I seem to have gone bad, 20 25 year old friend helped

Everyone has a love for beauty. It's very normal for you to have such a state of mind, and there is no need to doubt your own normality. But the key question is: Do you know what you're doing? Please think about this question first.

I don't think you really like her. In terms of beauty alone, there is no such thing as the most beautiful woman in the world, there is only one woman and another woman, and it is a question of who is more beautiful. Another possibility is that you are beginning to mature and begin to appreciate beauty, so you find that your current girlfriend is not very beautiful.

However, there is a problem of costing, if you want to get rid of your existing girlfriend, you have to pay a bigger cost to get the heart of a more beautiful woman, this cost can be very high, and there may be a moral price, you have to think clearly, is it worth it? In addition, one day you will get the heart of another woman, and you will find that it is only ......You may think of that "pretty pretty" ex-girlfriend because you once liked her and thought that there must be a more beautiful woman ...... the world

Your mind is very abnormal!

And you're still underage, because at the age of 20, you like to think about these things all day long.

You'll understand this when you're 22 years old, and it's useless to talk to you about it now.

Suggestion: A girl's appearance is not a problem, as long as you like her, the main thing is to see if she has the potential to be tapped, if you all get to the point of having no food, do you see her full? Now the philosophy is about whether there is ability rather than appearance.

She is very beautiful, her psychology is not good, and she raises a little white face behind your back, can you accept it? It's not Zhou Huimin, she can exchange her looks for money, is it okay if your girlfriend is beautiful?

Think about it, right?!

Thinking is normal, because after being together for a long time, people will have feelings of disgust, but I believe in the feelings between you, thinking that you love each other very much, don't lose a person who loves you because of your own thoughts, when love becomes family affection, it is happiness.

This is normal, men, who doesn't want their girlfriends and wives to be beautiful but too beautiful and unsafe, so it depends on the ability of men, heroes and beauties since ancient times. If a man is not capable and has a rake ear, it will be miserable

What the man says verbally, he doesn't care about the woman's appearance is fake.

Because you can't eat grapes, you can't say that grapes are sour.

I didn't come across a better, more beautiful course, but I will pull it down first.

I am a man ... I know... It's normal...

You don't understand anything. You've got a lot to go through in your life.

yes, I don't understand anything, what kind of love is that.

If you're friends, then go ahead, and I'm sure he'll be the same in front of you as before, because that's a tacit understanding.

If you think that's the case, you'd better ignore it.

It's just his person, not friendship, to turn bad old and you can use your friendship to turn him back!!

Aren't you tall? Hefei people?

Because they are getting closer and closer to real life, they are all selfishly busy for themselves. Time and circumstances change everything!! There will be fewer and fewer friends in the true sense of the word. It's nice to have one in your life!! Seek adoption.

I think there are many reasons here, but I personally think there are three reasons that are the most important, one is the environment, the process of people growing up is actually the process of moving from a small environment to a large environment, we all know how big the environment is to people's environment; The second is life, when people grow up, they can no longer live in the arms of their parents, for their own lives, for their own small families, we have to work hard every day, less time and energy; The third should be interests, relatively when we grow up, we have too much time to involve interests, and sometimes we will inevitably offend many people for our own interests, including our friends. Of course, there should be many, many reasons, but I personally think that these three reasons are still important.

Maybe there is too little help for friends and too little understanding. True friends help each other, think about whether you are doing something wrong, and communicate with your friends more so that you can really know why you have fewer and fewer friends.

Because you're getting busier and busier, you're getting less and less in touch with them.

Because friends are fighting for the sake of profit and don't care about their feelings!

Because society is becoming more and more realistic ...

It may be that you don't communicate much with your friends, so you should take the initiative.

The most you can say hello when you meet is why bother? The most basic condition for becoming friends is that they must be friends with each other in order to be friends.

It is not that he or she will be the first to think of you when he or she is in trouble, but that you will be the first to think of you when you can help him/her. A friend who knows that you will do your best to help you when you are in trouble is true friendship. In today's real society, those who have financial interests are good friends.

Ordinary friends only chat together occasionally, good friends want to take advantage of you, intimate friends are ambiguous relationships, and friends and friends will try their best to help you when you are in trouble (really know which is a friend or a friend only if there are big changes in your economic environment (for the better or for the worse).When you encounter difficulties, the people who don't help you are also friends! That's just a friend of wine and meat.

If it's like that, it's not a friend, and I don't treat them as friends, and if I'm in a good mood, I'll help him, and if I'm in a bad mood, I'll treat him whatever he treats me

thinks that the beauty of the long makes Tan Feng come out of the sorrow, as for it? I turned off the lights in the evening, it's not the same, what do you have to serve right, what other women have, it's better than you, hey, let's practice again. What a thin life since ancient times.

Little Lori, don't wander around if it's okay, be careful of falling into the pit Leon!

Too skinny to stand the toss.

But you're too bad.

I think I'm still looking at the past.

There are so many people who reply. I think that his appearance is not good, and he is gone.

I don't know if you are a sister or a sister, and I don't know the definition of "handsome" in you!

Mobile phone number or QQ sent, one-on-one chat, absolutely handsome.

I really want to kiss you, and I'm drooling.

The situation you mentioned is exactly the same as mine, I also once had a friend like this, and then I couldn't bear it anymore, and finally chose to break up. Here I give you two ways to deal with it:

1.If you don't want to pay attention to him in the future, then quickly cut through the mess and tell him bluntly, I don't want to be with you in the future, please don't come to play with me in the future, I think after you finish talking to him like this, he should be self-aware no matter how thick-skinned he is.

2.If you feel that the first method is too direct, for fear of hurting his self-esteem or violating your principles of life, you can use the second method. You can slowly distance yourself from him consciously or unconsciously, and watch his reflection, and when he feels what you mean, you have to show it more obviously, so that after a period of time, you can tell him what you think, I think he should understand that you and he are not on the same path.

From your account, I think you are now very disgusted with him, and I can't remember who said something like: "Look at who you are with, you know who you are". For the sake of your reputation and future, I suggest that you better part ways with him.

I hope that all of the above can help you, and I sincerely wish you to manage this relationship well and spend each day in an environment full of joy and laughter.

I feel that true friends are not like this, they are not real friends like this, and making friends with good people will become good, and friends with bad people will become bad, so I feel like I should break up but there is a saying: "Friends know us in good times, and we know friends in bad times." ”

If it's really a "friend" for many years, maybe you can give him one last try, pretend you're in trouble, see what he does, and then make a review

Hee-hee, euphemistically dodge

Then you say that you want to run and exercise, and when he comes to you in the future, you will ask him to go to the playground with you to run laps to see if he still goes

He's a cheeky and cheap guy His family is rich and still like this He wants to look for you directly like this again You open the door and say that you want to go out or have an appointment He wants to say that he doesn't have any money, but in the end you see it yourself again You jokingly ask him "What is this, hehe" If it really doesn't work, you just tell him that you are in a bad mood recently I just want to be alone and quiet I don't want others to disturb him If he is pretending to be kind to accompany you, how can I take the opportunity to get angry and quarrel with him Tell me how unhappy your heart is Kick him out and throw him out the back door Haha This result is not exactly what you want Want to tactfully avoid him? You'd better move, or you'll have to worry about it.

It feels like he's making friends on a small bargain, does he have any other friends?

It is advisable to stay away from him, and if he still pesters you with a dead face, he will announce his lack of virtue to the world and let everyone isolate him.

Try to communicate with him and reveal your thoughts to him more tactfully.

Maybe he has suffered more since he was a child, so he is more frugal.

My boyfriend was also very stingy when he first dated me, and I almost stopped dating him at first, but then I realized that he has always been very frugal and has been much more generous to me and others. Now that I have been dating for a long time, I find that he is not stingy, he spends what he should spend, and he does not spend what he shouldn't.

Wow! It's annoying! I also have stingy friends, but they haven't reached this level yet, hehe.

If it were me, I wouldn't have ignored him.

His friends didn't slaughter him.

I actually used you like this.

Ignore him.

It's not that you can't make friends.

People like him shouldn't have friends around them.

It's a luxury for him.

It's not worth ignoring him.

Make another friend and ignore him directly. Nothing to be embarrassed about.

However, he felt your avoidance and retreated.

It seems that he is really stingy, but he often plays with you, and should treat you as a friend, but if he is stingy, it should be related to his family, maybe his family was very poor when he was young or the education of his parents, if you treat him as a friend, you can tolerate him, you can try to go out without much money, see if he is willing to pay? If he still values money more than friendship, it seems that this friend is really not very suitable for you to socialize, and there are many people who are suitable for you to be your friend. You have to think about every choice your friends make, as long as you feel right, you should do it boldly, and don't think too much about other people's opinions.

Believe in yourself 、、、 wish you happiness!!

If you really don't want to pay attention to him, then you really don't bring money a few times, and when you go out to play with money, you just open your pocket and show him... As for washing your hands or something, let him wash it, don't lose his demeanor for revenge... When you go to his house to wash your hands, don't say anything, just use the faucet, no, he can still forcibly pull you open.

Slowly alienate him.

If he's looking for you, don't open the door to him.

I think your friend is a bit of a villain, the father of a gentleman.

Spend money on a wild spree, treat him to a meal, do anything, and then say to him in a joking tone, "You're so thick-skinned, and you're embarrassed." If he doesn't respond, he will never speak.

Slowly be cold to him, and finally ignore him.

Life is short for decades, and we know a lot of people, but we should be selective in making friends and don't let unimportant people influence us.

Hehe, gradually alienate him, this kind of person is not worth making friends, he only knows how to ask and does not know how to give.

Maybe you don't want to use your friend at all...Anyway, it's not fun for this kind of person to make friends.

I have a friend and yours who are carved out of the same mold, the only difference is that your friend is rich and my friend is really poor. My friend only buys his own when he goes out to buy ice cream, buys a ticket and only buys his own, goes to him to play, only takes 2 cigarettes out, I can't stand it, he needs my help when he looks for me, I am stronger than him, I know more than him, so he often asks me for help, but he always can't remember my favor to him, only know to remember not to let yourself suffer such a person, I really can't stand it, I don't want to make friends, although we have been friends for 7 years, but recently we have not seen each other often!

I'm different from my friends, when I was a kid, when I was 5 years old, I met a few friends who were boys, and they were all more handsome than me.55555

But one of them and I is really better than brothers. I've known each other for more than 10 years, and as long as everyone gets together, I don't have to pay, either I treat or they do. Whoever invites it is the same haha, that's how it is called a brother!!

Distinguish the difference between a friend and a bad friend, and you will know what to do with him.

Wait. People's habits, the environment that grows up influences. Or genetic problems.

My cousin is also very buttoned. The family taught her how to save, but she slowly became too picky and stingy! People are like this, and it doesn't matter if this kind of friend turns his face!