually, adults will understand this loneliness, if you are willing to share it with others. When I grow up, I am no longer carefree, and I can't say a lot of things to others, which is normal.

Does growing up lonely mean that no one understands you? Or do you feel pressure, responsibility, and bitterness in your heart but don't know who to talk to?

You know that many people will find boyfriends and girlfriends to alleviate this loneliness, as if they have found an entity that finally belongs to them, but in fact, love cannot completely have a person, because everyone is not only alive and herself, and the other party also belongs to many people.

So how can you get rid of this loneliness, or eliminate the loneliness in your heart that comes from growing up?

1. Give yourself a dream, such as going abroad. You find that you don't seem to have any money, so what should you do? Oh, there will always be an opportunity, so if this opportunity does come to you one day, are you all ready?

Has IELTS passed? Do you have good academic performance? If not, then your life will start to be busy.

Be busy and busy, and your life will not be lonely.

In short, give yourself a dream in your life that is more likely to come true in the next 2-5 years (even if it is unlikely), and then make yourself full of each day, and you will not be lonely.

2. If the people around you are really not worth talking to, say to God, and it is much better to find a partner than to talk to yourself. Treat God as an entity, say it silently in your heart, absolutely no one knows!

3. If you can, open your heart and say hello to people or something, your social circle will expand and your mood will be much better.