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First of all, I don't think he should have done it at all!
I think the husband and wife work in the same unit most of the time to avoid suspicion, this is not wrong at all, but in addition to the relationship between husband and wife, you are colleagues, if you are not his wife, but an ordinary female colleague in the unit, he treats you so much that he doesn't even know the minimum politeness!
Then again, you are his insider, if there is any problem, he should be the first to help you solve it, at least tell you to wait like you said, but he doesn't, then no one knows what he is thinking in his heart And his reaction to you like that will make people think that you are insignificant to him (female colleagues' eyes are more powerful, I hope no one will chew your tongue behind your back), which is the most detrimental to you!
Whatever caused his behavior at the time, I think you should all have a good exchange, after all, good communication is the only way to know what is going on in each other's hearts!
Finally, I hope you can solve your problem satisfactorily
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If you give him face in front of outsiders, will he give you face? Why? Is it true that only men want to save face, and women's self-esteem is not important?
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Give him a little face in front of outsiders, it doesn't matter if you lose a little face, and you won't listen to everything when you get home.
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He wants to give him enough face and space outside. At home, he completely belongs to you, maybe he hopes to have his own free space outside, can have friendly interactions with more people, and expand his life circle, at this time he does not want you to intervene. I hope you can be a smart woman, and try not to annoy him if you can not annoy him.
Love him, just give him enough freedom!!
If the friend above doesn't give you face in front of outsiders, in addition to him wanting face, it means that he doesn't love you enough!!
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There are two reasons for this situation, one is that you have inadvertently offended your male colleague, and he is very concerned about the impact and harm caused to him by your unintentional actions. So he suddenly became indifferent to you, and made you feel that Yi Beifan recognized his mistakes, corrected them, and got his forgiveness. Or simply ignore it, he can see your attitude by imitating the rotten hail, and break off the friendship directly.
The second is that he suddenly finds out that he likes you (provided that you are a woman), and uses this way to imply that he can't like you or get your attention. Although everyone is an adult, the probability of this relatively childish self-deception is relatively small, but it is also possible, you refer to the calendar yourself.
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