What is the experience of the subject being busy and ignoring me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My experience is that I have become accustomed to my own life, and I usually complain on the Internet when I am unhappy, and sometimes I post a lot of updates, in order to let him see that if the subject ignores you, there may really be something important to deal with. For the relationship between men and women, I think it is better to have less contact at work, not only to disturb the other party's work situation, but also to fear that I will be dissatisfied in the process of chatting, which will lead to bad things happening. So it's better to restrain your emotions.

    Go to work well, and it's okay to talk whatever you want after work.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My object is like this, I've long been used to it, there are hardships and difficulties to bear by myself, never bother him, it's useless to disturb, he doesn't have time to pay attention to me at all, so it's normal to have a normal heart, a person's life is not only love, but also needs a certain economic basis, there will be love, so it's normal to be busy with career.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are just busy and have no intention of taking care of you, this must be understood, and he is unwilling to be busy with work, we can't be unreasonable, but just wait at home.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's hard to take care of others when you're busy, so don't, care too much, and when he's done, he'll come to you and care about you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He doesn't like you enough, but I'm not going to advise you to break up. If I don't like you, just break up, or keep it for the New Year? Many people said so, and then mentioned breaking up, but they regretted it the next day, and they didn't agree to save the other party!

    I was silent for a while, regretting it, and I was sadder than if he didn't reply to your messages, so since you like it, don't listen to what others say. Why do you care so much about your boyfriend? Like me, it's good to find a few more netizens, and there will always be a reply to the message.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It doesn't matter if he's busy, but he can tell me! Is it true that there is no time to send a message? Am I his girlfriend or not!

    Later, he messaged back to me, and I happily chatted with him again. Then he suddenly didn't reply, and I swore that I would learn from him how often he replied to me with a message. He, who was accustomed to being pursued by me, got angry.

    The mood of the two is such a cycle. Actually, I'm not the kind of person who needs him to hold his phone all the time to reply to my messages, and I'm not clingy. I looked for him because I missed him.

    At this time, he only needs to reply to me: Honey, I'm busy, I'll look for you later. Just such a simple sentence can soothe my heart.

    But he couldn't. Actually, I'm also busy, but I care about you, so I'm always free to reply to your messages. But all the boyfriends who make you so entangled in these small issues are all divided, he is not tired and I am tired.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Talk about my boyfriend. It's clear that he's really busy, but it's even clearer that he's not going to be busy and doesn't have time to reply. I understand his fatigue, and please understand me waiting.

    I'm not too idle, I just want to communicate, you're busy, you say, otherwise I'll think you're missing. I'm not a clingy person, when I'm single, I always have something to carry by myself, and after being together, I'm willing to share my joys, sorrows, and sorrows with you, and show you my wounds. I can understand that you want to rest after a busy day, and I can understand that you are filial to leave your hometown immediately and want to talk to your parents more.

    But aren't we also going to be separated? Haven't I had a busy day and asked how you were doing? I really, really, really, feel that my current state is no different from being single.

    Excuse me. No matter how good you are, you are not a qualified boyfriend in my heart. I really can't go any further.

    That's it. What to do without it. ‍‍

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe he's a workaholic, so I think we should respect him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't worry too much, the person who loves you will definitely have time to spend with you, but when you are busy, you may be really busy, understand each other, support each other, and life will get better and better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why are you angry when he is busy with work, and how can he chat with you when he is busy with work? It should be understood that he is very irritable when he is busy with work. But it is not excluded that he does not want to talk to you and uses busyness as an excuse. It's better to observe it yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I almost forgot that I am a person with an object, not a single aristocrat. The so-called woman is the one who pleases herself, after he is too busy, I have been using cosmetics for a long time, and I haven't bought new products for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since the subject is so busy, then you should also learn to experience the other person, and don't always be unreasonable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, everyone has to have their own things to do, and they must have appropriate space and give each other a little more time and space.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will understand the other party very well, because he is busy with hard work and enterprising, and it is also to be able to make his life richer in the future, so I am willing to be the person who silently supports him behind the scenes.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My lover is busy with work, and he talks to him, ignores you, and asks questions that are not answered.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Falling in love is a happy and romantic thing for every couple, but two people will inevitably have some conflicts in the process of getting along, and even quarrels may ignore each other's psychology because of some problems. So how can a boyfriend deal with high emotional intelligence when he is busy? What should I do if my boyfriend is busy and doesn't contact you?

    Let's take a look.

    1. How to deal with your boyfriend's high emotional intelligence when she is busy.

    1. Many times when those girls send messages to their boyfriends, they receive a reply that their boyfriends are busy and don't have time to pay attention to your situation, so in this case, the first reaction of many girls may be to lose their temper. If this is the case, it is likely to lead to the deepening of the conflict between the two people, and finally break up, so we must learn to chat with each other tactfully, at this time we should understand each other more, because the other party is now busy, generally in a tense state, more need to relax, so to show understanding, not to quarrel with him.

    2. Sometimes when your boyfriend is busy, smart girls will say some humorous things to your boyfriend, which can not only relieve the tension in her boyfriend's work, but also relax his mood and make him feel that you are very understanding.

    To sum up, the above is the relevant content introduced about how to deal with high emotional intelligence when your boyfriend is busy, I hope it will be helpful to you. If you have more good suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area below.

    2. What should I do if my boyfriend is busy and doesn't contact you.

    1. This question is actually not very good, because if the other party is really busy with work and does not contact you, you should be more tolerant and understanding, after all, it is also for both parties to live better for each other, and no one wants to spend time on work. If you really want to get in touch with the other person, you can send some greetings to let him know that there is another person who cares about her silently, so that he will feel guilty because he is too busy and neglects you.

    2. Some people will think that it is a good thing for a man to be busy, otherwise a man is idle every day to talk to you about love, what future can he have, so as a girl, don't do too much, you can communicate with the other party, make an appointment in advance, see when he is busy, or not busy when he is not busy and then go to chat with him, if the other party is very busy, don't deliberately disturb the other party.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can send a message to the other party and say: I know that you are busy with work, is it too much not to send a message to your girlfriend all day at that time, and you can't even send me a sentence at meal time, I will be sad if you do this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In this case, you should try to understand your object, it is not easy for him to make money, and it is okay if he can satisfy you financially and in other aspects. Especially on weekends, just make up for it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are busy with work, you can also find yourself something to do to pass the time and help you enjoy life better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then give him time to keep him busy, and you can also arrange your own time sufficiently, just ignore him, and don't forgive him casually.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can ask him what he is busy with, you can go to the square where he is busy to see what he is doing, you can choose to chat when he is not busy, try to choose the time in the morning or evening, and take a lunch break at noon.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At this time, Xiao Wu Fu Yicheng stopped to divert his attention, do his job well, and focus on himself, and after a while, he will take the initiative to come to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Be sure to communicate with the other party more, to understand the other party's real thoughts, at this time you must not be too anxious, to have your own private space.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I believe that many people have encountered this situation, the couple is like glue every day in the pursuit stage, and after a stupid Min chases him, he begins to perfunctory, often using busy work as an excuse to perfunctory objects, what should I do when I encounter this situation?

    What to do if the subject is too busy to ignore people.

    You can talk to the partner about this problem first, and if it is serious, it is still recommended to break up. When chasing you, even if you are really busy, I will find time to tease you. After catching up. You'll just see him getting busier.

    The shorter the message. At this time, if you break up, he will only feel that you are ignorant, inconsiderate of him, and do not empathize. But enthusiasm always runs out.

    No one gets a response, and no one stays enthusiastic forever. Slowly accumulated, and finally in a small detail, the relationship fell apart. We tend to focus on the straw that finally crushed the camel, but we tend to ignore that the camel has endured so much all along.

    Under the guise of falling in love every day, why bother living the life of a single dog?

    What should I do if the subject ignores me while he's busy with work?

    Then don't bother a person who doesn't want to pay attention to you, no matter how busy, tired, and hard he cares about you, he will always have time to send you a text message or make a **, and the person who doesn't care about you will always say that he is ......busy even if he has timeRemember, the people who love you are not willing to let you wait, they are not willing to make you tired, and they will not be indifferent to you.

    Isn't it love that the subject is so busy that he ignores people?

    It may be, or it may be, that the love is not deep enough. Many people don't reply to messages, and when asked why, they will always say, "It's not good, I'm busy, I didn't see it."

    Or: "I'm also very busy, how can I have time to read your news all the time?" "And so on and so forth.

    And when you want to block those who care and care about you with your busyness, have you ever thought about it, because waiting for your message to reply, he or she waited for you for a whole day? You always say you're busy, you're busy, but are you going to be busy all the time, so busy that you don't even have time to reply to messages?

    How to look at the object, busy with work and ignoring people.

    When I am alone, I always envy the life of two people together. I really found a partner, and I thought I could get tired of falling in love with each other every day. However, he ignores people when he is busy, he gets angry when he talks too much, he never returns to messages he sends him, and he loses his temper when he gets home.

    It's the same job when chasing someone, but there's a lot of time to spend with. After falling in love, the taste has changed for a long time, and the message is not returned. It's not that he's really getting busier, it's just that he's ignoring a person.

    Someone who really loves you, no matter how busy they are, will also take the time to accompany you and reply to your messages.

    A low-quality relationship is not as good as a high-quality single.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm sure many people have encountered this situation. Couples are inseparable every day in the pursuit stage, and once they catch up, they start to perfunctory, often using busy work as an excuse to perfunctory objects. What should I do in this situation?

    You can talk to your significant other about this first, and if it's serious, it's advisable to break up. When chasing you, even if you are really busy, they will find time to tease you. After catching up. You'll just see him getting busier.

    Then don't bother someone who doesn't want to pay attention to you. No matter how busy, tired, or hard he is, the people who care about you will always text or call you from time to time. People who don't care about you will keep saying that they are busy, even if they have time.

    Remember, the people who love you are not willing to make you wait, not willing to make you tired, not willing to be indifferent to you.

    It may be, or it may be that the love is not deep enough. A lot of people always say, "I'm sorry, I'm busy and didn't see it." Or: "I'm busy, too." How can I keep watching your news? "And so on and so forth.

    When you want to block those who care about you and care about you in your busy schedule, have you ever thought that he or she has been waiting for you all day? You always say you're busy, you're busy, but you're going to be so busy, so busy that you don't even have time to respond to messages?

    When I am alone, I always envy the life of two people together. I really found a partner, thinking that I could get tired of being together every day and love each other. But when he is busy, he ignores people, gets angry when he talks too much, doesn't reply to messages sent to him, and still loses his temper when he goes home.

    Chasing someone is the same job, but with enough time to be there. Not long after falling in love, my tastes changed, and I didn't reply to messages. It's not that he really got busy, he just ignored one person. Someone who truly loves you, no matter how busy they are, will take time to spend time with you and reply to your messages.

    A low-quality love is not as good as a high-quality single.

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